... Well either you aren't beautiful and attractive or you can't get and keep any type of man because you couldn't keep him. And yes you are still obsessed since you are keeping tabs on all his girlfriends after you. Must hurt to have a farmer pull your man. I swear this has been the funniest post i've seen on DCUM this month, possible top 3 comment ever on DCUM. Kudos, PP.
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FYI I didn't want him. I broke up with him weirdo. I said dated. He had 1 girlfriend after me. He kept me on his social media. You must be a 400lb fatty sitting typing furiously angry that I offended your kind with my cankles and fat hands remark
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NP. You really need to seek therapy. You do sound very angry and deranged. And the jealousy JUMPED out |
Right. Np? You're the same fat poster who was offended at the truthful cankles and fat hands remark. |
Nope that was a DP. I'm the OP you were responding to. I guarantee that: A) am not 400 lbs, no cankles, or fat fingers B) You clearly kept up with him. Otherwise how would you know how many girlfriends he had or what they looked like? Or care enough to remember. C) Doubtful that you dumped him since you seem to be obsessed over who he is dating and how you compare to them. Apparently you don't stack up. Shame. Agree with the other poster, therapy would do you some good. Also a hamburger... maybe you can win him back! |
Plenty of fat women have flat butts. |
| DH is super fit but he definitely likes a few curves on me. I don’t vary my weight much but once lost some weight due to stress and he kept encouraging me to find ways to de-stress and get my appetite back because he was worried. I’m sure many men would have been happy that I lost weight. I’ve got a keeper (I’m 5’9” and about 140# which feels very “normal” to be - but I certainly could be skinnier if I really tried- but I am very happy with my fitness level and my eating habits). |
What are you talking about? You're skinny https://height-weight-chart.com/509-140.html |
Dh is 165 at 6’3. Very few women would weigh more than him! I’m very petite though |
Do you know how to read? I said he dated and had one girlfriend after me and only after he tried to reel me back in several times after I broke up with him. He told me everything. Therapy would benefit you and the so called DP. You both seem oddly insecure about your weight! |
Oh... adding to the story now? I doubt he tried to reel you back in. You are too obsessed with what he is doing for you to have been the one dumping him. I'm not insecure in anything. I haven't denigrated anyone's body type. You seem to be the one intent tearing others down - particularly your ex's current girlfriends. It must be tough knowing you weren't pretty enough to keep him and that a 'farmer' looks better than you. Your personality probably sent him running faster than your looks though. |
It depends-- and I see it as hardwired desire, not about what is a healthy weight or supporting your wife etc. I know guys (from college) that are attracted to extremely thin women, like model/ballet dancer body types, and DH has a friend who is obsessed with women who are probably technically in the obese category. My DH cares most about my curvy butt and that doesn't go away even when I'm thinner...weight gain doesn't equal the right kind of curves back there, although I hear the butt workouts can help. But that's why I can't go by the scale, I'm 5'4" and even when I am at my thinnest I'm still about 135 because of the booty! I'm easily 15+ over this wright due to stress eating and drinking, so I'm probably at the high end of my comfort zone and what DH prefers. My body so I choose my weight
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I wouldn't call that skinny, and you have to understand that weight distributes differently on everyone. It does look like a very healthy weight though, womanly and healthy |
You're wrong. The layer of fat surrounding the organs is different than the fat you have elsewhere so apple shapes are more likely to have health problems |
For sure, butt it's nice when that extra fluff goes to the right places. That said, it's the first place they will lose it too. My W is petite and has decided to lose a few pounds but she's doing butt exercises at the same time and she looks great. |