Skinny is the new moral/hard working and all other kind of superiority?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Over eating and under eating are both eating disorders. Take everything you know about anorexia and bulimia and also apply those control issues to over eating.

Anorexics know they are not making healthy choices, but we never tell them to just have the will power and discipline to eat. Nor do we tell them they are immoral or a failure for not maintaining a healthy relationship with food. It's a complex issue... multi-facetted. Same goes for over eating.

Then there are psychological, environmental, and social factors that may contribute to the development of anorexia.

Many experts think that anorexia is part of an unconscious attempt to come to terms with unresolved conflicts or painful childhood experiences. While sexual abuse has been shown to be a factor in the development of bulimia, it is not associated with the development of anorexia.

https://www.webmd.com/mental-health/eating-disorders/anorexia-nervosa/understanding-anorexia-basics

If you can be kind and recognize that under eating is a disorder, then surely you can be kind to those who handle the same issues in an opposite manner.

Yes, where is the moral judgement for people with anorexia?

There isn't any. Not anorexia but I posted about my struggles with FTT DS who was 13 at the time and seriously short and below 0 percentile in weight for his age. I was told to feed him junk all the time by the nutritionist just to get enough calories in him, my healthy poor cooking was not cutting it. Pps here, on another thread, told me so what, he was skinny, my poverty was ok and I did all right.
I mean I posted that kid ate two lunches one was junk food the other home-cooked, and I was patted o the back, like "you poor wretch you did ok by your kid!' Cause he was skinny!

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Anonymous wrote:Please. I eat whatever I want. I love carbs and eat a ton. Just finished two English muffins with butter and jelly. Seriously thinking about eating another one. I also ran six miles this morning and taught a 60 minute hot yoga class. I work out hard. That allows me to fuel my body in delicious ways. I couldn’t be overweight if I tried because I move my body all day long.

Self-discipline. Consistent training. Respect for your body. And not taking more than your share of resources. These are the things fat people don’t understand. I’ve been a trainer for almost 30 years. I’ve heard every excuse in the world. They are all just that…excuses.

Lmaoooooooo how is it self discipline to eat 3 English muffins??????

I’m 5’5 and 114 pounds. I need the calories. I assure you, a six miles run at 5am takes self-discipline. If I were overweight or more sedentary, my choice would have been very different. Also, I haven’t eaten the third one…yet.

The dcum mindset presented above! You can do it! "I am a yoga instructor with time to run 6 miles at 5 am and move all the time, so I can eat three muffins! This is not bcs I am not earning my own living ( cause no yoga instructor is!!!) and have all the time to work at my hobby, this is bcs I... am superior to all of you another tiny bit more not super skinny people!
That I am shallow and stupid makes no difference, I am better than you, I am better than you.. cause I am not fat."

Are you 19? Life will bring you down, no matter your age, worry not, the shallow person that has no empathy. You are likely the have no empathy PP from another thread so you don't send a text to a family member or a friend when they lose a loved one, but I order them flowers and put it in a card. Cause I am working on my bod!

I’m 55. I was a single mom for six years. I still got up and ran at 5am because that was literally the only time I had. I have grown kids now and more time. I’ve never been overweight. You are making excuses. You have the time. You just choose not to use it.

Can we all agree that this is the most annoying, self-righteous prig of a person? Clearly her ex-partner agrees and ditched her long ago.

Yes, yes we can.

Although the people making a massive deal out of English muffins of all things are being super ridiculous too.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:87% of obese people experienced trauma

People would argue that not getting help or working through trauma is a moral failing too

Yes, all of those people with anorexia who don't seek treatment are losers.

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Anonymous wrote:No we can't agree. I think more of you need an English muffin, maybe you can be nice again.

- not English Muffin Trainer

+1 LOL at the people tearing down a fit woman who enjoys the occasional indulgence. As if English muffins are the only thing she eats.

You are not that bright? We are tearing down her sense of moral superiority and detachment from reality that what she does is an option to everyone!

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Anonymous wrote:Please. I eat whatever I want. I love carbs and eat a ton. Just finished two English muffins with butter and jelly. Seriously thinking about eating another one. I also ran six miles this morning and taught a 60 minute hot yoga class. I work out hard. That allows me to fuel my body in delicious ways. I couldn’t be overweight if I tried because I move my body all day long.

Self-discipline. Consistent training. Respect for your body. And not taking more than your share of resources. These are the things fat people don’t understand. I’ve been a trainer for almost 30 years. I’ve heard every excuse in the world. They are all just that…excuses.

Lmaoooooooo how is it self discipline to eat 3 English muffins??????

I’m 5’5 and 114 pounds. I need the calories. I assure you, a six miles run at 5am takes self-discipline. If I were overweight or more sedentary, my choice would have been very different. Also, I haven’t eaten the third one…yet.

The dcum mindset presented above! You can do it! "I am a yoga instructor with time to run 6 miles at 5 am and move all the time, so I can eat three muffins! This is not bcs I am not earning my own living ( cause no yoga instructor is!!!) and have all the time to work at my hobby, this is bcs I... am superior to all of you another tiny bit more not super skinny people!
That I am shallow and stupid makes no difference, I am better than you, I am better than you.. cause I am not fat."

Are you 19? Life will bring you down, no matter your age, worry not, the shallow person that has no empathy. You are likely the have no empathy PP from another thread so you don't send a text to a family member or a friend when they lose a loved one, but I order them flowers and put it in a card. Cause I am working on my bod!

I’m 55. I was a single mom for six years. I still got up and ran at 5am because that was literally the only time I had. I have grown kids now and more time. I’ve never been overweight. You are making excuses. You have the time. You just choose not to use it.

Can we all agree that this is the most annoying, self-righteous prig of a person? Clearly her ex-partner agrees and ditched her long ago.

Yes, yes we can.

Although the people making a massive deal out of English muffins of all things are being super ridiculous too.

Indeed. I am not the pp making a big deal of the muffins, that is someone else who thinks avoiding a muffin is a sign of moral superiority.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:87% of obese people experienced trauma

People would argue that not getting help or working through trauma is a moral failing too

It was interesting, my mom wanted me to stay skinny so I wouldn't "look like" I had any trauma. She definitely wanted to pretend.

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Anonymous wrote:No we can't agree. I think more of you need an English muffin, maybe you can be nice again.

- not English Muffin Trainer

+1 LOL at the people tearing down a fit woman who enjoys the occasional indulgence. As if English muffins are the only thing she eats.

You are not that bright? We are tearing down her sense of moral superiority and detachment from reality that what she does is an option to everyone!

Really, you can't get up at 5AM to run 6 miles? Or you don't want to?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:87% of obese people experienced trauma

I am skeptical of that statistic, though I'm sure it is a risk factor in a number of cases. I think more the following:

HBO's four-part series, “The Weight of the Nation”, says a lack of exercise, genetics, an overabundance of sugar and food marketing cause 78 million Americans to be obese and morbidly obese.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:No we can't agree. I think more of you need an English muffin, maybe you can be nice again.

- not English Muffin Trainer

+1 LOL at the people tearing down a fit woman who enjoys the occasional indulgence. As if English muffins are the only thing she eats.

You are not that bright? We are tearing down her sense of moral superiority and detachment from reality that what she does is an option to everyone!

Really, you can't get up at 5AM to run 6 miles? Or you don't want to?

NP. I personally don't want to. I'm okay with remaining average weight by making decent choices about fresh food and portion sizes. I'd love to be skinny, but am okay about not having the discipline to work out that hard to get there. But I do admire those who have that discipline to eat clean 90% of the time and who make the time to work out before work.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:No we can't agree. I think more of you need an English muffin, maybe you can be nice again.

- not English Muffin Trainer

+1 LOL at the people tearing down a fit woman who enjoys the occasional indulgence. As if English muffins are the only thing she eats.

You are not that bright? We are tearing down her sense of moral superiority and detachment from reality that what she does is an option to everyone!

Really, you can't get up at 5AM to run 6 miles? Or you don't want to?

Dp. What time do you go to bed to get up at 5 a.m. to run?

I will tell you that when my kids were younger, I got up at 4:30 a.m. to work, clean, and do laundry. That the time I had to do those things. And I was exhausted all the time.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:No we can't agree. I think more of you need an English muffin, maybe you can be nice again.

- not English Muffin Trainer

+1 LOL at the people tearing down a fit woman who enjoys the occasional indulgence. As if English muffins are the only thing she eats.

You are not that bright? We are tearing down her sense of moral superiority and detachment from reality that what she does is an option to everyone!

Really, you can't get up at 5AM to run 6 miles? Or you don't want to?

Dp. What time do you go to bed to get up at 5 a.m. to run?

I will tell you that when my kids were younger, I got up at 4:30 a.m. to work, clean, and do laundry. That the time I had to do those things. And I was exhausted all the time.

You mean you won’t give up health for skinny.

Note: never take health advice from a runner

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:87% of obese people experienced trauma

I am skeptical of that statistic, though I'm sure it is a risk factor in a number of cases. I think more the following:

HBO's four-part series, “The Weight of the Nation”, says a lack of exercise, genetics, an overabundance of sugar and food marketing cause 78 million Americans to be obese and morbidly obese.

Google trauma and obesity

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No we can't agree. I think more of you need an English muffin, maybe you can be nice again.

- not English Muffin Trainer

+1 LOL at the people tearing down a fit woman who enjoys the occasional indulgence. As if English muffins are the only thing she eats.

You are not that bright? We are tearing down her sense of moral superiority and detachment from reality that what she does is an option to everyone!

Really, you can't get up at 5AM to run 6 miles? Or you don't want to?

I leave for work at 6 am and work till late. Try harder yoga lady nasty to her clients behind her backs but happy to make a buck off of them.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No we can't agree. I think more of you need an English muffin, maybe you can be nice again.

- not English Muffin Trainer

+1 LOL at the people tearing down a fit woman who enjoys the occasional indulgence. As if English muffins are the only thing she eats.

You are not that bright? We are tearing down her sense of moral superiority and detachment from reality that what she does is an option to everyone!

Really, you can't get up at 5AM to run 6 miles? Or you don't want to?

Dp. What time do you go to bed to get up at 5 a.m. to run?

I will tell you that when my kids were younger, I got up at 4:30 a.m. to work, clean, and do laundry. That the time I had to do those things. And I was exhausted all the time.

I've just started getting up at 5AM to take an hour long walk in the morning. With the heat, I'm just not interested in going outside after work. So now I try to get into bed by 9, even though it's frequently more like 11. But I make myself get up regardless out of determination to lose my covid-19, combined with eliminating snacking/junk foods.

[Anonymous]

Take note yoga lady, my DH is skinny eats crap like you and has cholesterol. He too was surprised!