How much do you make and whats your job title and age?

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Anonymous wrote:Lol. Get your panties out of a bunch. Just because someone insults you, it doesn't mean they are hateful. There is no need to call Jesse Jackson or Anderson Cooper.

SAHDs are not cute. It is disgraceful unless the man is disabled or retired after having a career. Otherwise, a man needs a job or he needs to be looking for one.

I will say it online and I will say it to your face - deal with it. Get a job, write a book, start a business or do something so that you are not completely effeminate. Passing undesireable traits onto your kids is not cute.

You're a bitch and I'd say that to your face too. My husband works (as I said) and also takes care of the kids full time. If you were to meet him effeminate is the last word you'd use to describe him. I guess he doesn't need to prove himself.

Yes, you are hateful. Do you also think that all women need to have a job? For us it was more important to have one of us spend time with our children rather than pay a stranger to take care of them. In our family it made much more sense (sadly, because I'd love to do it) for it to be my husband and he's worked his schedule around that. This isn't unusual in this city.

If your husband has business obligations then he is not a stay at home dad. He is either a work at home dad, or a dad with business obligations and a flexible schedule. I can't fault a man for being placed in a situation where he has to work and then be a fulltime care provider. Women have made it so hard for men. However, if a man identifies as a stay at home dad, then he should grow a pair. It is reprehensible.

Fulltime parenting is an acceptable job for a woman and it is respectable because daycares should only be used by single parents and orphaned children. However, I will never respect a man without business obligations unless he is disabled, looking for employment, or retired.

This is hilarious. Please go crawl back to the 19th century. What are "business obligations" anyway? My husband is freelance and the primary caretaker of our (very young) children. Like most men he doesn't call himself a "stay at home dad" but he is doing the exact same thing as most women who are primary caretakers.

Bwahahaha. Daycares for orphaned children and single parents only? You must be having such fun denigrating people for coming up with solutions that work for their family. I can only imagine what kind of life you have and how uptight you are that your husband works all the time and barely knows his kids.

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This SAHD-hater is a troll and s/he's punking us all by forcing us to respond to his or her inane opinions. If your family's lifestyle works for you, you don't have to justify that to anyone and it's not worth the argument.

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Anonymous wrote:32- $200k+. Sales

What type of sales?

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Anonymous wrote:$100k base, between 120-180k commissions, Senior Director- Key Accounts, 32 yrs old.

What industry?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Lol. Get your panties out of a bunch. Just because someone insults you, it doesn't mean they are hateful. There is no need to call Jesse Jackson or Anderson Cooper.

SAHDs are not cute. It is disgraceful unless the man is disabled or retired after having a career. Otherwise, a man needs a job or he needs to be looking for one.

I will say it online and I will say it to your face - deal with it. Get a job, write a book, start a business or do something so that you are not completely effeminate. Passing undesireable traits onto your kids is not cute.

Being a parent is a job.

Actually, no it's not. If it were, all parents who have paid employment would have two jobs.

Well, they do, don't they? They work one job at the place where they get paid to work and then they come home and continue to work taking care of their families. Work is work. Some work you get paid for. Some you don't.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Lol. Get your panties out of a bunch. Just because someone insults you, it doesn't mean they are hateful. There is no need to call Jesse Jackson or Anderson Cooper.

SAHDs are not cute. It is disgraceful unless the man is disabled or retired after having a career. Otherwise, a man needs a job or he needs to be looking for one.

I will say it online and I will say it to your face - deal with it. Get a job, write a book, start a business or do something so that you are not completely effeminate. Passing undesireable traits onto your kids is not cute.

Being a parent is a job.

Actually, no it's not. If it were, all parents who have paid employment would have two jobs.

Well, they do, don't they? They work one job at the place where they get paid to work and then they come home and continue to work taking care of their families. Work is work. Some work you get paid for. Some you don't.

You do get paid, just not in monetary terms. You get paid with love, a sense of accomplishment, ect

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25 I work for a HOA doing Communications $46k

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Me 104K, age 33, fed atty
DH 105K, age 33, VP financial sector (he also gets a $10K bonus)

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41, In-house Attorney, 325k Base

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Anonymous wrote:41, In-house Attorney, 325k Base

Wow

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Anonymous wrote:41, In-house Attorney, 325k Base

Unless you're the GC or a senior VP, I say bs.

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35, Govt analyst, 97K

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36, business owner (software company), $425k. Probably $600k this year.

However in the first few years of my company, I was just living off savings and had 0 income. Glad I was young and single then -- much lower expenses!

I work from home so get to watch our kids grow up. I get offers now and then to join the management team of various startup companies, but I turn them down because I know it will mean 80-hour weeks in the office, and I'm no longer in that stage of my life.

[Anonymous]

It's great to see so many young people with good income. Very inspiring.

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Anonymous wrote:It's great to see so many young people with good income. Very inspiring.

Bah. I'm over 50, have never made "six figures" and just got my job title changed from "engineer" to "laid off."