Girlfriend is demanding that we get married and have a baby ASAP

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Anonymous wrote:I agree with those that are saying that your daughter needs to be your first priority.

I think you need to end the relationship. This woman is not considering your child with her rush to the alter and new baby. To lose a mother as a I child is an unimaginably horrific experience. To move toward marriage and a baby after a year of casually dating is not putting your daughter's wellbeing first. That's not a good trait for a future stepmother.

Please tell this woman to move on.

"A year" is not "casually dating".

He's repeatedly said that they were dating and not looking for something serious, that they are both mourning their spouses, and that in her most recent conversation she stated she wasn't dating anyone else. That's a casual relationship. If it was serious why would she need to tell him she was only seeing him? That wouldn't even be a question in a serious relationship.

Nope. He said when they started dating they weren't looking for anything serious. They've been dating for a year. By now it is a serious relationship. Which doesn't mean he should let himself be pressured into doing something he doesn't want to do -- but it does mean that she isn't "rushing things".

Try reading the thread...The guy isn't looking for a serious relationship with this woman. Again in a serious relationship you don't announce you aren't dating anyone else...

Try reading the thread. OP did not say that. He said when they started dating they weren't looking for anything serious. But then they dated for a year. That is not a casual relationship.

We found the pyscho girlfriend! Do you want to share your POV? Other than pretending that you are in a serious relationship of course.