S/O The thread on the missing boyfriend is waaay too long. Can someone sum it up?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wow OP, good job of multi-tasking!
So if you can do that, could you also be, like, typing a synopsis of his story while he is spinning it?

Yes, I'm impressed, all that while arguing with her dead in a ditch boyfriend of 4 days...

[Anonymous]

Please don't take him back, OP. He screwed you over before and clearly he has a way of charming you and seeming sincere enough to make you forget he's a f-ing liar.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wow OP, good job of multi-tasking!
So if you can do that, could you also be, like, typing a synopsis of his story while he is spinning it?

OP here: Honestly, I don't even fucking know. He told me he did plan on going to Maine but then some job opportunity came up in PA that he wanted to check out along with a "coonhound competition" so he decided to go do that. He apparently got mad at his phone and smashed it which is why his phone has been off the last few days. I actually laughed when he told me that. I'm remaining really calm right now and giving him the chance to just own up to the truth about everything.

& no, that does not mean I am forgiving him. I flat out told him we were done and his response was "i'm really sorry I lied..."

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here: proof we are on the phone. Sad I have to do this...

Thank you

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wow OP, good job of multi-tasking!
So if you can do that, could you also be, like, typing a synopsis of his story while he is spinning it?

OP here: Honestly, I don't even fucking know. He told me he did plan on going to Maine but then some job opportunity came up in PA that he wanted to check out along with a "coonhound competition" so he decided to go do that. He apparently got mad at his phone and smashed it which is why his phone has been off the last few days. I actually laughed when he told me that. I'm remaining really calm right now and giving him the chance to just own up to the truth about everything.

& no, that does not mean I am forgiving him. I flat out told him we were done and his response was "i'm really sorry I lied..."

Oh don't worry, you'll take him back once he is done with his excuses.

Go no contact for crying out loud.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wow OP, good job of multi-tasking!
So if you can do that, could you also be, like, typing a synopsis of his story while he is spinning it?

OP here: Honestly, I don't even fucking know. He told me he did plan on going to Maine but then some job opportunity came up in PA that he wanted to check out along with a "coonhound competition" so he decided to go do that. He apparently got mad at his phone and smashed it which is why his phone has been off the last few days. I actually laughed when he told me that. I'm remaining really calm right now and giving him the chance to just own up to the truth about everything.

& no, that does not mean I am forgiving him. I flat out told him we were done and his response was "i'm really sorry I lied..."

A coonhound competition?!?!? Jesus be a fence...
And where was he going in Maine? To the nonexistent cabin?
You've heard enough OP, hang up on this fool.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wow OP, good job of multi-tasking!
So if you can do that, could you also be, like, typing a synopsis of his story while he is spinning it?

OP here: Honestly, I don't even fucking know. He told me he did plan on going to Maine but then some job opportunity came up in PA that he wanted to check out along with a "coonhound competition" so he decided to go do that. He apparently got mad at his phone and smashed it which is why his phone has been off the last few days. I actually laughed when he told me that. I'm remaining really calm right now and giving him the chance to just own up to the truth about everything.

& no, that does not mean I am forgiving him. I flat out told him we were done and his response was "i'm really sorry I lied..."

kay, I'm out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wow OP, good job of multi-tasking!
So if you can do that, could you also be, like, typing a synopsis of his story while he is spinning it?

OP here: Honestly, I don't even fucking know. He told me he did plan on going to Maine but then some job opportunity came up in PA that he wanted to check out along with a "coonhound competition" so he decided to go do that. He apparently got mad at his phone and smashed it which is why his phone has been off the last few days. I actually laughed when he told me that. I'm remaining really calm right now and giving him the chance to just own up to the truth about everything.

& no, that does not mean I am forgiving him. I flat out told him we were done and his response was "i'm really sorry I lied..."

In your March thread, you made the observation that he has used this excuse before of getting mad at something or someone and breaking his phone and that is why he could not contact you. In March you told us that he had gone through two phones in the short time you had known him. This makes another allegedly broken phone. Of course he would have known that you would have been worried sick about him since Sunday night. He is saying sorry for lying to you WHILE STILL LYING TO YOU. At least you know enough to be able to see through his lies by now and to laugh at his trying the same old lies again.

You say you don't even f'ing know. Yes you know.
He texted you Friday evening right as cell phone coverage was supposedly getting spotty in Maine.
His family tried tough love two years ago and he shut them out.
You are now launching your tough love. You don't believe his BS; you know he is a compulsive liar; you know if that is really what he was doing in PA he could have / would have told you; and you have told him you are done. Good for you! Now block him and begin the rest of your life.

[Anonymous]

A 20 minute phone call/apology, a story about a cell phone smashed in a moment of rage, and a coonhound competition sure seem like the appropriate way to end this bizarre story.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A 20 minute phone call/apology, a story about a cell phone smashed in a moment of rage, and a coonhound competition sure seem like the appropriate way to end this bizarre story.

+ a billion

[Anonymous]

Screw you, Steve, and your stupid beard! You don't deserve OP and you definitely don't deserve Jolly Uncle J.

[Anonymous]

A coonhound competition. Christ in a chariot driven sidecar.

[jsteele]

Anonymous wrote:A coonhound competition. Christ in a chariot driven sidecar.

Not that I'm paying any attention whatsoever to this thread, but he does have a picture of a coonhound on his Facebook page and the police apparently said that he took his dog when he left home.

[Anonymous]

Oh, OK, so he was doing this:

https://www.google.com/search?q=coonhound+hunting&biw=1366&bih=641&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ei=jrIlVfqMM6vcywOEtYGIAQ&sqi=2&ved=0CAcQ_AUoAg#imgrc=t5QQt8QweAkaGM%253A%3BB0MP9gWwULFctM%3Bhttp%253A%252F%252Fi962.photobucket.com%252Falbums%252Fae107%252Fstaghounds%252FDSCN1045.jpg%3Bhttp%253A%252F%252Fwww.bowfishingzone.com%252Fthreads%252F487-Anyone-coon-hunt-with-terriers%3B1024%3B768

OP, this man is a mentally ill, cruel man. Do you REALLY want to be in a relationship with someone who does this for sport? REALLY?

[Anonymous]

OP, I am sorry you are dealing with this guy.

I cheering for you. Walk away. You deserve so much better than a liar.