The mindset expressed in this mother's letter to the Atlantic about her DC's college application experience explains a bit how we get to the college admissions scandal. There is a view that there are only a few highly selective schools that are acceptable, and that acceptance to any one of them is indicative of your worth as a student and a human being. Right now, my DD is applying for internships and she is frustrated at not getting the ones she want and in exasperation she has asked me "don't you think I deserve it?" Yes, she works hard. Yes, she has good grades. Yes, she goes to a "good school." Yet, I have a very hard time telling her "yes, you deserve it and it is not fair that you are not being selected/" I haven't yet figured out how to answer her question.
That being said, the Mom who writes this letter to the Atlantic is a nutcase and she is going to ruin her child for life. Life is not fair! Get over it! You do not have a right to attend an Ivy League or any other school. https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2019/02/im-worried-my-son-wont-get-good-college/582979/ |
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I have a pair of children in selective colleges and two more heading soon. USC has over 20,000 undergrads, antithesis of tiny, hyper-exclusive Ivies – it's a massive rich slacker bimbo/douchebag school. They only jumped in rankings because of endowment, they literally bribe thousands of truly smart kids with big scholarships, ala Alabama, and a huge surge in international apps. The obese layabout idiot Rob Kardashian recently graduated from USC's business school! lol Again, if your daughter is a pretty bimbo, nobody is more impressed she's a USC undergrad instead of SMU. This entire thing is just batsh*t crazy. Ruined their reputations and jeopardized their freedom so their kids can attend a 20-something US News instead of a 40-something (Pepperdine) or 50-something (SMU) US News? It's akin to all the obnoxious rich Jersey/Long Island kids at GW (#60), should their parents have bribed them into #30 NYU for more prestige? No, because the prestige difference is totally nominal, to the tiny % who even grasp the difference. Dumb! |
We have a family friend at USC in his third year. Brilliant kid. Valedictorian, etc. He’s there for computer science, a great program. You on the other hand are a misinformed moron who oversimplifies things so you can grasp them. |
When I think of USC undergrad I think: Rob Kardashian, Spencer Pratt, coke trash sorority bimbos, trust fund druggy film students, and low watt douchebag business school students who can't wait to buy a yellow or red Porsche and perpetuate some sort of financial fraud after college. |
Your unverified anecdote is a grain of sand in a mountain of verified and sustained evidence to the contrary. There are of course students as you describe at USC, often bribed to attend with generous scholarships, but the temperature on campus is that of low watt tacky obnoxious druggy sleaze. |
The USC engineering programs are very well-respected. More so, in fact, than some of the east coast elite schools you all idolize.
This is also true of some of the state schools. A Georgia Tech engineering student is likely a better hire than a Brown engineering student. |
Look, these parents' behavior has nothing to do with how much a degree from a particular college will help a kid do better in life. It has EVERYTHING to do with feeding the parents' egos. To being able to post on Facebook or drop into conversation at the grocery store "Oh, that's great your kid is going to Cal State Northridge. DID I TELL YOU, MY LITTLE LARLA IS GOING TO USC." In LA at least, USC has much more cachet than SMU. And it's just further evidence of how child's accomplishments have become an extension of the parent's reputation. |
Huge yawn. USC is a clown college with zero social capital. Typical that left coast new money trash see it as the brass ring. |
Have things really changed that much there? I grew up in LA, went to college out that way. Friends went to UCLA, Cal, Harvey Mudd... pretty prestigious schools. USC had a reputation that you only went there if you were rich and couldn't get into one of the more elite colleges in CA. You didn't want to go the middling public universities with the masses, so you paid $$ to go to a middling private university with the rich kids. |
Best quote from the mom's letter: "According to all of the statistics and reports, he should be accepted at Ivy League schools, but he has not been. He will eventually get into a “good” school, but it is my guess (based on what we are seeing with his peer group) that he will be overqualified for the school he ends up at." Lol! Her son is overqualified for any school that is not Ivy League. |
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You seems to devalue cities schools. I hope your kids enjoy their merit aid and are able to get a job! |
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They all know each other outside college and after college when they move to LA or NYC. The college itself is just an accessory. A lot of the dumb rich never go or finish. |