living rent free in ur head... |
I'm not opposed to a therapist in the school, but seriously, do you think ONE therapist can walk the halls and keep the kids from becoming violent? I like the Dads on Duty idea, but I disagree with a PP who stated that UMC moms would be upset about it. IMO, it's the woke brigade who would be upset by it. They will accuse some dad (most likely white) of yelling at a kid and so the whole batch needs to be thrown out. Oh, sorry, they are volunteers, not cops paid for by taxpayers, so maybe that's more acceptable to the PP who doesn't want SROs because they are paid for by taxdollars and the entire police system is corrupt. That PP still hasn't said whether they would call the cops or not if someone was trying to stab their kid. |
In my years of pta experience, immigrant and poc dads plus white moms answer the calls for volunteers..not white males. |
How is a therapist going to stop a knife fight? That’s absurd. We have counselors in the school now. They have not stepped in and stopped all the problems in these school the last few months. |
It’s security. Dads on duty are free. How many dads can take off during the day and do it. That’s why we need Sro. |
This model is basically unpaid sro. Why don’t you volunteer? |
| So we expect moms to drop everything and bake, volunteer, steer committees… but if dads are needed, we suddenly find budget? Wow! |
| I would love to volunteer! How do make this a reality? |
I don't disagree. I'm pro SRO. Just pointing out that a therapist alone can't do much. |
I guess it depends on where you live. I see a lot of white dads volunteering where I live, in a non W cluster. |
Do you sit at home making up scenarios like this to fuel your need for outrage? |
In other words, "I have no evidence that SROs deter crime and no desire to check if they do even just by doing a Google search, I just want to assert they do repeatedly because it feels true to me and that gives my life some semblance of meaning". |
The Dads’ brigade was AA men. |
yes, but that was in LA. I do like the idea, though. |
Might help if more of the therapists were from similar ethnic, racial, and religious backgrounds as the kids. I can speak from the experience of being an adult that is very hard to spend half a 50 min session trying to give someone context do that they even understand your issue. It’s draining and when you have a limited amount of time, it’s kind of unfair. My insurance pays for 10 sessions a year. Imagine spending 10 of those just trying to explain why the scenarios for WASP families that your therapist knows by heart don’t work for yours. |