Can this be a safe place to discuss how hot my mailman is?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Thank you. Finally this disgusting story is over!

Oh go away.

OP don't give up hope yet! He might be on vacation. Just jeep looking cute and think of what you'll say to him if he returns.

How did you answer his question about if you were really interested or just teasing him?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Thank you. Finally this disgusting story is over!

You are hysterical! Totally the grumpy old man always complaining that girls wear their skirts too short these days, then almost breaking a hip trying to look under those skirts!

I dunno everyone else, should we tell this PP that they have this crazy thing called "personal agency" and could choose not to keep opening this thread?

Naaaaawww... this PP is having too much fun trying to be a ridiculous wet blanket on a really sweet and funny thread. Feel sorry for PP, don't get mad at him/her. Think how boring that life is if you have to read every word of a 12 page thread but must insist - repeatedly - that it's offensive. Poor thing!

Meanwhile OP, thanks for that update. Most of us were probably hoping you'd end up in a sweaty heap with the mailman in the back of one of those mail mini-vans, but to be honest your reaction was probably a healthy one, because he probably DOES have quite the fan club on his route and some women will stop at nothing.

I once dated this very cute Irish guy who was a carpenter, and he was working on the swanky apartment of a married woman in her 60s. When the work was almost done she said she had something to give him, disappeared, and came back in a robe and opened it... yeah you can guess what was and wasn't underneath. He ran for the door, but the point of that story is that there are women (and men!) of all ages who will take crushes like yours to a whole other level, and your mailman probably loves it.

Sweet thread, thank you for all that!

[Anonymous]

Op I am a married mother of 2 and this thread has turned me on. Dh thanks you!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here with a weird/sad update.

I worked last Saturday and he came in! I was one of the only people there and in casual clothes, so there was this hang out, weekend vibe and we ended up talking. Actually talking for almost a half hour! And I was a normal person just chatting about my job, my life. There was crazy eye contact, I was red faced and sweating at times, but managed to be a functioning human being.

But then, it got a little....over the top? Escalated in an odd way?
He started telling me that there are a few other women on his route that say dirty things to him, he was laughing and kind of shaking his head, and saying how he just thinks it's flattering and moves on. And then he said "but you know, you're not like that, you're much cooler about it" or something like that, I can't remember exactly what he said, but it made me feel like a fan girl among fan girls. Like he was too into me being into him, if that makes sense?

That is how I took it, anyways.

And then he got really flirty asking me if I was seriously into him, or teasing him, and it was going too far. But at that point my head was spinning and I was at sensory overload (through all my angst holy shit the man smelled amazing!)
and went back to stuttering "I forgot my pen in the other room" while standing in front of an entire pe holder full of pens, to which he grabbed a fistful and said "wanna try one of these?"
And I'm not sure if he was holding the pens at a weird angle in front of himself or if we were still talking about pens and I fled.
Hanging head in shame.
Now for the odd part: he has been gone since. Another mailman has been doing his route all week.
Is he sick? Never mentioned a vacation and said he was going to enjoy Labor Day off. Changes routes? They do change it up a lot, we've had many different ones over the years.
I wasn't going to post since it's such a buzzkill, but I figured you faithful people deserved to know the "end"

Nothing less sexy than a person who needs to tell you how good-looking they are. He sounds way too thirsty. He's really not smooth; bummer, oh well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Thank you. Finally this disgusting story is over!

Oh go away.

OP don't give up hope yet! He might be on vacation. Just jeep looking cute and think of what you'll say to him if he returns.

How did you answer his question about if you were really interested or just teasing him?

Op here.
He asked me why I was always teasing him with my little responses and looks. I replied that I wasn't teasing,
that I thought he was a nice guy and that I was enjoying talking to him. I was shocked he flat out asked me, but it seemed like he wanted me to say I was into him without him wanting to admit he was into me. Does that make sense? He did tell me he thought I was hot, but I'm not sure if I believe
him. The whole thing made me think he does this a lot and has no follow through.
And he's not on my route anymore so I will probably never see him again!
What an ending!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Thank you. Finally this disgusting story is over!

You are hysterical! Totally the grumpy old man always complaining that girls wear their skirts too short these days, then almost breaking a hip trying to look under those skirts!

I dunno everyone else, should we tell this PP that they have this crazy thing called "personal agency" and could choose not to keep opening this thread?

Naaaaawww... this PP is having too much fun trying to be a ridiculous wet blanket on a really sweet and funny thread. Feel sorry for PP, don't get mad at him/her. Think how boring that life is if you have to read every word of a 12 page thread but must insist - repeatedly - that it's offensive. Poor thing!

Meanwhile OP, thanks for that update. Most of us were probably hoping you'd end up in a sweaty heap with the mailman in the back of one of those mail mini-vans, but to be honest your reaction was probably a healthy one, because he probably DOES have quite the fan club on his route and some women will stop at nothing.

I once dated this very cute Irish guy who was a carpenter, and he was working on the swanky apartment of a married woman in her 60s. When the work was almost done she said she had something to give him, disappeared, and came back in a robe and opened it... yeah you can guess what was and wasn't underneath. He ran for the door, but the point of that story is that there are women (and men!) of all ages who will take crushes like yours to a whole other level, and your mailman probably loves it.

Sweet thread, thank you for all that!

As an older man I resent that association. Why can't it be a repressed woman?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Thank you. Finally this disgusting story is over!

Oh go away.

OP don't give up hope yet! He might be on vacation. Just jeep looking cute and think of what you'll say to him if he returns.

How did you answer his question about if you were really interested or just teasing him?

Op here.
He asked me why I was always teasing him with my little responses and looks. I replied that I wasn't teasing,
that I thought he was a nice guy and that I was enjoying talking to him. I was shocked he flat out asked me, but it seemed like he wanted me to say I was into him without him wanting to admit he was into me. Does that make sense? He did tell me he thought I was hot, but I'm not sure if I believe
him. The whole thing made me think he does this a lot and has no follow through.
And he's not on my route anymore so I will probably never see him again!
What an ending!

A male perspective here.

YES, absolutely makes sense.

And given that he mentioned the other women on his route as he did I surmised that he loves the ego boost and has learned how to get it.

Was he sincere with you? It's possible. If he isn't on your route now did he come by on purpose knowing he couldn't see you on a routine basis to see if you were interested? JIC you would make the next move and give up your personal info, telephone #, address and suggest a get together? It's possible.

But, here's the deal. He does know where to find you so if he is SINCERELY interested in you he will likely show up at some point.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Thank you. Finally this disgusting story is over!

You are hysterical! Totally the grumpy old man always complaining that girls wear their skirts too short these days, then almost breaking a hip trying to look under those skirts!

I dunno everyone else, should we tell this PP that they have this crazy thing called "personal agency" and could choose not to keep opening this thread?

Naaaaawww... this PP is having too much fun trying to be a ridiculous wet blanket on a really sweet and funny thread. Feel sorry for PP, don't get mad at him/her. Think how boring that life is if you have to read every word of a 12 page thread but must insist - repeatedly - that it's offensive. Poor thing!

Meanwhile OP, thanks for that update. Most of us were probably hoping you'd end up in a sweaty heap with the mailman in the back of one of those mail mini-vans, but to be honest your reaction was probably a healthy one, because he probably DOES have quite the fan club on his route and some women will stop at nothing.

I once dated this very cute Irish guy who was a carpenter, and he was working on the swanky apartment of a married woman in her 60s. When the work was almost done she said she had something to give him, disappeared, and came back in a robe and opened it... yeah you can guess what was and wasn't underneath. He ran for the door, but the point of that story is that there are women (and men!) of all ages who will take crushes like yours to a whole other level, and your mailman probably loves it.

Sweet thread, thank you for all that!

As an older man I resent that association. Why can't it be a repressed woman?

Fair....

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Thank you. Finally this disgusting story is over!

Writes the person who read the entire thread....

[Anonymous]

I think it was stated multiple times in this thread that you were one of many.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Thank you. Finally this disgusting story is over!

Writes the person who read the entire thread....

LMAO

[Anonymous]

Have you considered the trash man? Could be a nice consolation prize!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Thank you. Finally this disgusting story is over!

Oh go away.

OP don't give up hope yet! He might be on vacation. Just jeep looking cute and think of what you'll say to him if he returns.

How did you answer his question about if you were really interested or just teasing him?

Op here.
He asked me why I was always teasing him with my little responses and looks. I replied that I wasn't teasing,
that I thought he was a nice guy and that I was enjoying talking to him. I was shocked he flat out asked me, but it seemed like he wanted me to say I was into him without him wanting to admit he was into me. Does that make sense? He did tell me he thought I was hot, but I'm not sure if I believe
him. The whole thing made me think he does this a lot and has no follow through.
And he's not on my route anymore so I will probably never see him again!
What an ending!

A male perspective here.

YES, absolutely makes sense.

And given that he mentioned the other women on his route as he did I surmised that he loves the ego boost and has learned how to get it.

Was he sincere with you? It's possible. If he isn't on your route now did he come by on purpose knowing he couldn't see you on a routine basis to see if you were interested? JIC you would make the next move and give up your personal info, telephone #, address and suggest a get together? It's possible.

But, here's the deal. He does know where to find you so if he is SINCERELY interested in you he will likely show up at some point.

Op here. Thank you for your reply. It is so very strange that he has been gone all week, right after we had our first actual talk. My coworker today told me it was more like an hour from my absence on IM during that time.
He never mentioned taking a week long vacation and we talked about Labor Day plans. He was hitting on my pretty hard at one point but it seem more like a game versus actual interest.
It was fun and I do think it upped my game a little so I'm not sorry!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Thank you. Finally this disgusting story is over!

Why are you keep checking back?

[Anonymous]

Great update! Arrogance and "I know I'm so hot" attitude is a total turn off.