Does he want his ex back? I’m flying out to spend Valentine’s Day with him tomorrow.

[Anonymous]

OP, if you’re supposed to be spending the weekend with this new guy, and he is supposedly into you, why do you have so much time to post here? He’d be all over you all weekend keeping your hands occupied.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, if you’re supposed to be spending the weekend with this new guy, and he is supposedly into you, why do you have so much time to post here? He’d be all over you all weekend keeping your hands occupied.

Well bc we’ve had a lot of down time. I’ll respond when he walks the dog, playing video games, or when he’s on his own phone too. He posted about his dog so I figured it was a good time to respond. We’ve been mainly in the house.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You don’t have much experience with men do you? Of course he wants the ex back. You’re a bed warmer until then. And there are others. Have a fun weekend but just remember your place.

Why are you saying of course he wants her back?

Read what you wrote. Your friend is right.

Because he was being nice to her mom and showed off a beenie hat? That’s nothing lol.

I don't think OP really wants help here. She's arguing with every single reply.

Most likely another troll since it’s a late night thread.

+1000

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP, if you’re supposed to be spending the weekend with this new guy, and he is supposedly into you, why do you have so much time to post here? He’d be all over you all weekend keeping your hands occupied.

Well bc we’ve had a lot of down time. I’ll respond when he walks the dog, playing video games, or when he’s on his own phone too. He posted about his dog so I figured it was a good time to respond. We’ve been mainly in the house.

Op if you aren’t a troll, among many things if you are visiting a new love interest and they can’t go 24 hours without playing video games and leaving you to fiddle on your phone - he’s not a catch. Seriously. There are so many things about this that indicate this guy is... less than ideal.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, if you’re supposed to be spending the weekend with this new guy, and he is supposedly into you, why do you have so much time to post here? He’d be all over you all weekend keeping your hands occupied.

Well bc we’ve had a lot of down time. I’ll respond when he walks the dog, playing video games, or when he’s on his own phone too. He posted about his dog so I figured it was a good time to respond. We’ve been mainly in the house.

Op if you aren’t a troll, among many things if you are visiting a new love interest and they can’t go 24 hours without playing video games and leaving you to fiddle on your phone - he’s not a catch. Seriously. There are so many things about this that indicate this guy is... less than ideal.

Really op. Video games and playing in his phone? Why aren’t you in bed the whole weekend?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP, if you’re supposed to be spending the weekend with this new guy, and he is supposedly into you, why do you have so much time to post here? He’d be all over you all weekend keeping your hands occupied.

Well bc we’ve had a lot of down time. I’ll respond when he walks the dog, playing video games, or when he’s on his own phone too. He posted about his dog so I figured it was a good time to respond. We’ve been mainly in the house.

OMG. Leave. He is not into you! When I see a man for a weekend, he is 100% with me. He is not on his phone. He is not watching video games. WAKE UP!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP, if you’re supposed to be spending the weekend with this new guy, and he is supposedly into you, why do you have so much time to post here? He’d be all over you all weekend keeping your hands occupied.

Well bc we’ve had a lot of down time. I’ll respond when he walks the dog, playing video games, or when he’s on his own phone too. He posted about his dog so I figured it was a good time to respond. We’ve been mainly in the house.

Op if you aren’t a troll, among many things if you are visiting a new love interest and they can’t go 24 hours without playing video games and leaving you to fiddle on your phone - he’s not a catch. Seriously. There are so many things about this that indicate this guy is... less than ideal.

Really op. Video games and playing in his phone? Why aren’t you in bed the whole weekend?

And he’s 30...He’s not into OP.

[Anonymous]

HE TEXTED HER HAPPY VALENTINES DAY with a heart emoji lmao.

The ex screen shot it and put it the group the group chat with my cousin.
This is hilarious.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:HE TEXTED HER HAPPY VALENTINES DAY with a heart emoji lmao.

The ex screen shot it and put it the group the group chat with my cousin.
This is hilarious.

You've been found out, Op. Time to pack it in. Maybe go play some video games yourself.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:HE TEXTED HER HAPPY VALENTINES DAY with a heart emoji lmao.

The ex screen shot it and put it the group the group chat with my cousin.
This is hilarious.

You've been found out, Op. Time to pack it in. Maybe go play some video games yourself.

What do you mean I’ve been found out?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP, if you’re supposed to be spending the weekend with this new guy, and he is supposedly into you, why do you have so much time to post here? He’d be all over you all weekend keeping your hands occupied.

Well bc we’ve had a lot of down time. I’ll respond when he walks the dog, playing video games, or when he’s on his own phone too. He posted about his dog so I figured it was a good time to respond. We’ve been mainly in the house.

Op if you aren’t a troll, among many things if you are visiting a new love interest and they can’t go 24 hours without playing video games and leaving you to fiddle on your phone - he’s not a catch. Seriously. There are so many things about this that indicate this guy is... less than ideal.

He could be a catch, he just doesn’t want OP. Men are very easy to spot if they’re into you OR if they’re not. Very simple creatures.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:HE TEXTED HER HAPPY VALENTINES DAY with a heart emoji lmao.

The ex screen shot it and put it the group the group chat with my cousin.
This is hilarious.

Why are you laughing? You should be crying. He is not over her. You have your answer (although it was already clear). Leave. He is not the guy. He still wants her. You are being stupid and being used. Find someone who wants you. He does not want you.

[Anonymous]

Now you know, op. Enjoy the weekend, but put it behind you when you leave. I’m sorry it’s turned out this way.

[Anonymous]

WEll now you have your answer.

Also, any guy who was into you would not be playing video games during the weekend you are visiting. When I had a long distance relationship, we did not have any downtime from each other. If we weren't in bed, we were doing stuff together.

I'm glad you now have proof this guy isn't into you. Next time, don't do the long distance thing when you're this young and inexperienced.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:HE TEXTED HER HAPPY VALENTINES DAY with a heart emoji lmao.

The ex screen shot it and put it the group the group chat with my cousin.
This is hilarious.

Why are you laughing? You should be crying. He is not over her. You have your answer (although it was already clear). Leave. He is not the guy. He still wants her. You are being stupid and being used. Find someone who wants you. He does not want you.

Yes, why are you laughing? You spent money and time to fly to him to spend your weekend with him.
Please respect yourself. You are the tail end of your own joke if you are truly laughing.

A healthy emotional response would be a mix of disappointment, frustration, anger and also relief (that you now know and didn’t end up wasting more time figuring this out).