S/O The thread on the missing boyfriend is waaay too long. Can someone sum it up?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Will someone please explain why she decided to post here in the first place?

If you had a missing person in your life would posting on an anonymous message board for parents/nannys even be on your radar?

I missed that part of the puzzle.

I don't know, sometimes I post on DCUM when I feel totally at a loss about a situation.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Will someone please explain why she decided to post here in the first place?

If you had a missing person in your life would posting on an anonymous message board for parents/nannys even be on your radar?

I missed that part of the puzzle.

She had started other threads here before (in February and March) about the same relationship. She knew about DCUM from three years ago when she lived in the DC area as a nanny for a year. She seems to be the kind of person who gets gratification out of soliciting advice/reactions from strangers. We have noted her behavior of doling out the relevant info in very tiny morsels over a number of pages so some people think she does that on purpose to stir up more thread activity. I don't know if it is intentional or if she is just inept at describing the pertinent facts.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Will someone please explain why she decided to post here in the first place?

If you had a missing person in your life would posting on an anonymous message board for parents/nannys even be on your radar?

I missed that part of the puzzle.

Because she was a DC nanny for 3 years.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Because she was a DC nanny for 3 years.

Nooooo!!! Don't get her started on debunking that little piece of misinformation again!
(She was a DC nanny for ONE year, three years ago.
Apparently this matters.)

[Anonymous]

I'm going to speculate that he really did go to PA. To visit some other online girl. Took his dog sonce he was going for a long weekend. He had his fun in PA. Gets home and had no idea the sh$t storm this online nookie has started and send a simple hi text thinking he can line up some adventure for Friday.

Or this is an amazing made up tail that has sucked us all in for days and we should all go to DCUM anon for having no life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Will someone please explain why she decided to post here in the first place?

If you had a missing person in your life would posting on an anonymous message board for parents/nannys even be on your radar?

I missed that part of the puzzle.

She had started other threads here before (in February and March) about the same relationship. She knew about DCUM from three years ago when she lived in the DC area as a nanny for a year. She seems to be the kind of person who gets gratification out of soliciting advice/reactions from strangers. We have noted her behavior of doling out the relevant info in very tiny morsels over a number of pages so some people think she does that on purpose to stir up more thread activity. I don't know if it is intentional or if she is just inept at descdisribing the pertinent facts.

Thank you for the explanation.

I mean, if someone is missing, especially someone you love and are in a relationship with, you check with the people they were last with, then you call the police. Especially because this guy was going hunting. So many things could have happened to him and instead she spends 3 days dribbling information to strangers and shuffling her feet about finding/helping her boyfriend?

We are a bunch of smart cookies on this website, does any of this make any sense?

I was swept up in it too, but at this point we are feeding some sort of disorder or delusion in the OP.

[Anonymous]

OP here: I'm not responding to any more negative points. Instead, I'm watching him continually call my phone again and again and trying to decide if I should answer and flip the fu** out that way.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here: I'm not responding to any more negative points. Instead, I'm watching him continually call my phone again and again and trying to decide if I should answer and flip the fu** out that way.

posts** not points

[Anonymous]

Answer!! I want to hear his explanation! And you deserve the chance to yell at him.

[Anonymous]

Answer! You have every right to be mad. And not accept excuses. But let him explain and say he was inconsiderate and you absolutely can I have someone in your life like that

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here: I'm not responding to any more negative points. Instead, I'm watching him continually call my phone again and again and trying to decide if I should answer and flip the fu** out that way.

Nah, just block him for a while. It will have more impact.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here: I'm not responding to any more negative points. Instead, I'm watching him continually call my phone again and again and trying to decide if I should answer and flip the fu** out that way.

OP, it is fine for you not to respond to any more negative points.

Good for you for not answering your phone. Keep on not answering it. You know all you need to know. He knows all he needs to know.

Maybe you should just turn your phone off for the night. Or block his number, as you've been advised by many.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Answer!! I want to hear his explanation! And you deserve the chance to yell at him.

+100

[Anonymous]

OP here: we are on the phone, trying to get the truth out of him. He did admit he was in PA so that's a start

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Answer!! I want to hear his explanation! And you deserve the chance to yell at him.

+100

Oh come on. Yes we've been voyeurs in this saga, but supposedly we are giving her helpful advice, and this is not helpful.

He can email her or wait - FB message her the explanation when he can't get through.