Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My DS's school included everyone last year, and it was a great experience for the whole team. This year, they decided ahead of time to take only juniors and seniors and a few select sophomores who they assume will move up. It's my kid's issue to deal with, but I could not feel worse about the coach and team now. Coach has separated players into JV and Varsity long before tryouts. Even if his instincts are correct, how can he possibly think those sophomores who don't make varsity are going to believe for one second that they were given a real shot? This school is constantly making moves like this regarding sports and they are not even strong.
That is why you are a parent and not a coach. Stay out of things you have no clue about. Dealing with insane parents is one of the worst parts of coaching. If your son is not deemed to be part of this team, stop blaming others.
NP here. While some parents are quite annoying, in most cases, around here especially, they are highly educated, successful people who just can't understand the bone-headed decisions that these lax bro coaches make. Being a lacrosse coach is not brain surgery. It's just not that hard to make good decisions, but so many coaches couldn't be successful at much else and get on bizarre highs because they have control over teenagers and axes to grind with their parents. Are you a coach? You should have at least a basic understanding that parents are paying a lot of money for their kids to be at these schools. They have a right to understand why coaches would lack such common sense.