Odd visit from DS GF dad

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP has been sock puppeting a bunch of responses on page 11.

"People have different opinions than I do! They must all ve the SAME person!! "

Look, there’s OP again

+1

All the previous sock puppet in answers were defensive and stuff like get a life. Same time frame.

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[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP has been sock puppeting a bunch of responses on page 11.

"People have different opinions than I do! They must all ve the SAME person!! "

Look, there’s OP again

+1

All the previous sock puppet in answers were defensive and stuff like get a life. Same time frame.

I'm one of the people you think is a sock puppet.


You are a lunatic.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP has been sock puppeting a bunch of responses on page 11.

"People have different opinions than I do! They must all ve the SAME person!! "

Look, there’s OP again

+1

All the previous sock puppet in answers were defensive and stuff like get a life. Same time frame.

I'm one of the people you think is a sock puppet.


You are a lunatic.

To quote you, “get a life.” Lol

[Anonymous]

"overly controlling of a 17 year old" ... sending teens home before 9:30PM on a school night IS NOT overly controlling.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:"overly controlling of a 17 year old" ... sending teens home before 9:30PM on a school night IS NOT overly controlling.

This! I’m in pajamas and in bed by 9:30. No way I’m leaving two teens unsupervised in MY HOUSE while I sleep. Have plans? Great. Go do them. Out of my control. I remember what I did when I was that age, and I’m not allowing it to happen on my watch in my house. Get creative like the rest of us, if you must.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If my child turned off the locator app, I’d be looking for her. And I’d go to the places that I’d tracked her to before. I think you’re off base here.

this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:"overly controlling of a 17 year old" ... sending teens home before 9:30PM on a school night IS NOT overly controlling.

This! I’m in pajamas and in bed by 9:30. No way I’m leaving two teens unsupervised in MY HOUSE while I sleep. Have plans? Great. Go do them. Out of my control. I remember what I did when I was that age, and I’m not allowing it to happen on my watch in my house. Get creative like the rest of us, if you must.

Why even pretend to be a parent?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:"overly controlling of a 17 year old" ... sending teens home before 9:30PM on a school night IS NOT overly controlling.

+1

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If my child turned off the locator app, I’d be looking for her. And I’d go to the places that I’d tracked her to before. I think you’re off base here.

Yeah me too.

Whoa. This probably ought to be raised in a separate thread, but you track your teen’s’ whereabouts all the time?

Not those posters but yes, I do and they track me as well. If they don't want a tracker, they can pay for their own phone as its for my needs, not theirs.

No one I know does this. Not a single parent.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If my child turned off the locator app, I’d be looking for her. And I’d go to the places that I’d tracked her to before. I think you’re off base here.

Yeah me too.

Whoa. This probably ought to be raised in a separate thread, but you track your teen’s’ whereabouts all the time?

Not those posters but yes, I do and they track me as well. If they don't want a tracker, they can pay for their own phone as it’s for my needs, not theirs.

But, so often that you know where they are at all times and freak out if you can’t immediately locate their whereabouts? That seems like a major privacy violation. If they are late getting home, fine, but creepy otherwise.

You don't get privacy as a child. Even before cell phones, I always had to tell my parents where I was and call if I was late.

Yes, I know where they are at all times, and they know where I am. You should try parenting.

Seriously? So you can burst into your child’s room at any time, read their diary, inspect their body?

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I agree. What a creepy response. I had a roommate post college with parents like this who would drive 3 hours to show up at our apt at 8am on a Saturday to find out if roommate was home. They felt like they had a right to interrogate me and the other roommate. The second time they did it, I answered the door and told them I was calling the police. I always suspected her father had abused her and was insanely jealous of any guy who got near her. We were all 22-25.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP, why wouldn't you have met him? He is her Father.

(I actually think letting her stay at your house till 9:30pm on school nights is pretty horrible.)

The girl is 17, not 12.

Who pays her expenses? Where does she live?

With her custodial parent, who knew where she was and is not the father.

Next!

How do you know? Dad may pay enough child support to pay all her and moms expenses.

So what? She lives with her mother, WHO HAS CUSTODY. Reading is fundamental.

Dad paying child support does not mean he gets to act like an obsessed lover.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Dad has some control issues. That is not a normal reaction.

It is for a caring parent who has been frozen out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If my child turned off the locator app, I’d be looking for her. And I’d go to the places that I’d tracked her to before. I think you’re off base here.

but why is your initial assumption your child is doing something wrong?
why embarrass the child - that is not how you honor any relationship
fast forward to when your kid goes off to college and you wonder why they rarely are in touch - it all is based on respect established over time and from an early age

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If my child turned off the locator app, I’d be looking for her. And I’d go to the places that I’d tracked her to before. I think you’re off base here.

Yeah me too.

Whoa. This probably ought to be raised in a separate thread, but you track your teen’s’ whereabouts all the time?

Not those posters but yes, I do and they track me as well. If they don't want a tracker, they can pay for their own phone as its for my needs, not theirs.

No one I know does this. Not a single parent.

I know plenty of families who all share their location.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:"overly controlling of a 17 year old" ... sending teens home before 9:30PM on a school night IS NOT overly controlling.

This! I’m in pajamas and in bed by 9:30. No way I’m leaving two teens unsupervised in MY HOUSE while I sleep. Have plans? Great. Go do them. Out of my control. I remember what I did when I was that age, and I’m not allowing it to happen on my watch in my house. Get creative like the rest of us, if you must.

It’s not overly controlling if you choose to send your kids’ friends home at whatever time, but as someone whose isn’t in bed at 9:30, and who doesn’t change into pjs until I am going to bed, 9:30 would be fine in my house, and if the other parent wanted their kid home earlier they could ask for that.

Having a fit about what time other peoples’ kids are doing things is massively over controlling and judgmental.