Do any of your boyfriends/ husbands like you a normal weight vs skinny?

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Anonymous wrote:OP, is you bf a black guy?
The brothers seem to like a lot of junk in the trunk.


He's fully white


My dh is fully white and married me because he is not so attracted to skinny women.


Yeah. Im thin too and my white ex bf fooled me into thinking he liked skinny girls. He has dated cankled fatty with chubby fingers after another. The one hes with now has a body of a farmer.


You sound super bitter but this post was hilarious.

Thanks for proving that people who put down larger and fat women are in fact jealous and insecure. Because bad body or not she's got your man while you sound mad as hell about it. LMAO.



Why would I be jealous about a weird fat fetish or women with cankles and fat hands? Its weird he encourages them to gain more weight but with me he was all organic this and smoothie that. I have a more sane man now because beautiful and attractive women can get any type


... Well either you aren't beautiful and attractive or you can't get and keep any type of man because you couldn't keep him. And yes you are still obsessed since you are keeping tabs on all his girlfriends after you. Must hurt to have a farmer pull your man.

I swear this has been the funniest post i've seen on DCUM this month, possible top 3 comment ever on DCUM. Kudos, PP.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP, is you bf a black guy?
The brothers seem to like a lot of junk in the trunk.


He's fully white


My dh is fully white and married me because he is not so attracted to skinny women.


Yeah. Im thin too and my white ex bf fooled me into thinking he liked skinny girls. He has dated cankled fatty with chubby fingers after another. The one hes with now has a body of a farmer.


You sound super bitter but this post was hilarious.

Thanks for proving that people who put down larger and fat women are in fact jealous and insecure. Because bad body or not she's got your man while you sound mad as hell about it. LMAO.



Why would I be jealous about a weird fat fetish or women with cankles and fat hands? Its weird he encourages them to gain more weight but with me he was all organic this and smoothie that. I have a more sane man now because beautiful and attractive women can get any type


... Well either you aren't beautiful and attractive or you can't get and keep any type of man because you couldn't keep him. And yes you are still obsessed since you are keeping tabs on all his girlfriends after you. Must hurt to have a farmer pull your man.

I swear this has been the funniest post i've seen on DCUM this month, possible top 3 comment ever on DCUM. Kudos, PP.


FYI I didn't want him. I broke up with him weirdo.

I said dated. He had 1 girlfriend after me. He kept me on his social media.

You must be a 400lb fatty sitting typing furiously angry that I offended your kind with my cankles and fat hands remark
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP, is you bf a black guy?
The brothers seem to like a lot of junk in the trunk.


He's fully white


My dh is fully white and married me because he is not so attracted to skinny women.


Yeah. Im thin too and my white ex bf fooled me into thinking he liked skinny girls. He has dated cankled fatty with chubby fingers after another. The one hes with now has a body of a farmer.


You sound super bitter but this post was hilarious.

Thanks for proving that people who put down larger and fat women are in fact jealous and insecure. Because bad body or not she's got your man while you sound mad as hell about it. LMAO.



Why would I be jealous about a weird fat fetish or women with cankles and fat hands? Its weird he encourages them to gain more weight but with me he was all organic this and smoothie that. I have a more sane man now because beautiful and attractive women can get any type


... Well either you aren't beautiful and attractive or you can't get and keep any type of man because you couldn't keep him. And yes you are still obsessed since you are keeping tabs on all his girlfriends after you. Must hurt to have a farmer pull your man.

I swear this has been the funniest post i've seen on DCUM this month, possible top 3 comment ever on DCUM. Kudos, PP.


FYI I didn't want him. I broke up with him weirdo.

I said dated. He had 1 girlfriend after me. He kept me on his social media.

You must be a 400lb fatty sitting typing furiously angry that I offended your kind with my cankles and fat hands remark


NP. You really need to seek therapy. You do sound very angry and deranged. And the jealousy JUMPED out
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP, is you bf a black guy?
The brothers seem to like a lot of junk in the trunk.


He's fully white


My dh is fully white and married me because he is not so attracted to skinny women.


Yeah. Im thin too and my white ex bf fooled me into thinking he liked skinny girls. He has dated cankled fatty with chubby fingers after another. The one hes with now has a body of a farmer.


You sound super bitter but this post was hilarious.

Thanks for proving that people who put down larger and fat women are in fact jealous and insecure. Because bad body or not she's got your man while you sound mad as hell about it. LMAO.



Why would I be jealous about a weird fat fetish or women with cankles and fat hands? Its weird he encourages them to gain more weight but with me he was all organic this and smoothie that. I have a more sane man now because beautiful and attractive women can get any type


... Well either you aren't beautiful and attractive or you can't get and keep any type of man because you couldn't keep him. And yes you are still obsessed since you are keeping tabs on all his girlfriends after you. Must hurt to have a farmer pull your man.

I swear this has been the funniest post i've seen on DCUM this month, possible top 3 comment ever on DCUM. Kudos, PP.


FYI I didn't want him. I broke up with him weirdo.

I said dated. He had 1 girlfriend after me. He kept me on his social media.

You must be a 400lb fatty sitting typing furiously angry that I offended your kind with my cankles and fat hands remark


NP. You really need to seek therapy. You do sound very angry and deranged. And the jealousy JUMPED out


Right. Np? You're the same fat poster who was offended at the truthful cankles and fat hands remark.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP, is you bf a black guy?
The brothers seem to like a lot of junk in the trunk.


He's fully white


My dh is fully white and married me because he is not so attracted to skinny women.


Yeah. Im thin too and my white ex bf fooled me into thinking he liked skinny girls. He has dated cankled fatty with chubby fingers after another. The one hes with now has a body of a farmer.


You sound super bitter but this post was hilarious.

Thanks for proving that people who put down larger and fat women are in fact jealous and insecure. Because bad body or not she's got your man while you sound mad as hell about it. LMAO.



Why would I be jealous about a weird fat fetish or women with cankles and fat hands? Its weird he encourages them to gain more weight but with me he was all organic this and smoothie that. I have a more sane man now because beautiful and attractive women can get any type


... Well either you aren't beautiful and attractive or you can't get and keep any type of man because you couldn't keep him. And yes you are still obsessed since you are keeping tabs on all his girlfriends after you. Must hurt to have a farmer pull your man.

I swear this has been the funniest post i've seen on DCUM this month, possible top 3 comment ever on DCUM. Kudos, PP.


FYI I didn't want him. I broke up with him weirdo.

I said dated. He had 1 girlfriend after me. He kept me on his social media.

You must be a 400lb fatty sitting typing furiously angry that I offended your kind with my cankles and fat hands remark


NP. You really need to seek therapy. You do sound very angry and deranged. And the jealousy JUMPED out


Right. Np? You're the same fat poster who was offended at the truthful cankles and fat hands remark.


Nope that was a DP. I'm the OP you were responding to. I guarantee that:
A) am not 400 lbs, no cankles, or fat fingers
B) You clearly kept up with him. Otherwise how would you know how many girlfriends he had or what they looked like? Or care enough to remember.
C) Doubtful that you dumped him since you seem to be obsessed over who he is dating and how you compare to them. Apparently you don't stack up. Shame.

Agree with the other poster, therapy would do you some good. Also a hamburger... maybe you can win him back!


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Anonymous wrote:I like my women soft with a little bit of belly. It's cute as hell to me. Skinny women tend to lose their butt and boobs first and it's not a good look at all.


Flat butts are the WORST


Plenty of fat women have flat butts.
Anonymous
DH is super fit but he definitely likes a few curves on me. I don’t vary my weight much but once lost some weight due to stress and he kept encouraging me to find ways to de-stress and get my appetite back because he was worried. I’m sure many men would have been happy that I lost weight. I’ve got a keeper (I’m 5’9” and about 140# which feels very “normal” to be - but I certainly could be skinnier if I really tried- but I am very happy with my fitness level and my eating habits).
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:DH is super fit but he definitely likes a few curves on me. I don’t vary my weight much but once lost some weight due to stress and he kept encouraging me to find ways to de-stress and get my appetite back because he was worried. I’m sure many men would have been happy that I lost weight. I’ve got a keeper (I’m 5’9” and about 140# which feels very “normal” to be - but I certainly could be skinnier if I really tried- but I am very happy with my fitness level and my eating habits).


What are you talking about? You're skinny

https://height-weight-chart.com/509-140.html
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP, is you bf a black guy?
The brothers seem to like a lot of junk in the trunk.


He's fully white


My dh is fully white and married me because he is not so attracted to skinny women.


Yeah. Im thin too and my white ex bf fooled me into thinking he liked skinny girls. He has dated cankled fatty with chubby fingers after another. The one hes with now has a body of a farmer.


Are the men in question fat themselves?


Every man i've seen into big women has been average build or muscular (6+ pack, adonis belt, etc).


Same. Actually I feel like it's mostly the fat men I see who are into skinny women. Probably because they already have all the curves needed in a relationship!


Idk. Every guy I've dated is a super skinny tall guy (white) and they all wanted a skinny girl. I asked dh once if he was an ass or tits guy and he said he liked shapely legs. Go figure. I'm a D cup and he's never appreciated it.


Maybe he feels insecure about dating women bigger than him. A lot of women dont like skinny guys


Dh is 165 at 6’3. Very few women would weigh more than him! I’m very petite though
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP, is you bf a black guy?
The brothers seem to like a lot of junk in the trunk.


He's fully white


My dh is fully white and married me because he is not so attracted to skinny women.


Yeah. Im thin too and my white ex bf fooled me into thinking he liked skinny girls. He has dated cankled fatty with chubby fingers after another. The one hes with now has a body of a farmer.


You sound super bitter but this post was hilarious.

Thanks for proving that people who put down larger and fat women are in fact jealous and insecure. Because bad body or not she's got your man while you sound mad as hell about it. LMAO.



Why would I be jealous about a weird fat fetish or women with cankles and fat hands? Its weird he encourages them to gain more weight but with me he was all organic this and smoothie that. I have a more sane man now because beautiful and attractive women can get any type


... Well either you aren't beautiful and attractive or you can't get and keep any type of man because you couldn't keep him. And yes you are still obsessed since you are keeping tabs on all his girlfriends after you. Must hurt to have a farmer pull your man.

I swear this has been the funniest post i've seen on DCUM this month, possible top 3 comment ever on DCUM. Kudos, PP.


FYI I didn't want him. I broke up with him weirdo.

I said dated. He had 1 girlfriend after me. He kept me on his social media.

You must be a 400lb fatty sitting typing furiously angry that I offended your kind with my cankles and fat hands remark


NP. You really need to seek therapy. You do sound very angry and deranged. And the jealousy JUMPED out


Right. Np? You're the same fat poster who was offended at the truthful cankles and fat hands remark.


Nope that was a DP. I'm the OP you were responding to. I guarantee that:
A) am not 400 lbs, no cankles, or fat fingers
B) You clearly kept up with him. Otherwise how would you know how many girlfriends he had or what they looked like? Or care enough to remember.
C) Doubtful that you dumped him since you seem to be obsessed over who he is dating and how you compare to them. Apparently you don't stack up. Shame.

Agree with the other poster, therapy would do you some good. Also a hamburger... maybe you can win him back!




Do you know how to read? I said he dated and had one girlfriend after me and only after he tried to reel me back in several times after I broke up with him. He told me everything.

Therapy would benefit you and the so called DP. You both seem oddly insecure about your weight!
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Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP, is you bf a black guy?
The brothers seem to like a lot of junk in the trunk.


He's fully white


My dh is fully white and married me because he is not so attracted to skinny women.


Yeah. Im thin too and my white ex bf fooled me into thinking he liked skinny girls. He has dated cankled fatty with chubby fingers after another. The one hes with now has a body of a farmer.


You sound super bitter but this post was hilarious.

Thanks for proving that people who put down larger and fat women are in fact jealous and insecure. Because bad body or not she's got your man while you sound mad as hell about it. LMAO.



Why would I be jealous about a weird fat fetish or women with cankles and fat hands? Its weird he encourages them to gain more weight but with me he was all organic this and smoothie that. I have a more sane man now because beautiful and attractive women can get any type


... Well either you aren't beautiful and attractive or you can't get and keep any type of man because you couldn't keep him. And yes you are still obsessed since you are keeping tabs on all his girlfriends after you. Must hurt to have a farmer pull your man.

I swear this has been the funniest post i've seen on DCUM this month, possible top 3 comment ever on DCUM. Kudos, PP.


FYI I didn't want him. I broke up with him weirdo.

I said dated. He had 1 girlfriend after me. He kept me on his social media.

You must be a 400lb fatty sitting typing furiously angry that I offended your kind with my cankles and fat hands remark


NP. You really need to seek therapy. You do sound very angry and deranged. And the jealousy JUMPED out


Right. Np? You're the same fat poster who was offended at the truthful cankles and fat hands remark.


Nope that was a DP. I'm the OP you were responding to. I guarantee that:
A) am not 400 lbs, no cankles, or fat fingers
B) You clearly kept up with him. Otherwise how would you know how many girlfriends he had or what they looked like? Or care enough to remember.
C) Doubtful that you dumped him since you seem to be obsessed over who he is dating and how you compare to them. Apparently you don't stack up. Shame.

Agree with the other poster, therapy would do you some good. Also a hamburger... maybe you can win him back!




Do you know how to read? I said he dated and had one girlfriend after me and only after he tried to reel me back in several times after I broke up with him. He told me everything.

Therapy would benefit you and the so called DP. You both seem oddly insecure about your weight!


Oh... adding to the story now? I doubt he tried to reel you back in. You are too obsessed with what he is doing for you to have been the one dumping him.

I'm not insecure in anything. I haven't denigrated anyone's body type. You seem to be the one intent tearing others down - particularly your ex's current girlfriends. It must be tough knowing you weren't pretty enough to keep him and that a 'farmer' looks better than you. Your personality probably sent him running faster than your looks though.
Anonymous
It depends-- and I see it as hardwired desire, not about what is a healthy weight or supporting your wife etc. I know guys (from college) that are attracted to extremely thin women, like model/ballet dancer body types, and DH has a friend who is obsessed with women who are probably technically in the obese category. My DH cares most about my curvy butt and that doesn't go away even when I'm thinner...weight gain doesn't equal the right kind of curves back there, although I hear the butt workouts can help. But that's why I can't go by the scale, I'm 5'4" and even when I am at my thinnest I'm still about 135 because of the booty! I'm easily 15+ over this wright due to stress eating and drinking, so I'm probably at the high end of my comfort zone and what DH prefers. My body so I choose my weight
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:DH is super fit but he definitely likes a few curves on me. I don’t vary my weight much but once lost some weight due to stress and he kept encouraging me to find ways to de-stress and get my appetite back because he was worried. I’m sure many men would have been happy that I lost weight. I’ve got a keeper (I’m 5’9” and about 140# which feels very “normal” to be - but I certainly could be skinnier if I really tried- but I am very happy with my fitness level and my eating habits).


What are you talking about? You're skinny

https://height-weight-chart.com/509-140.html


I wouldn't call that skinny, and you have to understand that weight distributes differently on everyone. It does look like a very healthy weight though, womanly and healthy
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:Yes, a lot of men like chubbier women, but I find it concerning that your man is a health nut so he should no the major health conditions belly fat could mean, and yet he wants that for you, that seems selfish that he can focus on his health, but wants you to disregard your own for his pleasure.


That's not the kind of body fat that those government studies are talking about. For most people, excess stomach fat might be a concern, but for apple body types it's just where it goes. It would be like telling Jennifer Lopez she was concerningly overweight because she has a large behind.


You're wrong. The layer of fat surrounding the organs is different than the fat you have elsewhere so apple shapes are more likely to have health problems
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:I like my women soft with a little bit of belly. It's cute as hell to me. Skinny women tend to lose their butt and boobs first and it's not a good look at all.


Flat butts are the WORST


Plenty of fat women have flat butts.
For sure, butt it's nice when that extra fluff goes to the right places. That said, it's the first place they will lose it too. My W is petite and has decided to lose a few pounds but she's doing butt exercises at the same time and she looks great.
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