When you don't like a person in your broader friend group, which is the best way to handle?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What a lovely group of kind, well-mannered women, who never gossip or exclude anyone, telling a total stranger on the internet to drop dead. Humanitarians, every one.

Hmm, you don't really understand the meaning of words, do you? Try reading slower, using logic, and thinking it through. You'll get there! I just know you will! I believe in you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What a lovely group of kind, well-mannered women, who never gossip or exclude anyone, telling a total stranger on the internet to drop dead. Humanitarians, every one.

Maybe honesty isn’t the best policy? Who woulda thunk it? OP sure can’t handle being on the receiving end. Something to think about.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What a lovely group of kind, well-mannered women, who never gossip or exclude anyone, telling a total stranger on the internet to drop dead. Humanitarians, every one.

Maybe honesty isn’t the best policy? Who woulda thunk it? OP sure can’t handle being on the receiving end. Something to think about.

Maybe I like honesty because I don't hate people, so being honest with them isn't cruel or hateful coming from me. But, again, I have tact and manners so it's not generally a challenge for me to be both honest and respectful.

Maybe you don't like honesty because you know you're nasty and mean and you don't want anyone calling you out on it.

And girl, please -- sparring with you was what I did for fun on the breaks from the actual challenging parts of my day.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What a lovely group of kind, well-mannered women, who never gossip or exclude anyone, telling a total stranger on the internet to drop dead. Humanitarians, every one.

Maybe honesty isn’t the best policy? Who woulda thunk it? OP sure can’t handle being on the receiving end. Something to think about.

Maybe I like honesty because I don't hate people, so being honest with them isn't cruel or hateful coming from me. But, again, I have tact and manners so it's not generally a challenge for me to be both honest and respectful.

Maybe you don't like honesty because you know you're nasty and mean and you don't want anyone calling you out on it.

And girl, please -- sparring with you was what I did for fun on the breaks from the actual challenging parts of my day.

I thought you were above the name calling? Such a hypocrite.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What a lovely group of kind, well-mannered women, who never gossip or exclude anyone, telling a total stranger on the internet to drop dead. Humanitarians, every one.

Maybe honesty isn’t the best policy? Who woulda thunk it? OP sure can’t handle being on the receiving end. Something to think about.

Maybe I like honesty because I don't hate people, so being honest with them isn't cruel or hateful coming from me. But, again, I have tact and manners so it's not generally a challenge for me to be both honest and respectful.

Maybe you don't like honesty because you know you're nasty and mean and you don't want anyone calling you out on it.

And girl, please -- sparring with you was what I did for fun on the breaks from the actual challenging parts of my day.

NP. OP, I just got done reading most of this thread--some of your ramblings were just too long to bear. The fact that you could even think options 1 or 2 are worthy of consideration shows that you are not and likely will never be "tactful."