Husband doesn't want kids; but I do

[Anonymous]

OP, get out now so you can find someone worthy of you. I had a relationship that ended and I thought I was never get over it but went to psychologist who told me that I hd to think of former partner as dead. Being superstitious and I didn't want him dead, I just told myself he went down with the Titanic. It took awhile but it worked. Good luck to you.

[Anonymous]

OP - although I have followed the thread its been too long and I can't remember how old you are exactly but...if its late 30's and you really, truly feel like you want a biological child, move on now and don't waste another month.

[Anonymous]

As someone who spent several years on DCUM reading about fertility treatments, likely largely as a result of my waiting so long to have kids, I'd say get your feet moving away from DH ASAP. It worked out alright for us (2 kids now), but not for several of my close friends. If having kids is a/the top priority for you, then get a move on. You can have kids on your own if you want (certainly don't find a new man just to have kids with), but you need to move forward. Sorry for sounding bossy.

[Anonymous]

OP--
don't fous on the story previously where someone's DH had a change of heart after a break up, etc. Same thing happened to me, we got married, had a child, etc. When teh child was 5 months old, he told me he didn't really want to be a father (WTF??? child was planned) or a husband. Divorce.
Flash forward less than 2 yrs, I met current DH. Three kids and 9 yrs later, much better.

GO NOW. A good marriage and the right partner really aren't that much work and drama.

Having been a single mother, at least for a while, it's still WAY better than not being a mother.

Good luck.