Why do demanding women seem to have the most loving, faithful husbands?

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Anonymous wrote:I think some people need to examine why they feel superior for having a husband who has not ( to their knowledge) cheated on them.

You are mixed up. The question was posed and people answered. As to the cheating, women know. No woman who related to the "demanding" label was celebrating not being cheated on. They celebrate the rewards of sticking to their standards and valuing themselves. You should ask for tips.

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Tips on what? I know how to be a kind person who has respect for herself and requires others to be respectful of her. I date men who are the same. However I don't think this makes me better than other women,nor do I think it makes me invincible to having my partner cheating on me.


OP's post, and subsequent posts were about mocking women who have terrible relationships and blaming them for being "easy going.".

You are determined to see yourself as a victim. Sorry, no one can help you here. We have already tried but you dont want to listen. Too bad.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Wow, some posters are getting really triggered over the thought of a demanding or confident woman. I wonder why that is.

It's interesting you use the word triggered. I find this post repugnant because it's yet another version of blame the woman for everything.

It's not "blame the woman for everything". It's "give credit to women". But I guess if you are in the doormat group you may take it as an attack since you are not in the group getting credit.

Except it's not giving credit for something. It's saying if a woman wasn't XYX she wouldn't get cheated on. I am far from a doormat which is how I can see OP's BS and call at your BS.

It is giving credit. The title is "why do demanding women get such great guys". That's giving credit.

You've chosen to interpret that as "why do undemanding women not get great guys" which is your projection based on your own life experience and probable rejection. Get some therapy.

But you and every other woman here who perceives herself as demanding has said very nasty and condescending things about women whose husband's cheat. That's not credit. That's making women responsible for men's actions.

No, that's making women responsible for the choices they make and benefits, good and bad. When someone shows you who they are, believe them. If you cant count on a man in some ways, why would you be able to count on him in other ways? Dont blame me for your bad choices. The truth hurts, I guess

NO. You and others have flat out said husbands cheat because the women are easy going. That is blaming the women. As another poster said. I hope you don't have to learn the hard way.

NO THEY HAVE NOT. They have said women that are doormats in one area will be doormats in another. Get over it and stop projecting. I get it's probably a hard truth to hear. But oh well.

It's not the truth. It's a lie you are telling you willingly accept because it feeds your ego. You don't realize in doing this you are causing harm to yourself and all women.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think some people need to examine why they feel superior for having a husband who has not ( to their knowledge) cheated on them.

You are mixed up. The question was posed and people answered. As to the cheating, women know. No woman who related to the "demanding" label was celebrating not being cheated on. They celebrate the rewards of sticking to their standards and valuing themselves. You should ask for tips.

+1000

Tips on what? I know how to be a kind person who has respect for herself and requires others to be respectful of her. I date men who are the same. However I don't think this makes me better than other women,nor do I think it makes me invincible to having my partner cheating on me.


OP's post, and subsequent posts were about mocking women who have terrible relationships and blaming them for being "easy going.".

You are determined to see yourself as a victim. Sorry, no one can help you here. We have already tried but you dont want to listen. Too bad.

You lack reading comprehension. I am not a victim of anything. I am an actual confident woman. I don't need to put other women down or mock them in their pain to make myself feel special. You on the other hand are very insecure.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think some people need to examine why they feel superior for having a husband who has not ( to their knowledge) cheated on them.

You are mixed up. The question was posed and people answered. As to the cheating, women know. No woman who related to the "demanding" label was celebrating not being cheated on. They celebrate the rewards of sticking to their standards and valuing themselves. You should ask for tips.

+1000

Tips on what? I know how to be a kind person who has respect for herself and requires others to be respectful of her. I date men who are the same. However I don't think this makes me better than other women,nor do I think it makes me invincible to having my partner cheating on me.


OP's post, and subsequent posts were about mocking women who have terrible relationships and blaming them for being "easy going.".

You are determined to see yourself as a victim. Sorry, no one can help you here. We have already tried but you dont want to listen. Too bad.

You lack reading comprehension. I am not a victim of anything. I am an actual confident woman. I don't need to put other women down or mock them in their pain to make myself feel special. You on the other hand are very insecure.

You need to take your own advice, and stop seeing victimhood where none exists. People make life choices and there are consequences for it. If you made bad ones, too bad. That's how the cookie crumbles.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think some people need to examine why they feel superior for having a husband who has not ( to their knowledge) cheated on them.

You are mixed up. The question was posed and people answered. As to the cheating, women know. No woman who related to the "demanding" label was celebrating not being cheated on. They celebrate the rewards of sticking to their standards and valuing themselves. You should ask for tips.

+1000

Tips on what? I know how to be a kind person who has respect for herself and requires others to be respectful of her. I date men who are the same. However I don't think this makes me better than other women,nor do I think it makes me invincible to having my partner cheating on me.


OP's post, and subsequent posts were about mocking women who have terrible relationships and blaming them for being "easy going.".

You are determined to see yourself as a victim. Sorry, no one can help you here. We have already tried but you dont want to listen. Too bad.

You lack reading comprehension. I am not a victim of anything. I am an actual confident woman. I don't need to put other women down or mock them in their pain to make myself feel special. You on the other hand are very insecure.

You need to take your own advice, and stop seeing victimhood where none exists. People make life choices and there are consequences for it. If you made bad ones, too bad. That's how the cookie crumbles.

So it's a woman's fault if her husband cheats on her?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Meanwhile, several mellow, fun, and easygoing women I know have been divorced, cheated on, and treated like crap.
Is this a Thing?
By demanding I don't mean bitchy so much as they rule the roost.

This is the original post. OP is blaming women for how men treat them. No better than they she was wearing a revealing outfit so she deserved to get raped crap.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Meanwhile, several mellow, fun, and easygoing women I know have been divorced, cheated on, and treated like crap.
Is this a Thing?
By demanding I don't mean bitchy so much as they rule the roost.

This is the original post. OP is blaming women for how men treat them. No better than they she was wearing a revealing outfit so she deserved to get raped crap.

She is not "blaming" anyone, she's asking about something she's seen and observed. Just cause it makes you feel bad doesnt mean anyone did anything wrong. You need therapy!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Meanwhile, several mellow, fun, and easygoing women I know have been divorced, cheated on, and treated like crap.
Is this a Thing?
By demanding I don't mean bitchy so much as they rule the roost.

This is the original post. OP is blaming women for how men treat them. No better than they she was wearing a revealing outfit so she deserved to get raped crap.

She is not "blaming" anyone, she's asking about something she's seen and observed. Just cause it makes you feel bad doesnt mean anyone did anything wrong. You need therapy!

She's not asking she is making a harmful correlation, that you and several others have cosigned because you failed to think.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Meanwhile, several mellow, fun, and easygoing women I know have been divorced, cheated on, and treated like crap.
Is this a Thing?
By demanding I don't mean bitchy so much as they rule the roost.

This is the original post. OP is blaming women for how men treat them. No better than they she was wearing a revealing outfit so she deserved to get raped crap.

She is not "blaming" anyone, she's asking about something she's seen and observed. Just cause it makes you feel bad doesnt mean anyone did anything wrong. You need therapy!

She's not asking she is making a harmful correlation, that you and several others have cosigned because you failed to think.

She is asking, you clown. Stop expecting everyone else to coddle you and tiptoe around your neuroses

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Meanwhile, several mellow, fun, and easygoing women I know have been divorced, cheated on, and treated like crap.
Is this a Thing?
By demanding I don't mean bitchy so much as they rule the roost.

This is the original post. OP is blaming women for how men treat them. No better than they she was wearing a revealing outfit so she deserved to get raped crap.

She is not "blaming" anyone, she's asking about something she's seen and observed. Just cause it makes you feel bad doesnt mean anyone did anything wrong. You need therapy!

She's not asking she is making a harmful correlation, that you and several others have cosigned because you failed to think.

She is asking, you clown. Stop expecting everyone else to coddle you and tiptoe around your neuroses

I'm not asking anything. I'm stating my opinion. But it's intersting how you have become increasingly aggresive simply because I do not agree with you. You reult to insults and namecalling....

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Meanwhile, several mellow, fun, and easygoing women I know have been divorced, cheated on, and treated like crap.
Is this a Thing?
By demanding I don't mean bitchy so much as they rule the roost.

This is the original post. OP is blaming women for how men treat them. No better than they she was wearing a revealing outfit so she deserved to get raped crap.

She is not "blaming" anyone, she's asking about something she's seen and observed. Just cause it makes you feel bad doesnt mean anyone did anything wrong. You need therapy!

She's not asking she is making a harmful correlation, that you and several others have cosigned because you failed to think.

She is asking, you clown. Stop expecting everyone else to coddle you and tiptoe around your neuroses

I'm not asking anything. I'm stating my opinion. But it's intersting how you have become increasingly aggresive simply because I do not agree with you. You reult to insults and namecalling....

You said OP was the same as people who blame women for rape. You dont think that's a pretty horrible thing to say? Once again, zero accountability.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Meanwhile, several mellow, fun, and easygoing women I know have been divorced, cheated on, and treated like crap.
Is this a Thing?
By demanding I don't mean bitchy so much as they rule the roost.

This is the original post. OP is blaming women for how men treat them. No better than they she was wearing a revealing outfit so she deserved to get raped crap.

She is not "blaming" anyone, she's asking about something she's seen and observed. Just cause it makes you feel bad doesnt mean anyone did anything wrong. You need therapy!

She's not asking she is making a harmful correlation, that you and several others have cosigned because you failed to think.

She is asking, you clown. Stop expecting everyone else to coddle you and tiptoe around your neuroses

I'm not asking anything. I'm stating my opinion. But it's intersting how you have become increasingly aggresive simply because I do not agree with you. You reult to insults and namecalling....

You said OP was the same as people who blame women for rape. You dont think that's a pretty horrible thing to say? Once again, zero accountability.

I agree it's horrible to blame women for their own rape. OP and others are using the same logic as people who blame women for rape do if she had dressed this way or acted this way he wouldn't have done this. If she had acted this way or done this he wouldn't have cheated on her. Wouldn't have abused her. Zero accountability for the men, but plenty of blame for the women.
These posts are not uplifting as some want to claim. They are harmful.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Meanwhile, several mellow, fun, and easygoing women I know have been divorced, cheated on, and treated like crap.
Is this a Thing?
By demanding I don't mean bitchy so much as they rule the roost.

This is the original post. OP is blaming women for how men treat them. No better than they she was wearing a revealing outfit so she deserved to get raped crap.

She is not "blaming" anyone, she's asking about something she's seen and observed. Just cause it makes you feel bad doesnt mean anyone did anything wrong. You need therapy!

She's not asking she is making a harmful correlation, that you and several others have cosigned because you failed to think.

She is asking, you clown. Stop expecting everyone else to coddle you and tiptoe around your neuroses

I'm not asking anything. I'm stating my opinion. But it's intersting how you have become increasingly aggresive simply because I do not agree with you. You reult to insults and namecalling....

You said OP was the same as people who blame women for rape. You dont think that's a pretty horrible thing to say? Once again, zero accountability.

I agree it's horrible to blame women for their own rape. OP and others are using the same logic as people who blame women for rape do if she had dressed this way or acted this way he wouldn't have done this. If she had acted this way or done this he wouldn't have cheated on her. Wouldn't have abused her. Zero accountability for the men, but plenty of blame for the women.
These posts are not uplifting as some want to claim. They are harmful.

Your attempts at gaslighting are not cute, in fact they are seriously deranged and harmful. OP said nothing of the sort. She did point out what she's seen and she has every right to. Sorry you're obviously not valued by anyone in your life and you want to blame others for it but it's very obvious why

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Meanwhile, several mellow, fun, and easygoing women I know have been divorced, cheated on, and treated like crap.
Is this a Thing?
By demanding I don't mean bitchy so much as they rule the roost.

This is the original post. OP is blaming women for how men treat them. No better than they she was wearing a revealing outfit so she deserved to get raped crap.

She is not "blaming" anyone, she's asking about something she's seen and observed. Just cause it makes you feel bad doesnt mean anyone did anything wrong. You need therapy!

She's not asking she is making a harmful correlation, that you and several others have cosigned because you failed to think.

She is asking, you clown. Stop expecting everyone else to coddle you and tiptoe around your neuroses

I'm not asking anything. I'm stating my opinion. But it's intersting how you have become increasingly aggresive simply because I do not agree with you. You reult to insults and namecalling....

You said OP was the same as people who blame women for rape. You dont think that's a pretty horrible thing to say? Once again, zero accountability.

I agree it's horrible to blame women for their own rape. OP and others are using the same logic as people who blame women for rape do if she had dressed this way or acted this way he wouldn't have done this. If she had acted this way or done this he wouldn't have cheated on her. Wouldn't have abused her. Zero accountability for the men, but plenty of blame for the women.
These posts are not uplifting as some want to claim. They are harmful.

Your attempts at gaslighting are not cute, in fact they are seriously deranged and harmful. OP said nothing of the sort. She did point out what she's seen and she has every right to. Sorry you're obviously not valued by anyone in your life and you want to blame others for it but it's very obvious why

Gaslighting is what you are attempting to do to me. If you want to talk about helping women avoiding abusive men sure. I'm all for it lets talk about those red flags. That's not what is happening in this thread. I draw the line at implying or in the case of some in this thread saying women are responsible for being mistreated by the men in their lives because of their personality or what they did/did not do.

You probably don't realize it pp, but your responses to me , the language you have used has been abusive, simply because I don't agree with you and find fault with OP's reasoning, find it harmful.

This is not strong or confident.

[Anonymous]

Something to note, OP has not returned since making this post. Not typically the sign of someone who wants to have a thoughtfult discussion.