S/O The thread on the missing boyfriend is waaay too long. Can someone sum it up?

[Anonymous]

Thx!

[Anonymous]

Said he went hunting for the weekend and would call Sunday.

Didn't, but he's not dead. Just shady.

All of DCUM knows everything there is to know about Uncle J, his wife, their dog, and the cool fishing business.

[Anonymous]

OP says BF was going hunting Fri - Sun in Northern Maine.
BF didn't check in Sunday night
OP posted Monday evening with her worry
For a little while DCUM was sympathetic offering suggestions to resolve/ find answers
OP, though consistent with responsive to speculation, didn't take provided advice through last night/this morning
As of htis afternoon, it became clear that the BF may be an asshole that is shady and possibly otherwise involved.
OP was advised for the ENTIRE afternoon to contact authorities, she made a half assed effort
She then attempted to reach out to his family via social media and phone despite knowing very little about them, but was consistently rebuffed
OP started to see writing on the wall
Now we are debating if you stick it to asshole online BF (limited in person interaction) or just run for the hills.


I think that's it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP says BF was going hunting Fri - Sun in Northern Maine.
BF didn't check in Sunday night
OP posted Monday evening with her worry
For a little while DCUM was sympathetic offering suggestions to resolve/ find answers
OP, though consistent with responsive to speculation, didn't take provided advice through last night/this morning
As of htis afternoon, it became clear that the BF may be an asshole that is shady and possibly otherwise involved.
OP was advised for the ENTIRE afternoon to contact authorities, she made a half assed effort
She then attempted to reach out to his family via social media and phone despite knowing very little about them, but was consistently rebuffed
OP started to see writing on the wall
Now we are debating if you stick it to asshole online BF (limited in person interaction) or just run for the hills.


I think that's it.

Brilliant summation. Bravo.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP says BF was going hunting Fri - Sun in Northern Maine.
BF didn't check in Sunday night
OP posted Monday evening with her worry
For a little while DCUM was sympathetic offering suggestions to resolve/ find answers
OP, though consistent with responsive to speculation, didn't take provided advice through last night/this morning
As of htis afternoon, it became clear that the BF may be an asshole that is shady and possibly otherwise involved.
OP was advised for the ENTIRE afternoon to contact authorities, she made a half assed effort
She then attempted to reach out to his family via social media and phone despite knowing very little about them, but was consistently rebuffed
OP started to see writing on the wall
Now we are debating if you stick it to asshole online BF (limited in person interaction) or just run for the hills.


I think that's it.

Most people think OP needs to suck it up and cut him off.

[Anonymous]

Tell us more about Uncle J and the fishing business!

[Anonymous]

Op here. Thank you!!!!!!

[Anonymous]

I don't want to wade through the whole thread. Where is uncle j on fb?

[Anonymous]

I too am just tuning into that thread. How do we know he isnt dead?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I too am just tuning into that thread. How do we know he isnt dead?

Really, we don't. It's just very, very, unlikely given everything else that has come out.

[Anonymous]

This does not do the thread justice. dCUM readers found the Guy! And his uncle who was supposedly with him but now won't answer the phone. And Jeff even weighed in to say maybe DCUM could be used to find missing derelict loves.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This does not do the thread justice. dCUM readers found the Guy! And his uncle who was supposedly with him but now won't answer the phone. And Jeff even weighed in to say maybe DCUM could be used to find missing derelict loves.

+1
The Jeff contributions were epic. Really it's hard to capture the essence of that thread- you almost have to experience it.

[Anonymous]

Oh but for anyone who does go, the posts explicitly revealing the identities of the uncle and boyfriend were erased.

[Anonymous]

I really enjoyed skimming that thread - so cool that the DCUMers were able to solve the mystery that the Main trip was a lie based on the uncle's FB posts (and FOUND BF and the uncle - wow).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I really enjoyed skimming that thread - so cool that the DCUMers were able to solve the mystery that the Main trip was a lie based on the uncle's FB posts (and FOUND BF and the uncle - wow).

What do you all mean by "found" him?