What's the biggest secret you're keeping from your SO?

[Anonymous]

That he's a way bigger catch than he realizes.

[Anonymous]

When we were dating I had sex with a woman I knew for a long time. It was unprotected and dirty. Later on met up with wife - then girlfriend - and she was "interested". So without a shower in between she gave me oral and Injad sex with her. Best day ever.

[Anonymous]

My actual weight? I can't think of any other secrets.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I hate his guts and fantasize about his funeral. What I'll wear. How I'll act. What I'll do immediately after. How well I will sleep that first night alone .....

I fantasize when I can't get in touch with my husband for a few hours that he's had a heart attack and I'll find him dead on the floor when I get home. (He had a heart attack a couple years ago.). Literally my only reaction to that fantasy is to think, "My mornings would be more hectic because I'd have to get the kids out of the house by myself, and I would probably have to sign up for a few extra hours per week of after-school care for the kids." My life would be so much better (no one yelling at me...) if he weren't here.

Imagine being with someone for 10 years and having kids with them and her not being sorry if you died.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't like kissing him. I love him as a friend and partner, but would be happy never having sex with him again. I am madly in love with another man but won't leave because I want to raise our kids with him.

I'm guessing he doesn't know this. Probably he's noticed the kissing and the sex are no good, if those are even happening. If you don't fix your marriage, and disengage from this other man, you are going to wind up divorced and you won't be raising kids with your current DH. You know that, right?

I have disengaged from the other man. He recently left his wife and asked me to do leave my spouse. I couldn't do it, so I had to let him go to find a legitimate partner who can love him out in the open.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I hate his guts and fantasize about his funeral. What I'll wear. How I'll act. What I'll do immediately after. How well I will sleep that first night alone .....

I fantasize when I can't get in touch with my husband for a few hours that he's had a heart attack and I'll find him dead on the floor when I get home. (He had a heart attack a couple years ago.). Literally my only reaction to that fantasy is to think, "My mornings would be more hectic because I'd have to get the kids out of the house by myself, and I would probably have to sign up for a few extra hours per week of after-school care for the kids." My life would be so much better (no one yelling at me...) if he weren't here.

Imagine being with someone for 10 years and having kids with them and her not being sorry if you died.

My life, but I'm 20+ years into it

[Anonymous]

I have sold myself multiple times on Backpage before to pay bills.

[Anonymous]

That I think our lives are better now that his dad is gone.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My DH can't provide me with enough spending money (he's an engineer who makes $90 an hour) so I sell myself to rich businessmen for $300 an hour to make a little spare cash.

How the hell do you manage this while not drawing your DH's attention? How do you make time for this?

Eh, I don't believe that for a minute. Someone's messing with you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I hate his guts and fantasize about his funeral. What I'll wear. How I'll act. What I'll do immediately after. How well I will sleep that first night alone .....

I fantasize when I can't get in touch with my husband for a few hours that he's had a heart attack and I'll find him dead on the floor when I get home. (He had a heart attack a couple years ago.). Literally my only reaction to that fantasy is to think, "My mornings would be more hectic because I'd have to get the kids out of the house by myself, and I would probably have to sign up for a few extra hours per week of after-school care for the kids." My life would be so much better (no one yelling at me...) if he weren't here.

Imagine being with someone for 10 years and having kids with them and her not being sorry if you died.

I simply cannot believe another human being thinks like this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have sold myself multiple times on Backpage before to pay bills.

Oh please. Doing that is so dangerous.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have sold myself multiple times on Backpage before to pay bills.

Was the sex any good?

[Anonymous]

My real name and identity.

[Anonymous]

That even though I consider myself a good husband and father, I am a terrible fit for her. She should have married someone like the men in her family. I think we both got caught up with the sex early in the relationship, which was daily and wild. I feel guilty for thinking this way.

[Anonymous]

That before I met him, I used to have sex with his best friend.