S/O The thread on the missing boyfriend is waaay too long. Can someone sum it up?

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Anonymous wrote:I know it's irrelevent now but I need to point out that in OP's original story, she was talking to Stevie V as he was driving up to Maine and then he said goodbye when he got up there and the reception started to get spotty. Now we hear that he was never heading to Maine at all. So it's not just a flakey failure to update her on a change of plans and decision to go to PA, there's still some kind of lie here.
That's all I've got after reading 150 pages of this craziness.

Everything was a lie because the Maine cabin doesn't exist. He hasn't talked to that Uncle (with the non existent cabin) in 2 years. The only thing that we 100 percent know to be true are his name and his horrible beard. Oh, and the coonhounds. Cause you couldn't make that up!

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Anonymous wrote:What a small world we live it.

Steve V's family and I have mutual friends on Facebook. Now I have to go ask my husband if he knows the V family or Steve in particular.

And the answer?

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Anonymous wrote:I know it's irrelevent now but I need to point out that in OP's original story, she was talking to Stevie V as he was driving up to Maine and then he said goodbye when he got up there and the reception started to get spotty. Now we hear that he was never heading to Maine at all. So it's not just a flakey failure to update her on a change of plans and decision to go to PA, there's still some kind of lie here.
That's all I've got after reading 150 pages of this craziness.

Everything was a lie because the Maine cabin doesn't exist. He hasn't talked to that Uncle (with the non existent cabin) in 2 years. The only thing that we 100 percent know to be true are his name and his horrible beard. Oh, and the coonhounds. Cause you couldn't make that up!

I was never convinced that Uncle J was actually the uncle he claimed to be going up there with. I think in his alibi, he said that he called off the Maine trip because of the coon dog competition in PA. I just wanted to clarify that this would only make sense if op's last contact with him had been the night before he started driving to Maine and then he had a change of plans in the morning. That's not how it happened.

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Anonymous wrote:What a small world we live it.

Steve V's family and I have mutual friends on Facebook. Now I have to go ask my husband if he knows the V family or Steve in particular.

And the answer?

Start an AMA!

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Anonymous wrote:OP here; oh and I'm a bit concerned that yall are still so obsessed with finding him. And oh! Apparently a good 8-10 of you tried friend requesting him I was told! That's amusing

That actually is pretty funny haha

Wait, what?? How does he know they were DCUMs? Did you tell him about the thread, OP?

Op here: no, he just told me he got my fb messages and asked if I knew who all the people were who tried friend requesting him and told me that there were at least 8. Funny thing was his comment "one lady has kids and a husband in her picture and idk who the hell they are"

I thought he texted and said hey, and you didn't respond. Where's all the rest of this coming from?

She never said that.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here; oh and I'm a bit concerned that yall are still so obsessed with finding him. And oh! Apparently a good 8-10 of you tried friend requesting him I was told! That's amusing

That actually is pretty funny haha

Wait, what?? How does he know they were DCUMs? Did you tell him about the thread, OP?

Op here: no, he just told me he got my fb messages and asked if I knew who all the people were who tried friend requesting him and told me that there were at least 8. Funny thing was his comment "one lady has kids and a husband in her picture and idk who the hell they are"

I thought he texted and said hey, and you didn't respond. Where's all the rest of this coming from?

She never said that.

She said that when he texted in the morning. But the did talk the night he "came back" after he texted "hi" and called a bunch of times. The next morning he texted "hey" and so far she didn't respond.

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Sorry to be a Debbie Downer, but am I the only one who thinks these threads should be deleted? I'm concerned about OPs safety. He could easily come across this thread. He probably googles things like PA Coonhound Competitions quite often, and this thread could pop up. Plus, people tried to friend him on fb, so someone could message him about this.

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Anonymous wrote:OP says BF was going hunting Fri - Sun in Northern Maine.
BF didn't check in Sunday night
OP posted Monday evening with her worry
For a little while DCUM was sympathetic offering suggestions to resolve/ find answers
OP, though consistent with responsive to speculation, didn't take provided advice through last night/this morning
As of htis afternoon, it became clear that the BF may be an asshole that is shady and possibly otherwise involved.
OP was advised for the ENTIRE afternoon to contact authorities, she made a half assed effort
She then attempted to reach out to his family via social media and phone despite knowing very little about them, but was consistently rebuIiiffed
OP started to see writing on the wall
Now we are debating if you stick it to asshole online BF (limited in person interaction) or just run for the hills.


I think that's it.

Brilliant summation. Bravo.

He was going to be hunting bobcats which is illegal.
Believe me, this matters if you intend to spend anytime in the future on DCUM. I predict this will be as important as understanding Chipotle Lady.

Lol, some people were like a dog with a bone on the "illegal" angle. You would've thought he was hunting humans.

Well, that's because anyone that would hunt out of season unless they're starving is scum. And hunting for sport is gross.

+10000

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Anonymous wrote:Sorry to be a Debbie Downer, but am I the only one who thinks these threads should be deleted? I'm concerned about OPs safety. He could easily come across this thread. He probably googles things like PA Coonhound Competitions quite often, and this thread could pop up. Plus, people tried to friend him on fb, so someone could message him about this.

We only have OP's word that anyone from DCUM actually tried to befriend SV on FB. I'm personally skeptical about that.

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Anonymous wrote:Sorry to be a Debbie Downer, but am I the only one who thinks these threads should be deleted? I'm concerned about OPs safety. He could easily come across this thread. He probably googles things like PA Coonhound Competitions quite often, and this thread could pop up. Plus, people tried to friend him on fb, so someone could message him about this.

We only have OP's word that anyone from DCUM actually tried to befriend SV on FB. I'm personally skeptical about that.

I also sent him a friend request on FB. hasn't accepted me yet. or declined probably

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Anonymous wrote:Sorry to be a Debbie Downer, but am I the only one who thinks these threads should be deleted? I'm concerned about OPs safety. He could easily come across this thread. He probably googles things like PA Coonhound Competitions quite often, and this thread could pop up. Plus, people tried to friend him on fb, so someone could message him about this.

We only have OP's word that anyone from DCUM actually tried to befriend SV on FB. I'm personally skeptical about that.

I also sent him a friend request on FB. hasn't accepted me yet. or declined probably

You're creepy....

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Anonymous wrote:What a small world we live it.

Steve V's family and I have mutual friends on Facebook. Now I have to go ask my husband if he knows the V family or Steve in particular.

And the answer?

Start an AMA!

My husband does not know the V family (or at least remember them), but they are from the same area of NY & VT. My husband moved away from home 20 years ago.

My inlaws still live in the same area. Next time I see my SIL & BIL in person, I'm going to ask them. I feel weird calling them or trying to explain why on the phone. My BIL's ex-girlfriend (who is my FB friend) is friends with Uncle J. BIL is not on FB, and I can't see Steve's friend list.

I still find it strange/funny that Uncle J and I have a mutual friend, and some other V family members and I have up to five mutual friends.

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Anonymous wrote:Sorry to be a Debbie Downer, but am I the only one who thinks these threads should be deleted? I'm concerned about OPs safety. He could easily come across this thread. He probably googles things like PA Coonhound Competitions quite often, and this thread could pop up. Plus, people tried to friend him on fb, so someone could message him about this.

We only have OP's word that anyone from DCUM actually tried to befriend SV on FB. I'm personally skeptical about that.

I also sent him a friend request on FB. hasn't accepted me yet. or declined probably

Why? Why did you do this?

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Anonymous wrote:Sorry to be a Debbie Downer, but am I the only one who thinks these threads should be deleted? I'm concerned about OPs safety. He could easily come across this thread. He probably googles things like PA Coonhound Competitions quite often, and this thread could pop up. Plus, people tried to friend him on fb, so someone could message him about this.

We only have OP's word that anyone from DCUM actually tried to befriend SV on FB. I'm personally skeptical about that.

I also sent him a friend request on FB. hasn't accepted me yet. or declined probably

Why? Why did you do this?

curious. that's why

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Anonymous wrote:Ermergerd.
Amazing

love ermergerd!!!

OP, you sound twisted. First, he's the A hole BF who totally dissed you, phone off, M.I.A. w/a shit alibi for like 5 days, you call his family, cops, etc. Now, you find it amusing that you can report you have had text and phone conversations with him several times? You sound desperate. well, at least you idiocracy and immaturity were entertaining for many of us. Please ask your BF to ditch another chick and have her come complain WTF on here too, only to take BF back when he returns a week later, and then go cry wa wa to jeff when people call her out.

Yet you keep following this thread

I sure do - OP's dysfunction is my entertainment.