Dolling yourself up for husband

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Anonymous wrote:Dolling up women - do you ladies work? Or are you all SAHMs and rely on your DH to provide?? I know most of you will respond with "I work" but seriously, do you?

Does spending 20 minutes putting on makeup and dressing nicely somehow negate the ability to hold a job? I’m curious about what point you’re trying to make here.

So you don’t work.

Explain how wearing makeup means that you don’t work, or cannot work. Be specific.

Avoiding the question = no.

Yes, I work. I’m assuming you don’t, because you apparently have little to no experience dressing professionally. Unless you’re my former coworker that wears depression sweats in an office setting.

Now, stop avoiding the question: why does wearing makeup mean that a woman cannot work?

Sure you do

So…you’ve never actually held a job, have you? Otherwise you’d be able to come back with a response that isn’t a smiley face.

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Anonymous wrote:Dolling up women - do you ladies work? Or are you all SAHMs and rely on your DH to provide?? I know most of you will respond with "I work" but seriously, do you?

Does spending 20 minutes putting on makeup and dressing nicely somehow negate the ability to hold a job? I’m curious about what point you’re trying to make here.

So you don’t work.

Explain how wearing makeup means that you don’t work, or cannot work. Be specific.

Avoiding the question = no.

Yes, I work. I’m assuming you don’t, because you apparently have little to no experience dressing professionally. Unless you’re my former coworker that wears depression sweats in an office setting.

Now, stop avoiding the question: why does wearing makeup mean that a woman cannot work?

Sure you do

So…you’ve never actually held a job, have you? Otherwise you’d be able to come back with a response that isn’t a smiley face.

This debate you two are having has gotten old. Maybe give it a rest?

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Anonymous wrote:48 and I do it every day. I remember my first full time job out of college 25 years ago, I would duck into the bathroom at the end of the day to brush my hair and teeth and reapply some make up. Another lady who worked there finally asked me why I did that every day and I said, "I want to look nice for my husband!" He picked me up every day, as I worked downtown and parking was so expensive. I remember she laughed and said she can't believe I do that. Why not? It brings me so much happiness that my husband thinks I am beautiful. And I think it makes him happy too to have a pretty lady.

I’m 52 and I do the same too. Brush my hair and add a swipe of lipstick before heading home. Though these days it’s more likely that my 3-year old grandson is the one saying “Mimi pretty”.

You became a grandmother at 49?? Are you in Appalachia? Most women around here are having their last or getting their kids into middle school.

Yeah, I had my first child at 22. I come from a wealthy Indian family, not Appalachia.
My family helped while I continued my education. Welcome to how much of the world lives. 😂

Most of the world is not wealthy. Most women cannot continue their education once they have had children. Super cool you got to. 22 is young anyway you slice it in the last 100 years.

Most communities the world over support new mothers, whether they are rich or poor. The extended family female relatives pitch in to help young moms. The US is weirdly hostile to working mothers while preaching tradwife nonsense.

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Anonymous wrote:48 and I do it every day. I remember my first full time job out of college 25 years ago, I would duck into the bathroom at the end of the day to brush my hair and teeth and reapply some make up. Another lady who worked there finally asked me why I did that every day and I said, "I want to look nice for my husband!" He picked me up every day, as I worked downtown and parking was so expensive. I remember she laughed and said she can't believe I do that. Why not? It brings me so much happiness that my husband thinks I am beautiful. And I think it makes him happy too to have a pretty lady.

I’m 52 and I do the same too. Brush my hair and add a swipe of lipstick before heading home. Though these days it’s more likely that my 3-year old grandson is the one saying “Mimi pretty”.

You became a grandmother at 49?? Are you in Appalachia? Most women around here are having their last or getting their kids into middle school.

Yeah, I had my first child at 22. I come from a wealthy Indian family, not Appalachia.
My family helped while I continued my education. Welcome to how much of the world lives. 😂

Most of the world is not wealthy. Most women cannot continue their education once they have had children. Super cool you got to. 22 is young anyway you slice it in the last 100 years.

Most communities the world over support new mothers, whether they are rich or poor. The extended family female relatives pitch in to help young moms. The US is weirdly hostile to working mothers while preaching tradwife nonsense.

Kind of rich coming from a woman from a country where child marriage rates are horrifying. You live in a bubble of wealth. Women are oppressed worldwide, not supported. You won’t hear any arguments from me defending America’s treatment of women, but “other countries” or “most of the world” is disingenuous AF. But yeah, I freshen up my face to go in public and before I see DH sometimes. And I’m educated or whatever.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Does your husband expect this?

Troll- dolling up?

Lmao

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Anonymous wrote:Dolling up women - do you ladies work? Or are you all SAHMs and rely on your DH to provide?? I know most of you will respond with "I work" but seriously, do you?

Does spending 20 minutes putting on makeup and dressing nicely somehow negate the ability to hold a job? I’m curious about what point you’re trying to make here.

So you don’t work.

Explain how wearing makeup means that you don’t work, or cannot work. Be specific.

Avoiding the question = no.

Yes, I work. I’m assuming you don’t, because you apparently have little to no experience dressing professionally. Unless you’re my former coworker that wears depression sweats in an office setting.

Now, stop avoiding the question: why does wearing makeup mean that a woman cannot work?

Sure you do

So…you’ve never actually held a job, have you? Otherwise you’d be able to come back with a response that isn’t a smiley face.

This debate you two are having has gotten old. Maybe give it a rest?

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[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Selena Gomez:

Gonna wear that dress you like skin-tight
Do my hair up real, real nice
And syncopate my skin to how you're breathing
'Cause I just wanna look good for you, good for you, oh-oh
I just wanna look good for you, good for you, oh-oh
Let me show you how proud I am to be yours, leave this dress a mess on the floor
Still look good for you, good for you, oh-oh, oh-oh, oh

Put yourselves in that mindset and I promise the quotient of happiness in your marriage will skyrocket.

100%. It's not that hard.

Thank you!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Selena Gomez:

Gonna wear that dress you like skin-tight
Do my hair up real, real nice
And syncopate my skin to how you're breathing
'Cause I just wanna look good for you, good for you, oh-oh
I just wanna look good for you, good for you, oh-oh
Let me show you how proud I am to be yours, leave this dress a mess on the floor
Still look good for you, good for you, oh-oh, oh-oh, oh

Put yourselves in that mindset and I promise the quotient of happiness in your marriage will skyrocket.

100%. It's not that hard.

Thank you!

Except it is hard. You can only where a skin tight dress if you’re consistently eating well and exercising. That doesn’t happen for most of America. Doing your hair in an updo takes tons to time. I can’t imagine doing all of this just so my husband can find me attractive.

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Anonymous wrote:I think I'm quite beautiful naturally. I have great skin, beautiful eyes and nice lips. My husband never expects me to "doll" up and always tells me how beautiful I am as is.

LOL. I don’t know if you are naturally beautiful but you definitely don’t lack self-confidence.

Shouldn't all women feel beautiful? Why is that a bad thing?

the beauty industry is built on women believing they are not beautiful and enough naturally that they just need this or that.

The increase in attractiveness between “natural” and “made up” is abundantly obvious to both men and women. It’s pointless to pretend the two conditions are equally beautiful.

So a woman has to be full of fake sh*t before you find her beautiful? That's sad for you (or your partner).

Taking care of your appearance isn’t fake. It reflects very real and important qualities, including respect for yourself and for others. If your partner (male or female) stops taking care of their appearance, that’s a real and unmistakable signal of how they regard themselves and you. In its extreme form, not attending to dress and hygiene is a symptom of mental illness, which is a real thing, not just them casting aside “fake” stuff.

Taking care of your appearance doesn’t need to include changing your face or lip color. Basic hygiene is not makeup. It’s really sad you don’t think women can be beautiful naturally bare faced.

It’s really sad you’re too stupid to understand that a woman who looks “beautiful naturally bare faced” will look even more beautiful when she puts on makeup. That’s what makeup does… that’s what it’s for… duh!

Hard disagree. I’ve watched some really beautiful women transform themselves into parodies with contouring and lash extensions.

I shouldn’t have to explain that a woman who looks “beautiful naturally bare faced” will look even more beautiful when she puts on makeup if she does it properly but I forgot to take into account the existence of extremely stupid people like you.

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Anonymous wrote:I think I'm quite beautiful naturally. I have great skin, beautiful eyes and nice lips. My husband never expects me to "doll" up and always tells me how beautiful I am as is.

LOL. I don’t know if you are naturally beautiful but you definitely don’t lack self-confidence.

Shouldn't all women feel beautiful? Why is that a bad thing?

the beauty industry is built on women believing they are not beautiful and enough naturally that they just need this or that.

The increase in attractiveness between “natural” and “made up” is abundantly obvious to both men and women. It’s pointless to pretend the two conditions are equally beautiful.

So a woman has to be full of fake sh*t before you find her beautiful? That's sad for you (or your partner).

Taking care of your appearance isn’t fake. It reflects very real and important qualities, including respect for yourself and for others. If your partner (male or female) stops taking care of their appearance, that’s a real and unmistakable signal of how they regard themselves and you. In its extreme form, not attending to dress and hygiene is a symptom of mental illness, which is a real thing, not just them casting aside “fake” stuff.

Taking care of your appearance doesn’t need to include changing your face or lip color. Basic hygiene is not makeup. It’s really sad you don’t think women can be beautiful naturally bare faced.

It’s really sad you’re too stupid to understand that a woman who looks “beautiful naturally bare faced” will look even more beautiful when she puts on makeup. That’s what makeup does… that’s what it’s for… duh!

Hard disagree. I’ve watched some really beautiful women transform themselves into parodies with contouring and lash extensions.

I shouldn’t have to explain that a woman who looks “beautiful naturally bare faced” will look even more beautiful when she puts on makeup if she does it properly but I forgot to take into account the existence of extremely stupid people like you.

I’m glad my husband finds me beautiful as is and doesn’t pressure me to wear makeup while ranking me against others.

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Anonymous wrote:Selena Gomez:

Gonna wear that dress you like skin-tight
Do my hair up real, real nice
And syncopate my skin to how you're breathing
'Cause I just wanna look good for you, good for you, oh-oh
I just wanna look good for you, good for you, oh-oh
Let me show you how proud I am to be yours, leave this dress a mess on the floor
Still look good for you, good for you, oh-oh, oh-oh, oh

Put yourselves in that mindset and I promise the quotient of happiness in your marriage will skyrocket.

100%. It's not that hard.

Thank you!

Except it is hard. You can only where a skin tight dress if you’re consistently eating well and exercising. That doesn’t happen for most of America. Doing your hair in an updo takes tons to time. I can’t imagine doing all of this just so my husband can find me attractive.

No one is suggesting you check into the bridesmaids suite with a stylist, you are probably very well aware of one or two items of clothing that you own that your husband finds irresistible, put them on, do a smoky eye, it takes 10 seconds.

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Anonymous wrote:Selena Gomez:

Gonna wear that dress you like skin-tight
Do my hair up real, real nice
And syncopate my skin to how you're breathing
'Cause I just wanna look good for you, good for you, oh-oh
I just wanna look good for you, good for you, oh-oh
Let me show you how proud I am to be yours, leave this dress a mess on the floor
Still look good for you, good for you, oh-oh, oh-oh, oh

Put yourselves in that mindset and I promise the quotient of happiness in your marriage will skyrocket.

100%. It's not that hard.

Thank you!

Except it is hard. You can only where a skin tight dress if you’re consistently eating well and exercising. That doesn’t happen for most of America. Doing your hair in an updo takes tons to time. I can’t imagine doing all of this just so my husband can find me attractive.

No one is suggesting you check into the bridesmaids suite with a stylist, you are probably very well aware of one or two items of clothing that you own that your husband finds irresistible, put them on, do a smoky eye, it takes 10 seconds.

Also, the way to not be fat is simply to eat less, and that doesn't take any extra time. Actually, takes less time, and saves money. There's no excuse.

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Anonymous wrote:Selena Gomez:

Gonna wear that dress you like skin-tight
Do my hair up real, real nice
And syncopate my skin to how you're breathing
'Cause I just wanna look good for you, good for you, oh-oh
I just wanna look good for you, good for you, oh-oh
Let me show you how proud I am to be yours, leave this dress a mess on the floor
Still look good for you, good for you, oh-oh, oh-oh, oh

Put yourselves in that mindset and I promise the quotient of happiness in your marriage will skyrocket.

100%. It's not that hard.

Thank you!

Except it is hard. You can only where a skin tight dress if you’re consistently eating well and exercising. That doesn’t happen for most of America. Doing your hair in an updo takes tons to time. I can’t imagine doing all of this just so my husband can find me attractive.

No one is suggesting you check into the bridesmaids suite with a stylist, you are probably very well aware of one or two items of clothing that you own that your husband finds irresistible, put them on, do a smoky eye, it takes 10 seconds.

Also, the way to not be fat is simply to eat less, and that doesn't take any extra time. Actually, takes less time, and saves money. There's no excuse.

People don't need "an excuse" for why your definition of beauty is narrow and basic af. That's a you problem, you fatshaming incel.

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Anonymous wrote:Selena Gomez:

Gonna wear that dress you like skin-tight
Do my hair up real, real nice
And syncopate my skin to how you're breathing
'Cause I just wanna look good for you, good for you, oh-oh
I just wanna look good for you, good for you, oh-oh
Let me show you how proud I am to be yours, leave this dress a mess on the floor
Still look good for you, good for you, oh-oh, oh-oh, oh

Put yourselves in that mindset and I promise the quotient of happiness in your marriage will skyrocket.

100%. It's not that hard.

Thank you!

Except it is hard. You can only where a skin tight dress if you’re consistently eating well and exercising. That doesn’t happen for most of America. Doing your hair in an updo takes tons to time. I can’t imagine doing all of this just so my husband can find me attractive.

No one is suggesting you check into the bridesmaids suite with a stylist, you are probably very well aware of one or two items of clothing that you own that your husband finds irresistible, put them on, do a smoky eye, it takes 10 seconds.

"hey, babe. Wanna f*ck?" takes 3. I'm efficient.

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Anonymous wrote:48 and I do it every day. I remember my first full time job out of college 25 years ago, I would duck into the bathroom at the end of the day to brush my hair and teeth and reapply some make up. Another lady who worked there finally asked me why I did that every day and I said, "I want to look nice for my husband!" He picked me up every day, as I worked downtown and parking was so expensive. I remember she laughed and said she can't believe I do that. Why not? It brings me so much happiness that my husband thinks I am beautiful. And I think it makes him happy too to have a pretty lady.

I’m 52 and I do the same too. Brush my hair and add a swipe of lipstick before heading home. Though these days it’s more likely that my 3-year old grandson is the one saying “Mimi pretty”.

You became a grandmother at 49?? Are you in Appalachia? Most women around here are having their last or getting their kids into middle school.

Yeah, I had my first child at 22. I come from a wealthy Indian family, not Appalachia.
My family helped while I continued my education. Welcome to how much of the world lives. 😂

Most of the world is not wealthy. Most women cannot continue their education once they have had children. Super cool you got to. 22 is young anyway you slice it in the last 100 years.

Most communities the world over support new mothers, whether they are rich or poor. The extended family female relatives pitch in to help young moms. The US is weirdly hostile to working mothers while preaching tradwife nonsense.

Kind of rich coming from a woman from a country where child marriage rates are horrifying. You live in a bubble of wealth. Women are oppressed worldwide, not supported. You won’t hear any arguments from me defending America’s treatment of women, but “other countries” or “most of the world” is disingenuous AF. But yeah, I freshen up my face to go in public and before I see DH sometimes. And I’m educated or whatever.

Lay off the propaganda.