How much do you make and whats your job title and age?

[Anonymous]

57 - career change 10 years ago to senior researcher - 98k

[Anonymous]

age 39, govt. paralegal, $85k. I have a BA.

[Anonymous]

50, energy engineer, $80k at a federal contractor

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Lol. Get your panties out of a bunch. Just because someone insults you, it doesn't mean they are hateful. There is no need to call Jesse Jackson or Anderson Cooper.

SAHDs are not cute. It is disgraceful unless the man is disabled or retired after having a career. Otherwise, a man needs a job or he needs to be looking for one.

I will say it online and I will say it to your face - deal with it. Get a job, write a book, start a business or do something so that you are not completely effeminate. Passing undesireable traits onto your kids is not cute.

You're a bitch and I'd say that to your face too. My husband works (as I said) and also takes care of the kids full time. If you were to meet him effeminate is the last word you'd use to describe him. I guess he doesn't need to prove himself.

Yes, you are hateful. Do you also think that all women need to have a job? For us it was more important to have one of us spend time with our children rather than pay a stranger to take care of them. In our family it made much more sense (sadly, because I'd love to do it) for it to be my husband and he's worked his schedule around that. This isn't unusual in this city.

My guess is the SAHD- hater is a man who doesn't want to lift a finger taking care of his kids.

[Anonymous]

$100k base, between 120-180k commissions, Senior Director- Key Accounts, 32 yrs old.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:wow I didn't realize how poor I am!

No shit! I worked FT until I was 31 and never broke $50K. Now I work PT during my daughter's school hours and am paid hourly and make about the same. I have an undergrad degree from a well respected national university and a Master's degree in my field. What an effing waste of time and money. I never seemed to be at the right place at the right time career-wise.

My husband just broke 6 figures at 34 with a degree in engineering and a security clearance. To be fair, he only finished his degree a couple years ago because he joined the military right out of high school and got his degree part time while working.

Money isn't everything, but HOLY GEEZ!

[Anonymous]

The best partners at some of law firm partners earn $1.25M and up ++ /a year. This almost certainly requires doing very well in three years of law school, perhaps a judicial clerkship or some time as a government appointee, and from 7-10 years of serious time, hard work, hustle, and discipline as an associate/of counsel before you make partner. In other words, you will be in your late 30s or early 40s before you make that much money -- assuming everything falls into place just so.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Lol. Get your panties out of a bunch. Just because someone insults you, it doesn't mean they are hateful. There is no need to call Jesse Jackson or Anderson Cooper.

SAHDs are not cute. It is disgraceful unless the man is disabled or retired after having a career. Otherwise, a man needs a job or he needs to be looking for one.

I will say it online and I will say it to your face - deal with it. Get a job, write a book, start a business or do something so that you are not completely effeminate. Passing undesireable traits onto your kids is not cute.

You're a bitch and I'd say that to your face too. My husband works (as I said) and also takes care of the kids full time. If you were to meet him effeminate is the last word you'd use to describe him. I guess he doesn't need to prove himself.

Yes, you are hateful. Do you also think that all women need to have a job? For us it was more important to have one of us spend time with our children rather than pay a stranger to take care of them. In our family it made much more sense (sadly, because I'd love to do it) for it to be my husband and he's worked his schedule around that. This isn't unusual in this city.

If your husband has business obligations then he is not a stay at home dad. He is either a work at home dad, or a dad with business obligations and a flexible schedule. I can't fault a man for being placed in a situation where he has to work and then be a fulltime care provider. Women have made it so hard for men. However, if a man identifies as a stay at home dad, then he should grow a pair. It is reprehensible.

Fulltime parenting is an acceptable job for a woman and it is respectable because daycares should only be used by single parents and orphaned children. However, I will never respect a man without business obligations unless he is disabled, looking for employment, or retired.

[Anonymous]

You clearly dont respect women either. Housework/parenting is beneath men, based on your answer. How sad for you.

[Anonymous]

32- $200k+. Sales

[Anonymous]

34 assistant professor in the sciences, $120K. I have a Ph.D.
I really should have stuck with industry from the looks of this thread!

[Anonymous]

$110k residential real estate -26 (but I work 80-100 hrs/week...)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You clearly dont respect women either. Housework/parenting is beneath men, based on your answer. How sad for you.

Deal with your issues and then come back to play. The first is the large chip on your shoulder, the second is your poor reading skills, and the third issue is called a logical fallacy. You probably commit too many to be taken seriously.

[Anonymous]

- Age 32
- $124K a year
- Program Manager
- 2 bachelors and an MBA
- made career change to program management after 6 years in federal contract management
- Combination of working really hard, long hours when those my age weren't (think early 20s), impressing the right people, and luck

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Lol. Get your panties out of a bunch. Just because someone insults you, it doesn't mean they are hateful. There is no need to call Jesse Jackson or Anderson Cooper.

SAHDs are not cute. It is disgraceful unless the man is disabled or retired after having a career. Otherwise, a man needs a job or he needs to be looking for one.

I will say it online and I will say it to your face - deal with it. Get a job, write a book, start a business or do something so that you are not completely effeminate. Passing undesireable traits onto your kids is not cute.

Being a parent is a job.

Actually, no it's not. If it were, all parents who have paid employment would have two jobs.