This wedding is beautiful. Will kopelman (Drew's ex) and Allie Micheler

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Anonymous wrote:Her forehead is very broad at the top which is what is throwing me off. It’s the opposite of the oval shaped face. Which has a high and often large forehead but still tapers at the top.

I also just want to give her a sandwich, yes she’s skinny but I’m not getting woman vibes from her, no softness, no breast, no butt, large misshapen head. Without all of the airbrushing and makeup artistry…. I suspect she more resembles Skelator than svelte leggy beauty.

Seriously some of you are so self loathing… it leaps off of the page here. Only a trans teenager or pre pubescent girl could possibly meet the ideal some of you strive for. It’s not realistic for most young women. Otherwise you are starving yourself, dying or lightening things or lopping off body parts. So very unhealthy.

Having small breasts and butt DOES NOT mean someone is not feminine. She looks more feminine to me than those grotesque women with implants and good for her for not getting a boob job at her net worth. Kerri Walsh Jennings is an A cup at best, has no fat on her butt and she breastfed her 3 kids successfully. We need to get away from the myth that feminine means looking like an inflatable sex doll.

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Thank you. So sick of hearing this garbage about thin women not being "real women." People cannot help their genetics - as I'm sure some of the overweight posters here would agree.

If you look at movie stars from the 30's, 40's and 50's most of them had Allie's type of figure--B cup or maybe a bit smaller. You did not
have the extreme breast augmentation that is performed now. As a small chested woman I think woman with small busts age more youthfully.
My large busted friends just look extremely matronly at age 45 and older. Allie's Mom is pictured in one of the images and she is very attractive and natural looking.

Agree. I have always had small breasts and when I was a teen, I remember telling my mom one day I would get implants. She simply said that large breasts (on me) would make me look a lot heavier than I am. Now that I'm a middle-aged woman, I'm so grateful she said that. She was exactly right. I'm thankful for my small bust now.

This is so stupid. Plenty of big chested woman age well, just like plenty of small chested women. And of course there are some big chested women who age horribly, just like small chested. You know what’s really funny, the women who swear they look great for their age but others don’t see it. Looking in the mirror ppl see what they want. You’re way more unattractive than you think.

The well endowed lady who is well nourished is less likely to fall over and break a hip in her 60s. There is nothing cute about a skinny old lady with broken hips and a stooped posture. Ladies drink your milk and don’t be afraid of a little extra padding. It might just save your life one day.

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Anonymous wrote:Why would someone like her marry a washed up
Man with kids ?

$$$$$

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Anonymous wrote:I still can’t get over how much Will looks like he could be her father rather than her husband. He looks so old! And that suit - the color and fit were just hideous!

This +100. She's a beautiful woman but the dress was overkill for that setting and it clashed with the low key vibe of the groom's clothes.

You know what really clashed? The bride and groom.

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Are we done bashing them?

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Does anyone know where to get the sheets sets in pic 17? I NEED them!! (Sorry for not knowing how to post a picture)

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Anonymous wrote:Her forehead is very broad at the top which is what is throwing me off. It’s the opposite of the oval shaped face. Which has a high and often large forehead but still tapers at the top.

I also just want to give her a sandwich, yes she’s skinny but I’m not getting woman vibes from her, no softness, no breast, no butt, large misshapen head. Without all of the airbrushing and makeup artistry…. I suspect she more resembles Skelator than svelte leggy beauty.

Seriously some of you are so self loathing… it leaps off of the page here. Only a trans teenager or pre pubescent girl could possibly meet the ideal some of you strive for. It’s not realistic for most young women. Otherwise you are starving yourself, dying or lightening things or lopping off body parts. So very unhealthy.

Having small breasts and butt DOES NOT mean someone is not feminine. She looks more feminine to me than those grotesque women with implants and good for her for not getting a boob job at her net worth. Kerri Walsh Jennings is an A cup at best, has no fat on her butt and she breastfed her 3 kids successfully. We need to get away from the myth that feminine means looking like an inflatable sex doll.

+1
Thank you. So sick of hearing this garbage about thin women not being "real women." People cannot help their genetics - as I'm sure some of the overweight posters here would agree.

If you look at movie stars from the 30's, 40's and 50's most of them had Allie's type of figure--B cup or maybe a bit smaller. You did not
have the extreme breast augmentation that is performed now. As a small chested woman I think woman with small busts age more youthfully.
My large busted friends just look extremely matronly at age 45 and older. Allie's Mom is pictured in one of the images and she is very attractive and natural looking.

Agree. I have always had small breasts and when I was a teen, I remember telling my mom one day I would get implants. She simply said that large breasts (on me) would make me look a lot heavier than I am. Now that I'm a middle-aged woman, I'm so grateful she said that. She was exactly right. I'm thankful for my small bust now.

This is so stupid. Plenty of big chested woman age well, just like plenty of small chested women. And of course there are some big chested women who age horribly, just like small chested. You know what’s really funny, the women who swear they look great for their age but others don’t see it. Looking in the mirror ppl see what they want. You’re way more unattractive than you think.

The well endowed lady who is well nourished is less likely to fall over and break a hip in her 60s. There is nothing cute about a skinny old lady with broken hips and a stooped posture. Ladies drink your milk and don’t be afraid of a little extra padding. It might just save your life one day.

My overweight, 90 year old aunt fell down several of her outside concrete steps and ultimately hit her head on the pavement. Her face was bloody and she was concussed but her dr. said the same. It cushioned her. No other bodily injury.

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Anonymous wrote:I just wasted 4 minutes looking through that slideshow and reading the cringey captions. That was so bland. And, do they really have no Black friends or any POC to invite to their wedding? I mean, do they not even try to have some diverse friends? I just find it surprising.
Not a spectacular wedding at all. Pretty boring and bland.

Ah, there you are. The expected race-baiter, right on time. Get a life.

Dp - you’re joking, right? There were 60+ pictures and barely a brunette, let alone a person of any color other than lily white.

And this is a problem for you why, exactly? Do you typically critique wedding photos from say, black families, and become outraged that there are few or no white faces? You sound like an absolute idiot. Your fixation on race is why people can't stand you.

NP but actually the people responding "should they hire some blacks? do you critique the blacks??" are the ones who sound like absolute idiots. There is not a single person of color in any picture, and there are entirely too many pictures to begin with. Not a solitary Asian guest, Latino, Native, Black, nada. If you make it to the age of 40 without a single friend who doesn't look like they could be your cousin, it's noteworthy and definitely a conscious choice. It stands out and I can't help but wonder if it's intentional to complement their "Old World Nantucket" aesthetic.

You're one of *those* people, right? The type who looks for offence where there is none. You must be exhausting to be around, let alone live with.

I'm a person who was raised in the United States of America in the late twentieth century and as a result knows people of many races. Sorry if that means you need a nap.

You're a virtue signaling ninny and no one - NO ONE - cares how many people of different races you know. But no doubt your hobby is listing them all on a spreadsheet and patting yourself on the back. Enjoy!

Diversity certainly is a virtue, but embracing it is not a signal. It's interesting how infuriated you are by the concept though. Economic anxiety strikes again.

OTC, it is you who is infuriated by the idea white people. How upsetting!

You've called everyone you've responded to on this thread names and resorted to personal attacks in each and every response. It's a little late to aim for "unbothered" at this point. But I guess if you believe in "race baiting" you must be easily baited.

Okay so I've gotten to page 9 or something, haven't gotten through everything, but I'm that PP who is apparently being called a race-baiter. That is just weird.
I never said they're racist. I never said they need to "hire a bunch of Blacks." Gosh, these responses are so weird.
I said I was surprised.
Surprised because I am 33 years old, not super progressive, grew up in the Midwest, but yeah, for many years now I have had the understanding that as a white person I would definitely be better off getting to know and be friends with Black people and people of other races/cultures. Yes, it actually takes some effort. I don't like to admit that. I realized at one point that my family grew up not talking about race, as if talking about it meant you're dividing people or being somehow racist.
Yes, it is surprising to me that in 2022, a 33 yo woman and 43 yo man in the USA have a large luxurious wedding with no guests from other races.
I can't read into their intent, or oversight, or whatever, but yes I find it odd and surprising, and I would probably find it an awkward aspect if I were to attend a wedding like this.
Not sure if I should even share this detail but I'm married to a black man. We have 3 beautiful biracial children. So yes I think about these kinds of things.
And yes I think everyone would benefit from having a diverse social circle. It may take effort. But it's worth it.

Of course you think about this. You're married to a black man and have biracial children. Obviously your in-laws are black as well, so you know a lot of black people. Congrats? That doesn't make you somehow more virtuous, yet it certainly sounds like you consider yourself to be. You're obviously hyper-attuned to race due to your marriage and kids. Most of us aren't. We don't see everything through the racial lens you clearly do.

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So beautiful

Why the hat? Why the black sandals? I thought that first picture was of younger sister or something. It's almost like a Mennonite aesthetic. Like, how to make a beautiful, fit/skinny 33 yo woman look like a shapeless, style-less person vaguely somewhere between 12 and 20 years old? Put on a funny straw hat, shapeless dress and black sandals. Kind of a confusing choice for a lunch before your wedding.

Because she liked it? I find it surprising and odd that you are so critical of this wedding. Why? Why do you feel it necessary to dump on a perfect stranger's wedding day? I honestly can't imagine picking apart someone the way you have. What do you get out of it?

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Anonymous wrote:Her forehead is very broad at the top which is what is throwing me off. It’s the opposite of the oval shaped face. Which has a high and often large forehead but still tapers at the top.

I also just want to give her a sandwich, yes she’s skinny but I’m not getting woman vibes from her, no softness, no breast, no butt, large misshapen head. Without all of the airbrushing and makeup artistry…. I suspect she more resembles Skelator than svelte leggy beauty.

Seriously some of you are so self loathing… it leaps off of the page here. Only a trans teenager or pre pubescent girl could possibly meet the ideal some of you strive for. It’s not realistic for most young women. Otherwise you are starving yourself, dying or lightening things or lopping off body parts. So very unhealthy.

Having small breasts and butt DOES NOT mean someone is not feminine. She looks more feminine to me than those grotesque women with implants and good for her for not getting a boob job at her net worth. Kerri Walsh Jennings is an A cup at best, has no fat on her butt and she breastfed her 3 kids successfully. We need to get away from the myth that feminine means looking like an inflatable sex doll.

+1
Thank you. So sick of hearing this garbage about thin women not being "real women." People cannot help their genetics - as I'm sure some of the overweight posters here would agree.

If you look at movie stars from the 30's, 40's and 50's most of them had Allie's type of figure--B cup or maybe a bit smaller. You did not
have the extreme breast augmentation that is performed now. As a small chested woman I think woman with small busts age more youthfully.
My large busted friends just look extremely matronly at age 45 and older. Allie's Mom is pictured in one of the images and she is very attractive and natural looking.

Agree. I have always had small breasts and when I was a teen, I remember telling my mom one day I would get implants. She simply said that large breasts (on me) would make me look a lot heavier than I am. Now that I'm a middle-aged woman, I'm so grateful she said that. She was exactly right. I'm thankful for my small bust now.

This is so stupid. Plenty of big chested woman age well, just like plenty of small chested women. And of course there are some big chested women who age horribly, just like small chested. You know what’s really funny, the women who swear they look great for their age but others don’t see it. Looking in the mirror ppl see what they want. You’re way more attractive than you think.

Stupid? I was talking about myself - no one else - just myself. I never said large-chested women don't age well. I said I wouldn't have looked good with big, fake breasts. Which is true. And which is why I'm glad I have a small chest. I guess I should have run my opinion about MYSELF by you first, for approval.

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Anonymous wrote:Her forehead is very broad at the top which is what is throwing me off. It’s the opposite of the oval shaped face. Which has a high and often large forehead but still tapers at the top.

I also just want to give her a sandwich, yes she’s skinny but I’m not getting woman vibes from her, no softness, no breast, no butt, large misshapen head. Without all of the airbrushing and makeup artistry…. I suspect she more resembles Skelator than svelte leggy beauty.

Seriously some of you are so self loathing… it leaps off of the page here. Only a trans teenager or pre pubescent girl could possibly meet the ideal some of you strive for. It’s not realistic for most young women. Otherwise you are starving yourself, dying or lightening things or lopping off body parts. So very unhealthy.

Having small breasts and butt DOES NOT mean someone is not feminine. She looks more feminine to me than those grotesque women with implants and good for her for not getting a boob job at her net worth. Kerri Walsh Jennings is an A cup at best, has no fat on her butt and she breastfed her 3 kids successfully. We need to get away from the myth that feminine means looking like an inflatable sex doll.

+1
Thank you. So sick of hearing this garbage about thin women not being "real women." People cannot help their genetics - as I'm sure some of the overweight posters here would agree.

If you look at movie stars from the 30's, 40's and 50's most of them had Allie's type of figure--B cup or maybe a bit smaller. You did not
have the extreme breast augmentation that is performed now. As a small chested woman I think woman with small busts age more youthfully.
My large busted friends just look extremely matronly at age 45 and older. Allie's Mom is pictured in one of the images and she is very attractive and natural looking.

Agree. I have always had small breasts and when I was a teen, I remember telling my mom one day I would get implants. She simply said that large breasts (on me) would make me look a lot heavier than I am. Now that I'm a middle-aged woman, I'm so grateful she said that. She was exactly right. I'm thankful for my small bust now.

This is so stupid. Plenty of big chested woman age well, just like plenty of small chested women. And of course there are some big chested women who age horribly, just like small chested. You know what’s really funny, the women who swear they look great for their age but others don’t see it. Looking in the mirror ppl see what they want. You’re way more unattractive than you think.

The well endowed lady who is well nourished is less likely to fall over and break a hip in her 60s. There is nothing cute about a skinny old lady with broken hips and a stooped posture. Ladies drink your milk and don’t be afraid of a little extra padding. It might just save your life one day.

Nor is there anything cute about an overweight old lady who can't move around because she's so heavy.

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Anonymous wrote:Are we done bashing them?

No, some people haven't gotten it out of their system yet. Lots of venom left for them!

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Anonymous wrote:I just wasted 4 minutes looking through that slideshow and reading the cringey captions. That was so bland. And, do they really have no Black friends or any POC to invite to their wedding? I mean, do they not even try to have some diverse friends? I just find it surprising.
Not a spectacular wedding at all. Pretty boring and bland.

Ah, there you are. The expected race-baiter, right on time. Get a life.

Dp - you’re joking, right? There were 60+ pictures and barely a brunette, let alone a person of any color other than lily white.

And this is a problem for you why, exactly? Do you typically critique wedding photos from say, black families, and become outraged that there are few or no white faces? You sound like an absolute idiot. Your fixation on race is why people can't stand you.

NP but actually the people responding "should they hire some blacks? do you critique the blacks??" are the ones who sound like absolute idiots. There is not a single person of color in any picture, and there are entirely too many pictures to begin with. Not a solitary Asian guest, Latino, Native, Black, nada. If you make it to the age of 40 without a single friend who doesn't look like they could be your cousin, it's noteworthy and definitely a conscious choice. It stands out and I can't help but wonder if it's intentional to complement their "Old World Nantucket" aesthetic.

You're one of *those* people, right? The type who looks for offence where there is none. You must be exhausting to be around, let alone live with.

I'm a person who was raised in the United States of America in the late twentieth century and as a result knows people of many races. Sorry if that means you need a nap.

You're a virtue signaling ninny and no one - NO ONE - cares how many people of different races you know. But no doubt your hobby is listing them all on a spreadsheet and patting yourself on the back. Enjoy!

Diversity certainly is a virtue, but embracing it is not a signal. It's interesting how infuriated you are by the concept though. Economic anxiety strikes again.

OTC, it is you who is infuriated by the idea white people. How upsetting!

You've called everyone you've responded to on this thread names and resorted to personal attacks in each and every response. It's a little late to aim for "unbothered" at this point. But I guess if you believe in "race baiting" you must be easily baited.

Okay so I've gotten to page 9 or something, haven't gotten through everything, but I'm that PP who is apparently being called a race-baiter. That is just weird.
I never said they're racist. I never said they need to "hire a bunch of Blacks." Gosh, these responses are so weird.
I said I was surprised.
Surprised because I am 33 years old, not super progressive, grew up in the Midwest, but yeah, for many years now I have had the understanding that as a white person I would definitely be better off getting to know and be friends with Black people and people of other races/cultures. Yes, it actually takes some effort. I don't like to admit that. I realized at one point that my family grew up not talking about race, as if talking about it meant you're dividing people or being somehow racist.
Yes, it is surprising to me that in 2022, a 33 yo woman and 43 yo man in the USA have a large luxurious wedding with no guests from other races.
I can't read into their intent, or oversight, or whatever, but yes I find it odd and surprising, and I would probably find it an awkward aspect if I were to attend a wedding like this.
Not sure if I should even share this detail but I'm married to a black man. We have 3 beautiful biracial children. So yes I think about these kinds of things.
And yes I think everyone would benefit from having a diverse social circle. It may take effort. But it's worth it.

Of course you think about this. You're married to a black man and have biracial children. Obviously your in-laws are black as well, so you know a lot of black people. Congrats? That doesn't make you somehow more virtuous, yet it certainly sounds like you consider yourself to be. You're obviously hyper-attuned to race due to your marriage and kids. Most of us aren't. We don't see everything through the racial lens you clearly do.

It's not about being "hyper-attuned to race", it's realizing that, unless you consciously decided to only befriend white people, it would basically be impossible to live in the places they've lived in, and attend the schools they attended, and NOT have friends who are POC. It's not like these people grew up in some entirely white small town in Wyoming. They're from Manhattan, FFS. They went to the sort of private schools that are intentionally very diverse. It's strange, and statistically unlikely that they wouldn't have made any non-white friends, ever, unless that was their choice.

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Anonymous wrote:Her forehead is very broad at the top which is what is throwing me off. It’s the opposite of the oval shaped face. Which has a high and often large forehead but still tapers at the top.

I also just want to give her a sandwich, yes she’s skinny but I’m not getting woman vibes from her, no softness, no breast, no butt, large misshapen head. Without all of the airbrushing and makeup artistry…. I suspect she more resembles Skelator than svelte leggy beauty.

Seriously some of you are so self loathing… it leaps off of the page here. Only a trans teenager or pre pubescent girl could possibly meet the ideal some of you strive for. It’s not realistic for most young women. Otherwise you are starving yourself, dying or lightening things or lopping off body parts. So very unhealthy.

Having small breasts and butt DOES NOT mean someone is not feminine. She looks more feminine to me than those grotesque women with implants and good for her for not getting a boob job at her net worth. Kerri Walsh Jennings is an A cup at best, has no fat on her butt and she breastfed her 3 kids successfully. We need to get away from the myth that feminine means looking like an inflatable sex doll.

+1
Thank you. So sick of hearing this garbage about thin women not being "real women." People cannot help their genetics - as I'm sure some of the overweight posters here would agree.

If you look at movie stars from the 30's, 40's and 50's most of them had Allie's type of figure--B cup or maybe a bit smaller. You did not
have the extreme breast augmentation that is performed now. As a small chested woman I think woman with small busts age more youthfully.
My large busted friends just look extremely matronly at age 45 and older. Allie's Mom is pictured in one of the images and she is very attractive and natural looking.

Agree. I have always had small breasts and when I was a teen, I remember telling my mom one day I would get implants. She simply said that large breasts (on me) would make me look a lot heavier than I am. Now that I'm a middle-aged woman, I'm so grateful she said that. She was exactly right. I'm thankful for my small bust now.

This is so stupid. Plenty of big chested woman age well, just like plenty of small chested women. And of course there are some big chested women who age horribly, just like small chested. You know what’s really funny, the women who swear they look great for their age but others don’t see it. Looking in the mirror ppl see what they want. You’re way more unattractive than you think.

Stupid? I was talking about myself - no one else - just myself. I never said large-chested women don't age well. I said I wouldn't have looked good with big, fake breasts. Which is true. And which is why I'm glad I have a small chest. I guess I should have run my opinion about MYSELF by you first, for approval.

Stupid.

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Anonymous wrote:I just wasted 4 minutes looking through that slideshow and reading the cringey captions. That was so bland. And, do they really have no Black friends or any POC to invite to their wedding? I mean, do they not even try to have some diverse friends? I just find it surprising.
Not a spectacular wedding at all. Pretty boring and bland.

Ah, there you are. The expected race-baiter, right on time. Get a life.

Dp - you’re joking, right? There were 60+ pictures and barely a brunette, let alone a person of any color other than lily white.

And this is a problem for you why, exactly? Do you typically critique wedding photos from say, black families, and become outraged that there are few or no white faces? You sound like an absolute idiot. Your fixation on race is why people can't stand you.

NP but actually the people responding "should they hire some blacks? do you critique the blacks??" are the ones who sound like absolute idiots. There is not a single person of color in any picture, and there are entirely too many pictures to begin with. Not a solitary Asian guest, Latino, Native, Black, nada. If you make it to the age of 40 without a single friend who doesn't look like they could be your cousin, it's noteworthy and definitely a conscious choice. It stands out and I can't help but wonder if it's intentional to complement their "Old World Nantucket" aesthetic.

You're one of *those* people, right? The type who looks for offence where there is none. You must be exhausting to be around, let alone live with.

I'm a person who was raised in the United States of America in the late twentieth century and as a result knows people of many races. Sorry if that means you need a nap.

You're a virtue signaling ninny and no one - NO ONE - cares how many people of different races you know. But no doubt your hobby is listing them all on a spreadsheet and patting yourself on the back. Enjoy!

Diversity certainly is a virtue, but embracing it is not a signal. It's interesting how infuriated you are by the concept though. Economic anxiety strikes again.

OTC, it is you who is infuriated by the idea white people. How upsetting!

You've called everyone you've responded to on this thread names and resorted to personal attacks in each and every response. It's a little late to aim for "unbothered" at this point. But I guess if you believe in "race baiting" you must be easily baited.

Okay so I've gotten to page 9 or something, haven't gotten through everything, but I'm that PP who is apparently being called a race-baiter. That is just weird.
I never said they're racist. I never said they need to "hire a bunch of Blacks." Gosh, these responses are so weird.
I said I was surprised.
Surprised because I am 33 years old, not super progressive, grew up in the Midwest, but yeah, for many years now I have had the understanding that as a white person I would definitely be better off getting to know and be friends with Black people and people of other races/cultures. Yes, it actually takes some effort. I don't like to admit that. I realized at one point that my family grew up not talking about race, as if talking about it meant you're dividing people or being somehow racist.
Yes, it is surprising to me that in 2022, a 33 yo woman and 43 yo man in the USA have a large luxurious wedding with no guests from other races.
I can't read into their intent, or oversight, or whatever, but yes I find it odd and surprising, and I would probably find it an awkward aspect if I were to attend a wedding like this.
Not sure if I should even share this detail but I'm married to a black man. We have 3 beautiful biracial children. So yes I think about these kinds of things.
And yes I think everyone would benefit from having a diverse social circle. It may take effort. But it's worth it.

Of course you think about this. You're married to a black man and have biracial children. Obviously your in-laws are black as well, so you know a lot of black people. Congrats? That doesn't make you somehow more virtuous, yet it certainly sounds like you consider yourself to be. You're obviously hyper-attuned to race due to your marriage and kids. Most of us aren't. We don't see everything through the racial lens you clearly do.

It's not about being "hyper-attuned to race", it's realizing that, unless you consciously decided to only befriend white people, it would basically be impossible to live in the places they've lived in, and attend the schools they attended, and NOT have friends who are POC. It's not like these people grew up in some entirely white small town in Wyoming. They're from Manhattan, FFS. They went to the sort of private schools that are intentionally very diverse. It's strange, and statistically unlikely that they wouldn't have made any non-white friends, ever, unless that was their choice.

It’s not strange at all honestly. Most rich wealthy white people don’t have a lot of POC as friends.

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Anonymous wrote:Her forehead is very broad at the top which is what is throwing me off. It’s the opposite of the oval shaped face. Which has a high and often large forehead but still tapers at the top.

I also just want to give her a sandwich, yes she’s skinny but I’m not getting woman vibes from her, no softness, no breast, no butt, large misshapen head. Without all of the airbrushing and makeup artistry…. I suspect she more resembles Skelator than svelte leggy beauty.

Seriously some of you are so self loathing… it leaps off of the page here. Only a trans teenager or pre pubescent girl could possibly meet the ideal some of you strive for. It’s not realistic for most young women. Otherwise you are starving yourself, dying or lightening things or lopping off body parts. So very unhealthy.

Having small breasts and butt DOES NOT mean someone is not feminine. She looks more feminine to me than those grotesque women with implants and good for her for not getting a boob job at her net worth. Kerri Walsh Jennings is an A cup at best, has no fat on her butt and she breastfed her 3 kids successfully. We need to get away from the myth that feminine means looking like an inflatable sex doll.

+1
Thank you. So sick of hearing this garbage about thin women not being "real women." People cannot help their genetics - as I'm sure some of the overweight posters here would agree.

If you look at movie stars from the 30's, 40's and 50's most of them had Allie's type of figure--B cup or maybe a bit smaller. You did not
have the extreme breast augmentation that is performed now. As a small chested woman I think woman with small busts age more youthfully.
My large busted friends just look extremely matronly at age 45 and older. Allie's Mom is pictured in one of the images and she is very attractive and natural looking.

"pictured in one of the images" is this Google translate?