Do you sometimes wish you were widowed

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I do - DH is a jerk and I can't stand being with him. Yet, I don't want a divorce as that would made DD sad.

Yes wish I was widowed asap or divorced with full custody and he moves far away.

[Anonymous]

No but I’m happily divorced with 50/50 custody.

He is still family, just not my husband.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I do - DH is a jerk and I can't stand being with him. Yet, I don't want a divorce as that would made DD sad.

I bet he thinks the same thing about you. If you were my wife I sure would!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think this post is horrifying. If the OP's husband happens to die Jeff should be able to give her IP address to police.

Wait. What?

[Anonymous]

Never. Am I actually in the minority to say that I live my husband?

We have our differences, but they're over stupid stuff - like I don't want him to put pots in the fridge and he hates it when I leave my coffee cup on the counter above the dishwasher. These are not offenses punishable by death. Wierdos!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How horrible and ungrateful are some of you. If you're that unhappy just divorce. I lost a boyfriend to Cancer and it completely destroyed me. What I wouldn't give for him to be back. If not for me, then for his now fatherless kid.

I am sorry for your loss.

[Anonymous]

Jesus, no. You must be in a bad place to think that, OP.

Not something joke about lightly. My ex from high school lost a parent and it messed him up. If nothing else you should never wish that pain on your child (or your spouse.)

[Anonymous]

Wow, that’s my worst fear, literally (excluding something happening to the kids).

OP, that’s a strong signal you need to find help for yourself, it’s no way to live.

[Anonymous]

I do - DH is a jerk and I can't stand being with him. Yet, I don't want a divorce as that would made DD sad.

Yes wish I was widowed asap or divorced with full custody and he moves far away.

It is posters like these two that prove true evil exists in our world. It makes my skin crawl to know that these women could be my neighbors, or that my kids might play with their kids.

There is a hell on earth, and their husbands are living in it.

[Anonymous]

I just want to point out that this post was made 8 years ago and I'd wager that most of the people that posted in it are divorced at this point. It would actually be nice if someone that posted back then would make an update.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Never. Not in a million years.

+1! Anyone who does has no clue what it's like for widows! Grieving, income/finances crashing, kids need support ...
DCUM can be so incredibly flip and insensitive!

Not if you’ve been in an abusive relationship.

[Anonymous]

Divorcing a manipulative, vindictive and abusive narcissist is hell. If he died it would be a lot easier. For me anyway.

[Anonymous]

That is when I knew I needed a divorce

[Anonymous]

Wow. Um. No.

Leave him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I do - DH is a jerk and I can't stand being with him. Yet, I don't want a divorce as that would made DD sad.

Yes wish I was widowed asap or divorced with full custody and he moves far away.

+1

I hope he takes an ATV ride right off a rocky cliff. He’s that bad of a driver so I think it’s possible next vacation.