Middle-aged single men: what are you relationships with 20-something women like?

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I bet you anyting that Nikki Glaser dated a few older men when she was in her 20s.
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Anonymous wrote:I'm late 50s. A year ago I was dating someone a dozen years younger, and I liked that. Since the breakup I've ended up sleeping with several mid- and late-20s women. One of them didn't become a girlfriend, or a FWB, but she had become a really close platonic friend. We have similar interests and challenges in life.


How does a 50-something man meet women in the 20's and get them to be interested in going out with the older, perhaps not fully sexually-functional, kind? This is a serious question.


Most 50-something men are “fully sexually-functional” when they are with a 20-something woman. Men respond to visual stimulation that perhaps most 50-something women can’t provide any longer.



Ok. How misogynistic to say that 50-something men are full sexual beings but 50-something women are has-been.

Your just being mean and angry.


Ummm, ever hear of menopause? Thinning of the v**inal walls? Lack of desire?


Ummm, ever hear of viagra? Low T?


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Two out of the three 40+ guys I dated in the past year had ED severe enough that even Viagra & Cialis couldn’t guarantee an erection. They’d been dealing with wet noodle d!ck for years. The other one was worse in bed than many men half his age.
There’s no way I’d want to deal with that in my 20s.
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Anonymous wrote:I'm late 50s. A year ago I was dating someone a dozen years younger, and I liked that. Since the breakup I've ended up sleeping with several mid- and late-20s women. One of them didn't become a girlfriend, or a FWB, but she had become a really close platonic friend. We have similar interests and challenges in life.


How does a 50-something man meet women in the 20's and get them to be interested in going out with the older, perhaps not fully sexually-functional, kind? This is a serious question.


Most 50-something men are “fully sexually-functional” when they are with a 20-something woman. Men respond to visual stimulation that perhaps most 50-something women can’t provide any longer.



Ok. How misogynistic to say that 50-something men are full sexual beings but 50-something women are has-been.

Your just being mean and angry.


Ummm, ever hear of menopause? Thinning of the v**inal walls? Lack of desire?


Ummm, ever hear of viagra? Low T?


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Two out of the three 40+ guys I dated in the past year had ED severe enough that even Viagra & Cialis couldn’t guarantee an erection. They’d been dealing with wet noodle d!ck for years. The other one was worse in bed than many men half his age.
There’s no way I’d want to deal with that in my 20s.


Porn addicts. Dumping them is the only recourse.
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Anonymous wrote:I'm late 50s. A year ago I was dating someone a dozen years younger, and I liked that. Since the breakup I've ended up sleeping with several mid- and late-20s women. One of them didn't become a girlfriend, or a FWB, but she had become a really close platonic friend. We have similar interests and challenges in life.


How does a 50-something man meet women in the 20's and get them to be interested in going out with the older, perhaps not fully sexually-functional, kind? This is a serious question.


Most 50-something men are “fully sexually-functional” when they are with a 20-something woman. Men respond to visual stimulation that perhaps most 50-something women can’t provide any longer.



Ok. How misogynistic to say that 50-something men are full sexual beings but 50-something women are has-been.

Your just being mean and angry.


You are


Wow! My 50+ wife is fully sexually functional. She may not have 20 something body parts but her experience more than makes up for it.


Whatever you gotta say to feel good about your life, bro.


Who still says Bro?
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I can't speak from real experience, but it's kind of hard to grasp. Our kids' babysitter is a beautiful, sexy 20-something woman. I definitely fantasize about her. And she's a nice person with diverse interests. I'm sure she's mature on a relative scale. But 5 minutes chatting with her is enough to explode my fantasy (for a while ... it comes back, of course, but then gets exploded again).
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Anonymous wrote:I can't speak from real experience, but it's kind of hard to grasp. Our kids' babysitter is a beautiful, sexy 20-something woman. I definitely fantasize about her. And she's a nice person with diverse interests. I'm sure she's mature on a relative scale. But 5 minutes chatting with her is enough to explode my fantasy (for a while ... it comes back, of course, but then gets exploded again).


If she were a 27-year-old physics PhD candidate you might feel different about your conversations with her.
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Anonymous wrote:I can't speak from real experience, but it's kind of hard to grasp. Our kids' babysitter is a beautiful, sexy 20-something woman. I definitely fantasize about her. And she's a nice person with diverse interests. I'm sure she's mature on a relative scale. But 5 minutes chatting with her is enough to explode my fantasy (for a while ... it comes back, of course, but then gets exploded again).


I konw this is about men, but as a woman, what happens when I meet a sexy 20 something man is that I might fantasize about him but in my dreams I'm 20 again as well. Or I'm taller and thinner. Something to make me more sexy. Then I wake up and realize I'm not and I lose the desire. This doesn't seem to happen for men.
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Anonymous wrote:I can't speak from real experience, but it's kind of hard to grasp. Our kids' babysitter is a beautiful, sexy 20-something woman. I definitely fantasize about her. And she's a nice person with diverse interests. I'm sure she's mature on a relative scale. But 5 minutes chatting with her is enough to explode my fantasy (for a while ... it comes back, of course, but then gets exploded again).


I konw this is about men, but as a woman, what happens when I meet a sexy 20 something man is that I might fantasize about him but in my dreams I'm 20 again as well. Or I'm taller and thinner. Something to make me more sexy. Then I wake up and realize I'm not and I lose the desire. This doesn't seem to happen for men.


It’s not a fantasy for me. I regularly date women in that age range.

No one believes me when I say it here, but younger person has the power in these relationships. I’m handsome and in great shape but the “for your age” caveat is always there and I’m aware of every flaw I have when with a younger, gorgeous woman.
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