S/O The thread on the missing boyfriend is waaay too long. Can someone sum it up?

[Anonymous]

OP, I think you should answer it because otherwise you will wonder and wonder until you contact him. You need to talk to him for closure.

Remember that most people here are just reading for the sport. They don't know or care about you. Their approval means nothing, and in the end, you are still sitting in a room alone in front of a computer. So answer the phone and talk to him so that you have the tools you will need to cut ties, move on, and make yourself healthy and happy in the future.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here: we are on the phone, trying to get the truth out of him. He did admit he was in PA so that's a start

NO, OP, NO!!!!!!
Hang up the phone. Just. Hang. Up.
Do not attempt to extract the truth from an f'ing liar.

STOP!!!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here: we are on the phone, trying to get the truth out of him. He did admit he was in PA so that's a start

Maybe he had a bigfoot encounter.

Even if he didn't this should be good.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here: we are on the phone, trying to get the truth out of him. He did admit he was in PA so that's a start

Good luck with that!

[Anonymous]

I'm sure he was in PA. Ask him if he got a good deal.

[Anonymous]

If I were her I would have answered too. Logically we all know including the op that it is not a good idea and she needs to cut ties... But temptation to hear is excuses would be hard for anyone

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, I think you should answer it because otherwise you will wonder and wonder until you contact him. You need to talk to him for closure.

Remember that most people here are just reading for the sport. They don't know or care about you. Their approval means nothing, and in the end, you are still sitting in a room alone in front of a computer. So answer the phone and talk to him so that you have the tools you will need to cut ties, move on, and make yourself healthy and happy in the future.

+1

[Anonymous]

A screenshot would be a great way to shut the naysayers up though...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If I were her I would have answered too. Logically we all know including the op that it is not a good idea and she needs to cut ties... But temptation to hear is excuses would be hard for anyone

Exactly. There was never any doubt she was going to answer and listen to the story he cooked up. Hopefully she won't believe any of it and this will be the end of it though.

[Anonymous]

jsteele wrote:This might be a good time to announce our latest website:

http://www.PoachingBobcats.com

It's a little sparse at the moment, but we expect great things.

You can send the residuals to me, Jeff for coining the phrase. (I will spend it on my kids so you know it will be put to good use. Then send some to OP for her therapy on how not to be a dingbat and to SV for help with his mental health issues.)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A screenshot would be a great way to shut the naysayers up though...

HOLD ON

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A screenshot would be a great way to shut the naysayers up though...

Why do you think she is talking to him on the phone instead of something text based...

She's never followed through on anything more than the vaguest proof.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A screenshot would be a great way to shut the naysayers up though...

Why do you think she is talking to him on the phone instead of something text based...

She's never followed through on anything more than the vaguest proof.

Are you kidding? The screenshot she sent before of SV and his beard and the chatter below it was priceless proof of the reality of their relationship.

[Anonymous]

OP here: proof we are on the phone. Sad I have to do this...

[Anonymous]

Wow OP, good job of multi-tasking!
So if you can do that, could you also be, like, typing a synopsis of his story while he is spinning it?