I had a 5 year affair with a gorgeous woman who’s 17 years younger (and I’m not rich) - AMA

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You said “had” an affair with a gorgeous woman. Sounds like she broke it off with you. Why?

A gorgeous bowling bowl midget .

I'm no fan of this woman but you seem awfully hung up on her height. 5'0'' is a few inches shorter than average. It's really not worthy of mention, let alone vitriol. You know that She can also have curves without being fat, especially if she's young.

I think some women on here are super jealous and bitter.

-a woman

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You said “had” an affair with a gorgeous woman. Sounds like she broke it off with you. Why?

A gorgeous bowling bowl midget .

I'm no fan of this woman but you seem awfully hung up on her height. 5'0'' is a few inches shorter than average. It's really not worthy of mention, let alone vitriol. You know that She can also have curves without being fat, especially if she's young.

A spinner!!

and a winner

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What would you think if you found out she's been cheating on you this whole time?

Does it not bother you that she doesn't want to have sex with you? If she has absolutely no libido, you should care about her well-being. If she's just turned off by you, you should be embarrassed.

I know you feel like you have it all, but this situation is really pathetic. Your wife doesn't want you. This other woman apparently doesn't want you either. You're staying with your wife because you love her. She's staying with you because she's emotionally damaged or because you're convenient.

I don't think you have anything to boast about.

Meh, I’m fine....

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You said “had” an affair with a gorgeous woman. Sounds like she broke it off with you. Why?

A gorgeous bowling bowl midget .

I'm no fan of this woman but you seem awfully hung up on her height. 5'0'' is a few inches shorter than average. It's really not worthy of mention, let alone vitriol. You know that She can also have curves without being fat, especially if she's young.

I think some women on here are super jealous and bitter.

-a woman

What exactly is there to be jealous about? Serious question. OP takes the AP to motels paid with cash and cheap restaurants. And he’s already married. Not a catch!

[Anonymous]

OP, what do you do for a living. And I don’t mean all the lying, cheating stuff. I mean - what is your actual, income-producing job?

[Anonymous]

I don't think anyone is jealous of a woman having an affair with a much older loser like OP, whatever her height. I'm just perplexed that anyone thinks 5'0'' is even noteworthy. It's a few inches shorter than average.

[Anonymous]

Man here but not OP. I'm in my 40s and most of my male friends are in a similar age range, all married with kids. Most are quite successful career-wise. I'd say at least half of them cheat, and that's just the ones who admit it after we've had a few drinks. It's a mix of people who have a steady AP, and those who meet up with more random women like when out on business trips. A few of them have brought up sexless marriages and I suspect all of them are in that situation.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, what do you do for a living. And I don’t mean all the lying, cheating stuff. I mean - what is your actual, income-producing job?

What does that matter ?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You said “had” an affair with a gorgeous woman. Sounds like she broke it off with you. Why?

A gorgeous bowling bowl midget .

I'm no fan of this woman but you seem awfully hung up on her height. 5'0'' is a few inches shorter than average. It's really not worthy of mention, let alone vitriol. You know that She can also have curves without being fat, especially if she's young.

I think some women on here are super jealous and bitter.

-a woman

What exactly is there to be jealous about? Serious question. OP takes the AP to motels paid with cash and cheap restaurants. And he’s already married. Not a catch!

? It's a general jealousy not a jealousy over OP.

Women are the worst judgers of other women's bodies, and height now apparently. It's awful.

Some of these women are super hung up on the woman's height and "curviness". Why? They need to bring down the other women down a peg, it seems, to feel better about the situation.

Given the fact that the majority of women in this country are overweight, I don't think most women on here have any right to throw stones at another woman who may be "curvy".

People who make fun of other people's physical appearances usually have self esteem issues.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't think anyone is jealous of a woman having an affair with a much older loser like OP, whatever her height. I'm just perplexed that anyone thinks 5'0'' is even noteworthy. It's a few inches shorter than average.

They have to find something to put down the other woman or OP about. So, they latched onto this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Man here but not OP. I'm in my 40s and most of my male friends are in a similar age range, all married with kids. Most are quite successful career-wise. I'd say at least half of them cheat, and that's just the ones who admit it after we've had a few drinks. It's a mix of people who have a steady AP, and those who meet up with more random women like when out on business trips. A few of them have brought up sexless marriages and I suspect all of them are in that situation.

I'm in my forties and most of my female friends are in a similar age range, married with kids, successful career-wise and their husband are too. I'd say at least half of them know that their husbands are cheating and are hanging around for the social benefits and more money in the divorce. About half of those are cheating too, usually with randoms as opposed to steady APs.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Op Here: Same old story...love my wife, sexless marriage. She doesn’t know, but I actually don’t think she would care as she has no libido (never really has). I don’t feel guilty or feel like the devil. I don’t need to pop viagra (yet). Stopped seeing her due to Covid and it doesn’t seem like she is interested in continuing (at least that’s what she says now). I do have kids and yes, I started this thread out of boredom but it a true....

This is so f-ing fake. A teenage creative writing project.

Whats fake about it? I’m so tired of people yelling troll. It’s not a far fetched story. People cheat. Lots of people on here, may have spouses that cheat and they are unaware. You don’t think it can happen to you until it does

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You said “had” an affair with a gorgeous woman. Sounds like she broke it off with you. Why?

A gorgeous bowling bowl midget .

I'm no fan of this woman but you seem awfully hung up on her height. 5'0'' is a few inches shorter than average. It's really not worthy of mention, let alone vitriol. You know that She can also have curves without being fat, especially if she's young.

+1. that poster has clearly some issues. people come in all kinds of heights and there is nothing wrong with being 5' (I can tell by experience ) Judy Garland was 4' 11", among actresses who are 5' are Hayden Panettiere, Jada Pinckett Smith. Lady Gaga is only 5'1", as Vanessa Hudgens

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:why do you feel the need to brag about this on DCUM? I mean, I am one of the many who shrug at an affair, whatever, they are common, it's your life. I think your need to broadcast it is almost the bigger issue.

Bragging with no credit? We don’t know who he is, right? People that brag want it to reflect him so people can relate his ‘good fortune’ to him so what’s the point of bragging?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You said “had” an affair with a gorgeous woman. Sounds like she broke it off with you. Why?

A gorgeous bowling bowl midget .

I'm no fan of this woman but you seem awfully hung up on her height. 5'0'' is a few inches shorter than average. It's really not worthy of mention, let alone vitriol. You know that She can also have curves without being fat, especially if she's young.

+1. that poster has clearly some issues. people come in all kinds of heights and there is nothing wrong with being 5' (I can tell by experience ) Judy Garland was 4' 11", among actresses who are 5' are Hayden Panettiere, Jada Pinckett Smith. Lady Gaga is only 5'1", as Vanessa Hudgens

Salma Hayek is barely 5'2 (some say 5'1 and half) and curvy. I'm thinking most men would love to have sex with her.