Dolling yourself up for husband

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Anonymous wrote:Does your husband expect this?

Troll- dolling up?

Lmao

I think someone has been watching way too many 30s movies. So are the broads dolled up yet?

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Anonymous wrote:I think I'm quite beautiful naturally. I have great skin, beautiful eyes and nice lips. My husband never expects me to "doll" up and always tells me how beautiful I am as is.

LOL. I don’t know if you are naturally beautiful but you definitely don’t lack self-confidence.

Shouldn't all women feel beautiful? Why is that a bad thing?

the beauty industry is built on women believing they are not beautiful and enough naturally that they just need this or that.

The increase in attractiveness between “natural” and “made up” is abundantly obvious to both men and women. It’s pointless to pretend the two conditions are equally beautiful.

So a woman has to be full of fake sh*t before you find her beautiful? That's sad for you (or your partner).

Taking care of your appearance isn’t fake. It reflects very real and important qualities, including respect for yourself and for others. If your partner (male or female) stops taking care of their appearance, that’s a real and unmistakable signal of how they regard themselves and you. In its extreme form, not attending to dress and hygiene is a symptom of mental illness, which is a real thing, not just them casting aside “fake” stuff.

Taking care of your appearance doesn’t need to include changing your face or lip color. Basic hygiene is not makeup. It’s really sad you don’t think women can be beautiful naturally bare faced.

It’s really sad you’re too stupid to understand that a woman who looks “beautiful naturally bare faced” will look even more beautiful when she puts on makeup. That’s what makeup does… that’s what it’s for… duh!

Hard disagree. I’ve watched some really beautiful women transform themselves into parodies with contouring and lash extensions.

I shouldn’t have to explain that a woman who looks “beautiful naturally bare faced” will look even more beautiful when she puts on makeup if she does it properly but I forgot to take into account the existence of extremely stupid people like you.

That is your opinion. I don’t find that make-up enhances beauty. It’s just paint and powder on your face. It’s like saying a tattoo makes an arm even more beautiful than a bare skin arm - because it has colour and ink on it. Same with make-up. If to you make up or tattoos or jewelry or hair dye are associated with beauty - then you will think people with those look more beautiful but many of us don’t have that association.

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Anonymous wrote:I think I'm quite beautiful naturally. I have great skin, beautiful eyes and nice lips. My husband never expects me to "doll" up and always tells me how beautiful I am as is.

LOL. I don’t know if you are naturally beautiful but you definitely don’t lack self-confidence.

Shouldn't all women feel beautiful? Why is that a bad thing?

the beauty industry is built on women believing they are not beautiful and enough naturally that they just need this or that.

The increase in attractiveness between “natural” and “made up” is abundantly obvious to both men and women. It’s pointless to pretend the two conditions are equally beautiful.

So a woman has to be full of fake sh*t before you find her beautiful? That's sad for you (or your partner).

Taking care of your appearance isn’t fake. It reflects very real and important qualities, including respect for yourself and for others. If your partner (male or female) stops taking care of their appearance, that’s a real and unmistakable signal of how they regard themselves and you. In its extreme form, not attending to dress and hygiene is a symptom of mental illness, which is a real thing, not just them casting aside “fake” stuff.

Taking care of your appearance doesn’t need to include changing your face or lip color. Basic hygiene is not makeup. It’s really sad you don’t think women can be beautiful naturally bare faced.

It’s really sad you’re too stupid to understand that a woman who looks “beautiful naturally bare faced” will look even more beautiful when she puts on makeup. That’s what makeup does… that’s what it’s for… duh!

Hard disagree. I’ve watched some really beautiful women transform themselves into parodies with contouring and lash extensions.

I shouldn’t have to explain that a woman who looks “beautiful naturally bare faced” will look even more beautiful when she puts on makeup if she does it properly but I forgot to take into account the existence of extremely stupid people like you.

That is your opinion. I don’t find that make-up enhances beauty. It’s just paint and powder on your face. It’s like saying a tattoo makes an arm even more beautiful than a bare skin arm - because it has colour and ink on it. Same with make-up. If to you make up or tattoos or jewelry or hair dye are associated with beauty - then you will think people with those look more beautiful but many of us don’t have that association.

You obviously don't understand how makeup works. It's not a doodle on your face. It's about shape, brightness and shadow, symmetry, consistency, etc.

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Over time I’ve taken note of what DH likes and yes have done things for his benefit. Wearing more thongs. Short skirts and sundresses. Brazilians. Hair certain ways. Subtle makeup. Occasional “porn star” nights. Why wouldn’t we do things to make our partners happy?

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Anonymous wrote:Does your husband expect this?

Troll- dolling up?

Lmao

I think someone has been watching way too many 30s movies. So are the broads dolled up yet?

We're going to the talkies after we stop by the diner.

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Anonymous wrote:Side note but I hate this phrase. A doll is a toy for a child, it sounds so infantilizing to use it as a verb.

Tarted up, then?

I like that one!
How about "gussied up"?

My dad called it "painted up" and hated it.

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Heck no! But he better doll up for me!

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Anonymous wrote:I think I'm quite beautiful naturally. I have great skin, beautiful eyes and nice lips. My husband never expects me to "doll" up and always tells me how beautiful I am as is.

LOL. I don’t know if you are naturally beautiful but you definitely don’t lack self-confidence.

Shouldn't all women feel beautiful? Why is that a bad thing?

the beauty industry is built on women believing they are not beautiful and enough naturally that they just need this or that.

The increase in attractiveness between “natural” and “made up” is abundantly obvious to both men and women. It’s pointless to pretend the two conditions are equally beautiful.

So a woman has to be full of fake sh*t before you find her beautiful? That's sad for you (or your partner).

Taking care of your appearance isn’t fake. It reflects very real and important qualities, including respect for yourself and for others. If your partner (male or female) stops taking care of their appearance, that’s a real and unmistakable signal of how they regard themselves and you. In its extreme form, not attending to dress and hygiene is a symptom of mental illness, which is a real thing, not just them casting aside “fake” stuff.

Taking care of your appearance doesn’t need to include changing your face or lip color. Basic hygiene is not makeup. It’s really sad you don’t think women can be beautiful naturally bare faced.

It’s really sad you’re too stupid to understand that a woman who looks “beautiful naturally bare faced” will look even more beautiful when she puts on makeup. That’s what makeup does… that’s what it’s for… duh!

Hard disagree. I’ve watched some really beautiful women transform themselves into parodies with contouring and lash extensions.

I shouldn’t have to explain that a woman who looks “beautiful naturally bare faced” will look even more beautiful when she puts on makeup if she does it properly but I forgot to take into account the existence of extremely stupid people like you.

That is your opinion. I don’t find that make-up enhances beauty. It’s just paint and powder on your face. It’s like saying a tattoo makes an arm even more beautiful than a bare skin arm - because it has colour and ink on it. Same with make-up. If to you make up or tattoos or jewelry or hair dye are associated with beauty - then you will think people with those look more beautiful but many of us don’t have that association.

You obviously don't understand how makeup works. It's not a doodle on your face. It's about shape, brightness and shadow, symmetry, consistency, etc.

DP and just like there are women out there who naturally don’t really need shapewear, there are women who don’t really need makeup. My best friend and her sister are like this. They have beautiful eyes and lashes and even skin and nice coloring and makeup really isn’t necessary for either of them to look good.

I look pretty good naturally but I look better with makeup and shapewear so I’m just saying my observations here. 😂

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Anonymous wrote:Over time I’ve taken note of what DH likes and yes have done things for his benefit. Wearing more thongs. Short skirts and sundresses. Brazilians. Hair certain ways. Subtle makeup. Occasional “porn star” nights. Why wouldn’t we do things to make our partners happy?

What has he done for you?

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Anonymous wrote:Selena Gomez:

Gonna wear that dress you like skin-tight
Do my hair up real, real nice
And syncopate my skin to how you're breathing
'Cause I just wanna look good for you, good for you, oh-oh
I just wanna look good for you, good for you, oh-oh
Let me show you how proud I am to be yours, leave this dress a mess on the floor
Still look good for you, good for you, oh-oh, oh-oh, oh

Put yourselves in that mindset and I promise the quotient of happiness in your marriage will skyrocket.

100%. It's not that hard.

Thank you!

Except it is hard. You can only where a skin tight dress if you’re consistently eating well and exercising. That doesn’t happen for most of America. Doing your hair in an updo takes tons to time. I can’t imagine doing all of this just so my husband can find me attractive.

No one is suggesting you check into the bridesmaids suite with a stylist, you are probably very well aware of one or two items of clothing that you own that your husband finds irresistible, put them on, do a smoky eye, it takes 10 seconds.

Also, the way to not be fat is simply to eat less, and that doesn't take any extra time. Actually, takes less time, and saves money. There's no excuse.

People don't need "an excuse" for why your definition of beauty is narrow and basic af. That's a you problem, you fatshaming incel.

I had assumed you were arguing with a woman.

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Anonymous wrote:Selena Gomez:

Gonna wear that dress you like skin-tight
Do my hair up real, real nice
And syncopate my skin to how you're breathing
'Cause I just wanna look good for you, good for you, oh-oh
I just wanna look good for you, good for you, oh-oh
Let me show you how proud I am to be yours, leave this dress a mess on the floor
Still look good for you, good for you, oh-oh, oh-oh, oh

Put yourselves in that mindset and I promise the quotient of happiness in your marriage will skyrocket.

100%. It's not that hard.

Thank you!

Except it is hard. You can only where a skin tight dress if you’re consistently eating well and exercising. That doesn’t happen for most of America. Doing your hair in an updo takes tons to time. I can’t imagine doing all of this just so my husband can find me attractive.

No one is suggesting you check into the bridesmaids suite with a stylist, you are probably very well aware of one or two items of clothing that you own that your husband finds irresistible, put them on, do a smoky eye, it takes 10 seconds.

You must have never met a woman. Smokey eyes take more than 10s 🙄

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Anonymous wrote:I think I'm quite beautiful naturally. I have great skin, beautiful eyes and nice lips. My husband never expects me to "doll" up and always tells me how beautiful I am as is.

LOL. I don’t know if you are naturally beautiful but you definitely don’t lack self-confidence.

Shouldn't all women feel beautiful? Why is that a bad thing?

the beauty industry is built on women believing they are not beautiful and enough naturally that they just need this or that.

The increase in attractiveness between “natural” and “made up” is abundantly obvious to both men and women. It’s pointless to pretend the two conditions are equally beautiful.

So a woman has to be full of fake sh*t before you find her beautiful? That's sad for you (or your partner).

Taking care of your appearance isn’t fake. It reflects very real and important qualities, including respect for yourself and for others. If your partner (male or female) stops taking care of their appearance, that’s a real and unmistakable signal of how they regard themselves and you. In its extreme form, not attending to dress and hygiene is a symptom of mental illness, which is a real thing, not just them casting aside “fake” stuff.

Taking care of your appearance doesn’t need to include changing your face or lip color. Basic hygiene is not makeup. It’s really sad you don’t think women can be beautiful naturally bare faced.

It’s really sad you’re too stupid to understand that a woman who looks “beautiful naturally bare faced” will look even more beautiful when she puts on makeup. That’s what makeup does… that’s what it’s for… duh!

Hard disagree. I’ve watched some really beautiful women transform themselves into parodies with contouring and lash extensions.

I shouldn’t have to explain that a woman who looks “beautiful naturally bare faced” will look even more beautiful when she puts on makeup if she does it properly but I forgot to take into account the existence of extremely stupid people like you.

That is your opinion. I don’t find that make-up enhances beauty. It’s just paint and powder on your face. It’s like saying a tattoo makes an arm even more beautiful than a bare skin arm - because it has colour and ink on it. Same with make-up. If to you make up or tattoos or jewelry or hair dye are associated with beauty - then you will think people with those look more beautiful but many of us don’t have that association.

You obviously don't understand how makeup works. It's not a doodle on your face. It's about shape, brightness and shadow, symmetry, consistency, etc.

I understand how it works, I just don’t associate it with beauty. I think natural beauty looks much better than a made up face.

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Anonymous wrote:Over time I’ve taken note of what DH likes and yes have done things for his benefit. Wearing more thongs. Short skirts and sundresses. Brazilians. Hair certain ways. Subtle makeup. Occasional “porn star” nights. Why wouldn’t we do things to make our partners happy?

What has he done for you?

Makes good money. Is a great dad. Keeps in shape and healthy. Goes down on me regularly. Prioritizes my O. Marriage is a mutual thing - we each do things for the other.

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Anonymous wrote:I think I'm quite beautiful naturally. I have great skin, beautiful eyes and nice lips. My husband never expects me to "doll" up and always tells me how beautiful I am as is.

LOL. I don’t know if you are naturally beautiful but you definitely don’t lack self-confidence.

Shouldn't all women feel beautiful? Why is that a bad thing?

the beauty industry is built on women believing they are not beautiful and enough naturally that they just need this or that.

The increase in attractiveness between “natural” and “made up” is abundantly obvious to both men and women. It’s pointless to pretend the two conditions are equally beautiful.

So a woman has to be full of fake sh*t before you find her beautiful? That's sad for you (or your partner).

Taking care of your appearance isn’t fake. It reflects very real and important qualities, including respect for yourself and for others. If your partner (male or female) stops taking care of their appearance, that’s a real and unmistakable signal of how they regard themselves and you. In its extreme form, not attending to dress and hygiene is a symptom of mental illness, which is a real thing, not just them casting aside “fake” stuff.

Taking care of your appearance doesn’t need to include changing your face or lip color. Basic hygiene is not makeup. It’s really sad you don’t think women can be beautiful naturally bare faced.

It’s really sad you’re too stupid to understand that a woman who looks “beautiful naturally bare faced” will look even more beautiful when she puts on makeup. That’s what makeup does… that’s what it’s for… duh!

Hard disagree. I’ve watched some really beautiful women transform themselves into parodies with contouring and lash extensions.

I shouldn’t have to explain that a woman who looks “beautiful naturally bare faced” will look even more beautiful when she puts on makeup if she does it properly but I forgot to take into account the existence of extremely stupid people like you.

That is your opinion. I don’t find that make-up enhances beauty. It’s just paint and powder on your face. It’s like saying a tattoo makes an arm even more beautiful than a bare skin arm - because it has colour and ink on it. Same with make-up. If to you make up or tattoos or jewelry or hair dye are associated with beauty - then you will think people with those look more beautiful but many of us don’t have that association.

You obviously don't understand how makeup works. It's not a doodle on your face. It's about shape, brightness and shadow, symmetry, consistency, etc.

I understand how it works, I just don’t associate it with beauty. I think natural beauty looks much better than a made up face.

DH’s first wife wears all of the following all the time:

Full-face makeup including lash extensions
Human hair extensions
Push up bras
Waist trainers
Stiletto heels
Lots of jewelry

She looks like Black Barbie. At stepson’s wedding, she was mistaken three times for the bride’s hair stylist. No shame in that job, but it speaks to how her look is perceived by others.

DH always says how much he prefers natural looks. He doesn’t even like DDs to wear a bit of makeup.

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Anonymous wrote:Over time I’ve taken note of what DH likes and yes have done things for his benefit. Wearing more thongs. Short skirts and sundresses. Brazilians. Hair certain ways. Subtle makeup. Occasional “porn star” nights. Why wouldn’t we do things to make our partners happy?

What has he done for you?

Makes good money. Is a great dad. Keeps in shape and healthy. Goes down on me regularly. Prioritizes my O. Marriage is a mutual thing - we each do things for the other.

Does he dress well and groom properly?