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[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why does this one parent at Bethesda try so hard to defend DG. It’s very odd someone takes this much time to write all these long posts. This parent has a lot of time in their hands or can this be DG posting and trying to save himself?

Because it might be DG himself trying desperately to defend himself.

Bingo

Are you guys really that dense??? DG does not care in the absolute slightest about this site and had been discussed on the other thread. I am a parent of a DG player.

[Anonymous]

What club are you, the accusers, from?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What club are you, the accusers, from?

"It doesn't matter who we are, what matters is our plan"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why does this one parent at Bethesda try so hard to defend DG. It’s very odd someone takes this much time to write all these long posts. This parent has a lot of time in their hands or can this be DG posting and trying to save himself?

Because it might be DG himself trying desperately to defend himself.

Bingo

Are you guys really that dense??? DG does not care in the absolute slightest about this site and had been discussed on the other thread. I am a parent of a DG player.

It’s pathetic enough if DG gets on here to defend himself. But it’s extremely pathetic that a BSC parent gets on here just to defend DG in hopes of a favorable opinion from DG. I’m just speechless now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It’s pathetic enough if DG gets on here to defend himself. But it’s extremely pathetic that a BSC parent gets on here just to defend DG in hopes of a favorable opinion from DG. I’m just speechless now.

DG does not get on DCUM. SMH.

I'm glad you are speechless I am defending him. Maybe you will stop posting then. It's obvious you are the same parent posting over and over again. You're just a coward and you should be banned from DCUM for anonymously making charges of child abuse.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s pathetic enough if DG gets on here to defend himself. But it’s extremely pathetic that a BSC parent gets on here just to defend DG in hopes of a favorable opinion from DG. I’m just speechless now.

DG does not get on DCUM. SMH.

I'm glad you are speechless I am defending him. Maybe you will stop posting then. It's obvious you are the same parent posting over and over again. You're just a coward and you should be banned from DCUM for anonymously making charges of child abuse.

I can 100% assure you that I’m not the only person on here that’s against child verbal abuse.

If being against child abuse makes me a coward, than I proudly accept that badge of honor.

It’s because of people like you that abuses happens in the first place n

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s pathetic enough if DG gets on here to defend himself. But it’s extremely pathetic that a BSC parent gets on here just to defend DG in hopes of a favorable opinion from DG. I’m just speechless now.

DG does not get on DCUM. SMH.

I'm glad you are speechless I am defending him. Maybe you will stop posting then. It's obvious you are the same parent posting over and over again. You're just a coward and you should be banned from DCUM for anonymously making charges of child abuse.

I can 100% assure you that I’m not the only person on here that’s against child verbal abuse.

If being against child abuse makes me a coward, than I proudly accept that badge of honor.

It’s because of people like you that abuses happens in the first place n

No, it's because of people like you that false allegations of child abuse are made. You obviously lack the understanding of what child abuse is.

I certainly don't support any child abuse. I have reported drug, verbal and physically abusive parents to social services before. What you are inferring is not even in the realm of verbally abusive. I can't even understand how you have even come up with this? I have been around hundreds of coaches from soccer to basketball, to football, to lacrosse. I would say at least 50% of them are tougher than DG.

Your opinions of DG does not equal child abuse and you are a horrible human being for acting in this anonymous cowardly manor in order to benefit your own daughter's club team. You consistently post on this issue which shows you have some kind of agenda. You also post pretending you are other parents and you even go as far as posting replies to your own posts.

And yes, you are a coward as you refuse to say what club you are with that is just so perfect! There have been more than half a dozen parents come here that have kids that play for DG to defend him. They all know he is not an abuser as well but just a tough coach. Nothing is wrong with that. Nothing at all. We choose it in fact. WHY MUST YOU KEEP POSTING OVER AND OVER AND OVER AGAIN about something that IN YOUR OPINION is verbal abuse??? Or do you not realize that is just your opinion? WE DON'T NEED YOU TO TELL US WHAT, WHY, OR HOW TO DO IT! If you feel like you warning others, please play fair and tell us what club your are at so we can also voice our opinion! Otherwise you are just a pathetic parent who is insecure about any criticism your own club might receive. If not, then just stop.

[Anonymous]

Does anyone have any video of DG screaming at girls?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s pathetic enough if DG gets on here to defend himself. But it’s extremely pathetic that a BSC parent gets on here just to defend DG in hopes of a favorable opinion from DG. I’m just speechless now.

DG does not get on DCUM. SMH.

I'm glad you are speechless I am defending him. Maybe you will stop posting then. It's obvious you are the same parent posting over and over again. You're just a coward and you should be banned from DCUM for anonymously making charges of child abuse.

I can 100% assure you that I’m not the only person on here that’s against child verbal abuse.

If being against child abuse makes me a coward, than I proudly accept that badge of honor.

It’s because of people like you that abuses happens in the first place n

No, it's because of people like you that false allegations of child abuse are made. You obviously lack the understanding of what child abuse is.

I certainly don't support any child abuse. I have reported drug, verbal and physically abusive parents to social services before. What you are inferring is not even in the realm of verbally abusive. I can't even understand how you have even come up with this? I have been around hundreds of coaches from soccer to basketball, to football, to lacrosse. I would say at least 50% of them are tougher than DG.

Your opinions of DG does not equal child abuse and you are a horrible human being for acting in this anonymous cowardly manor in order to benefit your own daughter's club team. You consistently post on this issue which shows you have some kind of agenda. You also post pretending you are other parents and you even go as far as posting replies to your own posts.

And yes, you are a coward as you refuse to say what club you are with that is just so perfect! There have been more than half a dozen parents come here that have kids that play for DG to defend him. They all know he is not an abuser as well but just a tough coach. Nothing is wrong with that. Nothing at all. We choose it in fact. WHY MUST YOU KEEP POSTING OVER AND OVER AND OVER AGAIN about something that IN YOUR OPINION is verbal abuse??? Or do you not realize that is just your opinion? WE DON'T NEED YOU TO TELL US WHAT, WHY, OR HOW TO DO IT! If you feel like you warning others, please play fair and tell us what club your are at so we can also voice our opinion! Otherwise you are just a pathetic parent who is insecure about any criticism your own club might receive. If not, then just stop.

If his comments make the kid feel humiliated, embarrassed, or intimidated and happen frequently enough it is abusive.

That others have treated you in similar ways in the past does not make the behavior correct. At best DG is using coaching tactics and a psychological approach that is no less than 30 years out of date. I have no doubt he, and coaches like him are simply replicating coaching behavior from their own childhood.

This is sad for a few reasons:
1. He hasn’t taken the interest to find other more inclusive ways of communicating.
2. He is stunted in his own emotional growth to see beyond his own childhood coaching to change and adapt.
3. He limits his own player pool to the most talented kids who can “take it”. How many talented players has he lost over the years because HE was unable to find ways to reach all of his players? He is far more comfortable with coaching kids who fit his mold rather than adjusting to as many kids as possible.

As more and more “elite” clubs pop up around he will either learn to adapt to a increasingly diluted player pool or he will be run out like the 1970s style dinosaur coach that he currently is.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s pathetic enough if DG gets on here to defend himself. But it’s extremely pathetic that a BSC parent gets on here just to defend DG in hopes of a favorable opinion from DG. I’m just speechless now.

DG does not get on DCUM. SMH.

I'm glad you are speechless I am defending him. Maybe you will stop posting then. It's obvious you are the same parent posting over and over again. You're just a coward and you should be banned from DCUM for anonymously making charges of child abuse.

I can 100% assure you that I’m not the only person on here that’s against child verbal abuse.

If being against child abuse makes me a coward, than I proudly accept that badge of honor.

It’s because of people like you that abuses happens in the first place n

No, it's because of people like you that false allegations of child abuse are made. You obviously lack the understanding of what child abuse is.

I certainly don't support any child abuse. I have reported drug, verbal and physically abusive parents to social services before. What you are inferring is not even in the realm of verbally abusive. I can't even understand how you have even come up with this? I have been around hundreds of coaches from soccer to basketball, to football, to lacrosse. I would say at least 50% of them are tougher than DG.

Your opinions of DG does not equal child abuse and you are a horrible human being for acting in this anonymous cowardly manor in order to benefit your own daughter's club team. You consistently post on this issue which shows you have some kind of agenda. You also post pretending you are other parents and you even go as far as posting replies to your own posts.

And yes, you are a coward as you refuse to say what club you are with that is just so perfect! There have been more than half a dozen parents come here that have kids that play for DG to defend him. They all know he is not an abuser as well but just a tough coach. Nothing is wrong with that. Nothing at all. We choose it in fact. WHY MUST YOU KEEP POSTING OVER AND OVER AND OVER AGAIN about something that IN YOUR OPINION is verbal abuse??? Or do you not realize that is just your opinion? WE DON'T NEED YOU TO TELL US WHAT, WHY, OR HOW TO DO IT! If you feel like you warning others, please play fair and tell us what club your are at so we can also voice our opinion! Otherwise you are just a pathetic parent who is insecure about any criticism your own club might receive. If not, then just stop.

If his comments make the kid feel humiliated, embarrassed, or intimidated and happen frequently enough it is abusive.

That others have treated you in similar ways in the past does not make the behavior correct. At best DG is using coaching tactics and a psychological approach that is no less than 30 years out of date. I have no doubt he, and coaches like him are simply replicating coaching behavior from their own childhood.

This is sad for a few reasons:
1. He hasn’t taken the interest to find other more inclusive ways of communicating.
2. He is stunted in his own emotional growth to see beyond his own childhood coaching to change and adapt.
3. He limits his own player pool to the most talented kids who can “take it”. How many talented players has he lost over the years because HE was unable to find ways to reach all of his players? He is far more comfortable with coaching kids who fit his mold rather than adjusting to as many kids as possible.

As more and more “elite” clubs pop up around he will either learn to adapt to a increasingly diluted player pool or he will be run out like the 1970s style dinosaur coach that he currently is.

+100000

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s pathetic enough if DG gets on here to defend himself. But it’s extremely pathetic that a BSC parent gets on here just to defend DG in hopes of a favorable opinion from DG. I’m just speechless now.

DG does not get on DCUM. SMH.

I'm glad you are speechless I am defending him. Maybe you will stop posting then. It's obvious you are the same parent posting over and over again. You're just a coward and you should be banned from DCUM for anonymously making charges of child abuse.

I can 100% assure you that I’m not the only person on here that’s against child verbal abuse.

If being against child abuse makes me a coward, than I proudly accept that badge of honor.

It’s because of people like you that abuses happens in the first place n

No, it's because of people like you that false allegations of child abuse are made. You obviously lack the understanding of what child abuse is.

I certainly don't support any child abuse. I have reported drug, verbal and physically abusive parents to social services before. What you are inferring is not even in the realm of verbally abusive. I can't even understand how you have even come up with this? I have been around hundreds of coaches from soccer to basketball, to football, to lacrosse. I would say at least 50% of them are tougher than DG.

Your opinions of DG does not equal child abuse and you are a horrible human being for acting in this anonymous cowardly manor in order to benefit your own daughter's club team. You consistently post on this issue which shows you have some kind of agenda. You also post pretending you are other parents and you even go as far as posting replies to your own posts.

And yes, you are a coward as you refuse to say what club you are with that is just so perfect! There have been more than half a dozen parents come here that have kids that play for DG to defend him. They all know he is not an abuser as well but just a tough coach. Nothing is wrong with that. Nothing at all. We choose it in fact. WHY MUST YOU KEEP POSTING OVER AND OVER AND OVER AGAIN about something that IN YOUR OPINION is verbal abuse??? Or do you not realize that is just your opinion? WE DON'T NEED YOU TO TELL US WHAT, WHY, OR HOW TO DO IT! If you feel like you warning others, please play fair and tell us what club your are at so we can also voice our opinion! Otherwise you are just a pathetic parent who is insecure about any criticism your own club might receive. If not, then just stop.

If his comments make the kid feel humiliated, embarrassed, or intimidated and happen frequently enough it is abusive.

That others have treated you in similar ways in the past does not make the behavior correct. At best DG is using coaching tactics and a psychological approach that is no less than 30 years out of date. I have no doubt he, and coaches like him are simply replicating coaching behavior from their own childhood.

This is sad for a few reasons:
1. He hasn’t taken the interest to find other more inclusive ways of communicating.
2. He is stunted in his own emotional growth to see beyond his own childhood coaching to change and adapt.
3. He limits his own player pool to the most talented kids who can “take it”. How many talented players has he lost over the years because HE was unable to find ways to reach all of his players? He is far more comfortable with coaching kids who fit his mold rather than adjusting to as many kids as possible.

As more and more “elite” clubs pop up around he will either learn to adapt to a increasingly diluted player pool or he will be run out like the 1970s style dinosaur coach that he currently is.

I agree with this. As me how I know? And by the way we are at a MUCH better club now. DG could take a few lessons from our coach.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s pathetic enough if DG gets on here to defend himself. But it’s extremely pathetic that a BSC parent gets on here just to defend DG in hopes of a favorable opinion from DG. I’m just speechless now.

DG does not get on DCUM. SMH.

I'm glad you are speechless I am defending him. Maybe you will stop posting then. It's obvious you are the same parent posting over and over again. You're just a coward and you should be banned from DCUM for anonymously making charges of child abuse.

I can 100% assure you that I’m not the only person on here that’s against child verbal abuse.

If being against child abuse makes me a coward, than I proudly accept that badge of honor.

It’s because of people like you that abuses happens in the first place n

No, it's because of people like you that false allegations of child abuse are made. You obviously lack the understanding of what child abuse is.

I certainly don't support any child abuse. I have reported drug, verbal and physically abusive parents to social services before. What you are inferring is not even in the realm of verbally abusive. I can't even understand how you have even come up with this? I have been around hundreds of coaches from soccer to basketball, to football, to lacrosse. I would say at least 50% of them are tougher than DG.

Your opinions of DG does not equal child abuse and you are a horrible human being for acting in this anonymous cowardly manor in order to benefit your own daughter's club team. You consistently post on this issue which shows you have some kind of agenda. You also post pretending you are other parents and you even go as far as posting replies to your own posts.

And yes, you are a coward as you refuse to say what club you are with that is just so perfect! There have been more than half a dozen parents come here that have kids that play for DG to defend him. They all know he is not an abuser as well but just a tough coach. Nothing is wrong with that. Nothing at all. We choose it in fact. WHY MUST YOU KEEP POSTING OVER AND OVER AND OVER AGAIN about something that IN YOUR OPINION is verbal abuse??? Or do you not realize that is just your opinion? WE DON'T NEED YOU TO TELL US WHAT, WHY, OR HOW TO DO IT! If you feel like you warning others, please play fair and tell us what club your are at so we can also voice our opinion! Otherwise you are just a pathetic parent who is insecure about any criticism your own club might receive. If not, then just stop.

Nobody needs to tell you what club they are at for you to call out verbally abusive behavior in coaches you have seen.

The reason you can’t do that is because you would have to admit and recognize the behavior as unprofessional in a youth coach.

If you have witnessed similar behavior by all means share it.

[Anonymous]

Any other scrimmages this weekend?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Any other scrimmages this weekend?

What’s the weather going to be?

[Anonymous]

Agree on moving on from this topic, this should be spoken about with the Bethesda soccer board not on here.