Do you sometimes wish you were widowed

[Anonymous]

I do - DH is a jerk and I can't stand being with him. Yet, I don't want a divorce as that would made DD sad.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I do - DH is a jerk and I can't stand being with him. Yet, I don't want a divorce as that would made DD sad.

I do, but I think a parents death would also gut my kids.

[Anonymous]

OMG of course

[Anonymous]

I don't wish it, because I'm sane enough to realize I'm better off now.

But when he's particularly annoying, I fantasize about it

[Anonymous]

In some ways I think my life would be easier. But it would destroy my kids, so no.

[Anonymous]

Having watched my mother in law lose the love of her life and have to help my husband and his siblings deal with the loss, absolutely not. Our life is far from perfect, but I never wish him to die.

[Anonymous]

Never. Not in a million years.

[Anonymous]

When he was shoveling during the blizzard, I kept thinking that a heart attack wouldn't be so bad.

[Anonymous]

No, but then again, I know three - 30 something widows and I've gotten just a small glimpse of what it's done to all their lives. If you want out of your marriage, get out but don't wish someone dead.

[Anonymous]

OP - you are a sick person...

[Anonymous]

My DH is away for work for the next few months. While our marriage isn't ideal, I have to say this is far harder than I even imagined. Doesn't help that none of my regular babysitters were available this week, and my kids were home two extra days when I have work projects I need to get done. Solo parenting sucks.

[Anonymous]

Wow, what a terrible thing to say.

[Anonymous]

Never

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No, but then again, I know three - 30 something widows and I've gotten just a small glimpse of what it's done to all their lives. If you want out of your marriage, get out but don't wish someone dead.

Absolutely, I know two and it's heartwrenching.

[Anonymous]

Never.