Who the hell is Pamela?? |
I was the one who first brought up Nelson and I’m a woman. The sexy stuff is all well and good but I find it so much more interesting to think about what’s true to the purported historical context and what’s different — it’s like how sci fi is interesting because it makes you think about what’s different from our current reality. My point was mainly that being a rich man’s mistress in that time frame was not a bad gig and better than most other options for non rich women, os we can’t really slam Benedict for offering it. I mean, think about a world in which you can’t marry the person you love unless they happen to be from the right family, have not been previously married, etc etc. So of course you will have a ton of people setting up long term relationships outside of marriage, because the heat wants what th heart wants, even 200+ years ago. If you think about it that way, the mistress thing is often kind of sweet. And they often had a sort of acknowledged place in society. (Let’s all remember too that the current Queen of England was once the long term mistress who was considered inappropriate for marriage just 50 years ago ….) And for those who want to know more about admiral horatio Nelson’s great love of his life and mistress: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Tk_eoZDYERY |
I get that. I think people are viewing it from the modern day lens though. And in that hot steamy scene it sort of ruined the moment. In fact, the music even stopped in that scene at that point. |
More SPOILERS I agree performative and yes they are setting up the storyline for Francesca’s second chapter. We’ll see if she gets a whole season like she gets a whole book (no, she does not cheat on her husband, at least in the books). |
The thing to also know with historical context is some of the artist/free love types ruined the lives of every woman who got involved with them. Shelley and Byron most spectacularly. So being a mistress could be a very fraught endeavor. |
I did too! They had chemistry and were a mire believable match than Pen and Colin. They gave a dancing with your brother vibe |
Lol and you'd think Bridgerton-watching people might have heard of Nelson from Regency romances. He's in the background like Beau Brummell and Almacks and Byron and Lady Caroline Lamb. |
I'm dreading that she's going to be thinking of the cousin when she reaches her pinnacle. |
A character in a popular book from the period. PP studied Pamela in college. |
I hate the word pinnacle! |
I'm sorry, I really don't think a quarter teaspoon of spit is relevant to her virginity. It's not like finger banging your employee on the stairs is bad but not if you lick your fingers! |
Oh come on, I'm barely literate and even I know who Pamela is. |
Well, I definitely feel like they're setting me up to be not sad when he dies. |
| Violet in her bedroom is the hottest person on the show. She made the hot dude who came to have tea disappointing by comparison, and I'm a straight woman. |
There is no Pamela in Bridgerton, Season 4, the topic of this thread. |