Found husband's profile on a "cheating" website, what do I do??

[Anonymous]

Any update OP?

[Anonymous]

I think it is naive to think that if she confronts him she can prevent him from making a mistake and they will live happily ever after.
There is a very real possibility that he will just cover his tracks better, change his passwords and make sure not to leave his computer/emails open.

I was with a guy for 6 years, engaged to be married. I got the feeling he was hiding something about 6 months before our wedding. I confronted him with some phone numbers I didn't recognize on the bill. Being a great liar he explained those away really quickly and covered his tracks by buying a smart phone. He made me feel CRAZY for ever doubting him and would rub that in my face all of the time. His go to line "you don't trust me" whenever he wanted a free pass to leave to 'study'.

I found that 4 months before the wedding in the trunk of his car. This time i was smart. I wrote down the numbers in the history and then copied some texts as well. I reversed searched the phone numbers and googled the names attached to those numbers. Since he didn't know i was on to him i also was able to access his computer and email while he was out getting me some chinese one night and my computer was 'broken'. Printed off every last cheating email. Now this was 2 months to the wedding.
I told him my suspicions that he was cheating and he again played the victim until i started laying out page after page after page of emails. He turned red. Then mad that i violated HIS trust! LOL. Um Ok. Lets just say i moved out and we haven't spoken since.


OP, you really need to get your ducks in line before doing/saying anything. Think of your kids. you need to protect yourself and them. Don't let him lie and make the rest of your life one big guilt trip for calling him out on his shit. Get what you need and then confront. At the very least therapy is needed here to rebuild the trust if nothing else. If he isn't willing to do that, well then, that is your answer.

[Anonymous]

At this point, what difference does it make? Don't be a Tammy Wynette. Run for President.