What's the biggest secret you're keeping from your SO?

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Anonymous wrote:My law school roommate was a cam girl. They aren't into it, it's all fake and they are ruthlessly mocking you afterwards.

The 2nd part of that isn't a secret.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm pregnant! I'm thrilled, but for some reason I just haven't come out with it. 9 weeks...

What! Why aren't you telling him? Will he be happy? Is it your first?

Is it not his?

It's his and it's our second baby. It just doesn't feel real to me. There just hasn't been a good time to spill the beans. We struggled for years to have our first.

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I'm surprised that people are surprised by these comments/posts. Having sex is human nature. It is only because of our own social/economical values as society that drive us further away from our primitive nature. The need to settle down, purchase large homes, consumerism, go into debt. etc. this is why I believe that getting married is a waste of time and completely unnatural. Having affairs, getting blowjobs.. general dissatisfaction.. not uncommon. Do I think that being dishonest is ok..no I do not. Am I surprised? Not at all.

I've only cheated once in a relationship about 10 years ago. I was more satisfied with the person that I left, than the current person I was involved with in bed. Neither of them ever found out. I used protection.

As I age I think I'd prefer to just be single. I think people complicate life IMO

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Anonymous wrote:I pray every day that our baby looks like me and my family and not him and his

Pray hard like I did, it should work. But then again there's Christina Onassis.

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I used The Rules to get my now DH to marry me. It worked so well I almost thought this is too easy when he got down on one knee. It's in the back of my closet underlined and highlighted. Don't know how I'd/he'd respond if he found it.

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Anonymous wrote:Wife never sleeps with me and I don't want to cheat. I go to cam websites where I pay women to play with themselves while they watch me masterbate.

What on earth is the attraction in having someone else watch you maturbate? You know they are thinking you are a desperate fool, right?

Really? You don't get that some people like being exhibitionists (I include myself in this category)?

I get that but I don't get wanting someone to think you are a fool.

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Anonymous wrote:I used The Rules to get my now DH to marry me. It worked so well I almost thought this is too easy when he got down on one knee. It's in the back of my closet underlined and highlighted. Don't know how I'd/he'd respond if he found it.

My college roommate was really into The Rules. She did get married two weeks after graduation so it apparently worked on her college BF.

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Anonymous wrote:Wife never sleeps with me and I don't want to cheat. I go to cam websites where I pay women to play with themselves while they watch me masterbate.

What on earth is the attraction in having someone else watch you maturbate? You know they are thinking you are a desperate fool, right?

Really? You don't get that some people like being exhibitionists (I include myself in this category)?

I get that but I don't get wanting someone to think you are a fool.

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[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I used The Rules to get my now DH to marry me. It worked so well I almost thought this is too easy when he got down on one knee. It's in the back of my closet underlined and highlighted. Don't know how I'd/he'd respond if he found it.

Why would you keep this??? Throw it out!

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Anonymous wrote:I used The Rules to get my now DH to marry me. It worked so well I almost thought this is too easy when he got down on one knee. It's in the back of my closet underlined and highlighted. Don't know how I'd/he'd respond if he found it.

Why would you keep this??? Throw it out!

Sometimes I need a refresher!! Even married I can fall into bad habits, especially reading here. Makes me paranoid.

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Anonymous wrote:I used The Rules to get my now DH to marry me. It worked so well I almost thought this is too easy when he got down on one knee. It's in the back of my closet underlined and highlighted. Don't know how I'd/he'd respond if he found it.

And of course, you no longer sleep with him.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm not a huge fan of his ethnicity's food. I think it's just okay, but except for maybe one dish, I'd never eat it by choice.

Why in the world would you need to keep this a secret? This is not a big deal at all.

He's very proud of it and I really think it would hurt his feelings. For example, I once mentioned preferring a dish from a similar but different culture, and he acted kind of offended!

LOL which cuisine is it?

Dominican Republic. Love Latino food in general but think DR food is kind of....blah.

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Anonymous wrote:I used The Rules to get my now DH to marry me. It worked so well I almost thought this is too easy when he got down on one knee. It's in the back of my closet underlined and highlighted. Don't know how I'd/he'd respond if he found it.

Please excuse my ignorance but "The Rules"?

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Anonymous wrote:I used The Rules to get my now DH to marry me. It worked so well I almost thought this is too easy when he got down on one knee. It's in the back of my closet underlined and highlighted. Don't know how I'd/he'd respond if he found it.

Please excuse my ignorance but "The Rules"?

Book that tells women to play games to get what they want out of men.

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Anonymous wrote:I used The Rules to get my now DH to marry me. It worked so well I almost thought this is too easy when he got down on one knee. It's in the back of my closet underlined and highlighted. Don't know how I'd/he'd respond if he found it.

Please excuse my ignorance but "The Rules"?

Book that tells women to play games to get what they want out of men.

ANd then complain when they don’t get it. Or when they do.