Boyfriend told me to “shut the F up”

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Anonymous wrote:OP came in hot with the know-it-all posturing, got clapped back, and had to come to DCUM where all the misandrists would join her pile-on instead of helping her correct the core of the problem: her stupid choice to tell her boyfriend what to do about things she doesn't even fully comprehend and wasn't asked to provide advice about.

Just drink your own beer and mind your own business, OP. In short: STFU.

Stay away from women. You aren’t a safe person.

Stay away from people, period. I doubt women are the only people PP bullies. Anyone deemed less than probably hears about it on a regular basis.

Excellent point. This person is an equal opportunity abuser. Men, women, children, animals prob. Terrifying to know they could be our neighbors or coworkers.

This judgmental harpy could be your neighbor.

You don't even know pp by name, but feel comfortable labeling them an abuser? Because... they disagree?

You need to step back and analyze your own nastiness, creepo. Calm your life down, and recognize that people who disagree with you are allowed to exist. Your need to control everyone, label those who disagree, and ostracize anyone who doesn't lockstep with your nonsense makes you the problem.

People who defend abusers are abusers themselves. No need for a name. Stop justifying abuse and people will stop calling you an abuser.

So anyone who has ever sworn once while upset is an abuser, but the namecallers aren't abusers because THEY are justified.

Okay. Sure. That makes perfect sense.

We are anonymous strangers on a discussion board, not intimate partners. You do understand the difference, don't you?

People who have never had a real life partner probably struggle with this.

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Anonymous wrote:OP came in hot with the know-it-all posturing, got clapped back, and had to come to DCUM where all the misandrists would join her pile-on instead of helping her correct the core of the problem: her stupid choice to tell her boyfriend what to do about things she doesn't even fully comprehend and wasn't asked to provide advice about.

Just drink your own beer and mind your own business, OP. In short: STFU.

Stay away from women. You aren’t a safe person.

Stay away from people, period. I doubt women are the only people PP bullies. Anyone deemed less than probably hears about it on a regular basis.

Excellent point. This person is an equal opportunity abuser. Men, women, children, animals prob. Terrifying to know they could be our neighbors or coworkers.

This judgmental harpy could be your neighbor.

You don't even know pp by name, but feel comfortable labeling them an abuser? Because... they disagree?

You need to step back and analyze your own nastiness, creepo. Calm your life down, and recognize that people who disagree with you are allowed to exist. Your need to control everyone, label those who disagree, and ostracize anyone who doesn't lockstep with your nonsense makes you the problem.

People who defend abusers are abusers themselves. No need for a name. Stop justifying abuse and people will stop calling you an abuser.

So anyone who has ever sworn once while upset is an abuser, but the namecallers aren't abusers because THEY are justified.

Okay. Sure. That makes perfect sense.

We are anonymous strangers on a discussion board, not intimate partners. You do understand the difference, don't you?

AH! I get it now. There are people it's okay to abuse, and abusing those people doesn't make you "an abuser".

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Anonymous wrote:OP came in hot with the know-it-all posturing, got clapped back, and had to come to DCUM where all the misandrists would join her pile-on instead of helping her correct the core of the problem: her stupid choice to tell her boyfriend what to do about things she doesn't even fully comprehend and wasn't asked to provide advice about.

Just drink your own beer and mind your own business, OP. In short: STFU.

Stay away from women. You aren’t a safe person.

Stay away from people, period. I doubt women are the only people PP bullies. Anyone deemed less than probably hears about it on a regular basis.

Excellent point. This person is an equal opportunity abuser. Men, women, children, animals prob. Terrifying to know they could be our neighbors or coworkers.

This judgmental harpy could be your neighbor.

You don't even know pp by name, but feel comfortable labeling them an abuser? Because... they disagree?

You need to step back and analyze your own nastiness, creepo. Calm your life down, and recognize that people who disagree with you are allowed to exist. Your need to control everyone, label those who disagree, and ostracize anyone who doesn't lockstep with your nonsense makes you the problem.

People who defend abusers are abusers themselves. No need for a name. Stop justifying abuse and people will stop calling you an abuser.

So anyone who has ever sworn once while upset is an abuser, but the namecallers aren't abusers because THEY are justified.

Okay. Sure. That makes perfect sense.

Swearing in general =/= swearing at your partner.
Your failure to grasp basic concepts about decency is concerning.

dropping a "STFU" when drunk and being badgered by someone who has no standing to be involved in the first place isn't the egregious decency violation you're trying to claim, but good luck living your life while this hysterical and overreacting this hard about small things.

And you didn't address the part about how someone who didn't swear at anyone got abused, but that's because it makes sense you can't argue. So you'll go back to insulting people, abuser.

Project much?

Dating someone who gets drunk and cusses you out is not fun. This is one year in and the guy can't handle alcohol (drunk), can't humanely own a dog (untrained, muzzled, restrained), and can't control his behavior (cusses her out for trying to help the dog)...things aren't going well here.

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Anonymous wrote:OP came in hot with the know-it-all posturing, got clapped back, and had to come to DCUM where all the misandrists would join her pile-on instead of helping her correct the core of the problem: her stupid choice to tell her boyfriend what to do about things she doesn't even fully comprehend and wasn't asked to provide advice about.

Just drink your own beer and mind your own business, OP. In short: STFU.

Stay away from women. You aren’t a safe person.

Stay away from people, period. I doubt women are the only people PP bullies. Anyone deemed less than probably hears about it on a regular basis.

Excellent point. This person is an equal opportunity abuser. Men, women, children, animals prob. Terrifying to know they could be our neighbors or coworkers.

This judgmental harpy could be your neighbor.

You don't even know pp by name, but feel comfortable labeling them an abuser? Because... they disagree?

You need to step back and analyze your own nastiness, creepo. Calm your life down, and recognize that people who disagree with you are allowed to exist. Your need to control everyone, label those who disagree, and ostracize anyone who doesn't lockstep with your nonsense makes you the problem.

People who defend abusers are abusers themselves. No need for a name. Stop justifying abuse and people will stop calling you an abuser.

So anyone who has ever sworn once while upset is an abuser, but the namecallers aren't abusers because THEY are justified.

Okay. Sure. That makes perfect sense.

Swearing in general =/= swearing at your partner.
Your failure to grasp basic concepts about decency is concerning.

dropping a "STFU" when drunk and being badgered by someone who has no standing to be involved in the first place isn't the egregious decency violation you're trying to claim, but good luck living your life while this hysterical and overreacting this hard about small things.

And you didn't address the part about how someone who didn't swear at anyone got abused, but that's because it makes sense you can't argue. So you'll go back to insulting people, abuser.

Project much?

Me, project? Says the alcoholic telling on himself. You must also spout off when you’ve had a few (already??) and think it’s totes acceptable. He was drinking, give him a break!

Still not a man, and I've been totally sober for years, but you don't care about facts so let's set that aside.

The time to have a serious conversation with someone isn't when they're in their cups. OP takes zero responsibility for starting mess about a subject that isn't even her business, while the dude was having a drink. I don't drink, but if you interrupt my "me time" to tell me how you think I'm handling my business wrong while implying you do it better, well, that's not exactly compassionate, considerate behavior now, is it?

But it's going to be hard for you to wrap your head around that, because you're too busy arguing with a stranger you insist on misgendering to justify your misandry. Cool.

...says the dry drunk

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Anonymous wrote:OP came in hot with the know-it-all posturing, got clapped back, and had to come to DCUM where all the misandrists would join her pile-on instead of helping her correct the core of the problem: her stupid choice to tell her boyfriend what to do about things she doesn't even fully comprehend and wasn't asked to provide advice about.

Just drink your own beer and mind your own business, OP. In short: STFU.

Stay away from women. You aren’t a safe person.

Stay away from people, period. I doubt women are the only people PP bullies. Anyone deemed less than probably hears about it on a regular basis.

Excellent point. This person is an equal opportunity abuser. Men, women, children, animals prob. Terrifying to know they could be our neighbors or coworkers.

This judgmental harpy could be your neighbor.

You don't even know pp by name, but feel comfortable labeling them an abuser? Because... they disagree?

You need to step back and analyze your own nastiness, creepo. Calm your life down, and recognize that people who disagree with you are allowed to exist. Your need to control everyone, label those who disagree, and ostracize anyone who doesn't lockstep with your nonsense makes you the problem.

People who defend abusers are abusers themselves. No need for a name. Stop justifying abuse and people will stop calling you an abuser.

So anyone who has ever sworn once while upset is an abuser, but the namecallers aren't abusers because THEY are justified.

Okay. Sure. That makes perfect sense.

Swearing in general =/= swearing at your partner.
Your failure to grasp basic concepts about decency is concerning.

dropping a "STFU" when drunk and being badgered by someone who has no standing to be involved in the first place isn't the egregious decency violation you're trying to claim, but good luck living your life while this hysterical and overreacting this hard about small things.

And you didn't address the part about how someone who didn't swear at anyone got abused, but that's because it makes sense you can't argue. So you'll go back to insulting people, abuser.

Project much?

Me, project? Says the alcoholic telling on himself. You must also spout off when you’ve had a few (already??) and think it’s totes acceptable. He was drinking, give him a break!

Still not a man, and I've been totally sober for years, but you don't care about facts so let's set that aside.

The time to have a serious conversation with someone isn't when they're in their cups. OP takes zero responsibility for starting mess about a subject that isn't even her business, while the dude was having a drink. I don't drink, but if you interrupt my "me time" to tell me how you think I'm handling my business wrong while implying you do it better, well, that's not exactly compassionate, considerate behavior now, is it?

But it's going to be hard for you to wrap your head around that, because you're too busy arguing with a stranger you insist on misgendering to justify your misandry. Cool.

...says the dry drunk

Your willingness to continue attacking people you can't even name is a story about you. Go on with it; I don't control you and I'm not responsible for what you do. But when you act like this, it completely negates you whole "abuse is wrong" argument.

And if you know "dry drunk" then you should probably also understand just how out of pocket you are right now. Best of luck with that amends...

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Anonymous wrote:OP came in hot with the know-it-all posturing, got clapped back, and had to come to DCUM where all the misandrists would join her pile-on instead of helping her correct the core of the problem: her stupid choice to tell her boyfriend what to do about things she doesn't even fully comprehend and wasn't asked to provide advice about.

Just drink your own beer and mind your own business, OP. In short: STFU.

Stay away from women. You aren’t a safe person.

Stay away from people, period. I doubt women are the only people PP bullies. Anyone deemed less than probably hears about it on a regular basis.

Excellent point. This person is an equal opportunity abuser. Men, women, children, animals prob. Terrifying to know they could be our neighbors or coworkers.

This judgmental harpy could be your neighbor.

You don't even know pp by name, but feel comfortable labeling them an abuser? Because... they disagree?

You need to step back and analyze your own nastiness, creepo. Calm your life down, and recognize that people who disagree with you are allowed to exist. Your need to control everyone, label those who disagree, and ostracize anyone who doesn't lockstep with your nonsense makes you the problem.

People who defend abusers are abusers themselves. No need for a name. Stop justifying abuse and people will stop calling you an abuser.

So anyone who has ever sworn once while upset is an abuser, but the namecallers aren't abusers because THEY are justified.

Okay. Sure. That makes perfect sense.

We are anonymous strangers on a discussion board, not intimate partners. You do understand the difference, don't you?

AH! I get it now. There are people it's okay to abuse, and abusing those people doesn't make you "an abuser".

Your responses are disproportionate to the converversation. Your use of eye roll emojis betrays your immaturity. Your relentless sock puppeting and histrionics betray your emotional maturity and dysregulation. Look up some of these terms. See also: borderline personality disorder, splitting and decompensating.

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Anonymous wrote:OP came in hot with the know-it-all posturing, got clapped back, and had to come to DCUM where all the misandrists would join her pile-on instead of helping her correct the core of the problem: her stupid choice to tell her boyfriend what to do about things she doesn't even fully comprehend and wasn't asked to provide advice about.

Just drink your own beer and mind your own business, OP. In short: STFU.

Stay away from women. You aren’t a safe person.

Stay away from people, period. I doubt women are the only people PP bullies. Anyone deemed less than probably hears about it on a regular basis.

Excellent point. This person is an equal opportunity abuser. Men, women, children, animals prob. Terrifying to know they could be our neighbors or coworkers.

This judgmental harpy could be your neighbor.

You don't even know pp by name, but feel comfortable labeling them an abuser? Because... they disagree?

You need to step back and analyze your own nastiness, creepo. Calm your life down, and recognize that people who disagree with you are allowed to exist. Your need to control everyone, label those who disagree, and ostracize anyone who doesn't lockstep with your nonsense makes you the problem.

People who defend abusers are abusers themselves. No need for a name. Stop justifying abuse and people will stop calling you an abuser.

So anyone who has ever sworn once while upset is an abuser, but the namecallers aren't abusers because THEY are justified.

Okay. Sure. That makes perfect sense.

Swearing in general =/= swearing at your partner.
Your failure to grasp basic concepts about decency is concerning.

dropping a "STFU" when drunk and being badgered by someone who has no standing to be involved in the first place isn't the egregious decency violation you're trying to claim, but good luck living your life while this hysterical and overreacting this hard about small things.

And you didn't address the part about how someone who didn't swear at anyone got abused, but that's because it makes sense you can't argue. So you'll go back to insulting people, abuser.

Project much?

Dating someone who gets drunk and cusses you out is not fun. This is one year in and the guy can't handle alcohol (drunk), can't humanely own a dog (untrained, muzzled, restrained), and can't control his behavior (cusses her out for trying to help the dog)...things aren't going well here.

Dating someone who interrupts your night to nag you about your life/your business isn't fun either. Now he's a drunk, a dog abuser, and out of control? because he said stfu, non-aggressively (by OPs own accounting on this thread).

You make drama because you are drama. This isn't that dramatic.

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Anonymous wrote:OP came in hot with the know-it-all posturing, got clapped back, and had to come to DCUM where all the misandrists would join her pile-on instead of helping her correct the core of the problem: her stupid choice to tell her boyfriend what to do about things she doesn't even fully comprehend and wasn't asked to provide advice about.

Just drink your own beer and mind your own business, OP. In short: STFU.

Stay away from women. You aren’t a safe person.

Stay away from people, period. I doubt women are the only people PP bullies. Anyone deemed less than probably hears about it on a regular basis.

Excellent point. This person is an equal opportunity abuser. Men, women, children, animals prob. Terrifying to know they could be our neighbors or coworkers.

This judgmental harpy could be your neighbor.

You don't even know pp by name, but feel comfortable labeling them an abuser? Because... they disagree?

You need to step back and analyze your own nastiness, creepo. Calm your life down, and recognize that people who disagree with you are allowed to exist. Your need to control everyone, label those who disagree, and ostracize anyone who doesn't lockstep with your nonsense makes you the problem.

People who defend abusers are abusers themselves. No need for a name. Stop justifying abuse and people will stop calling you an abuser.

So anyone who has ever sworn once while upset is an abuser, but the namecallers aren't abusers because THEY are justified.

Okay. Sure. That makes perfect sense.

We are anonymous strangers on a discussion board, not intimate partners. You do understand the difference, don't you?

AH! I get it now. There are people it's okay to abuse, and abusing those people doesn't make you "an abuser".

Your responses are disproportionate to the converversation. Your use of eye roll emojis betrays your immaturity. Your relentless sock puppeting and histrionics betray your emotional maturity and dysregulation. Look up some of these terms. See also: borderline personality disorder, splitting and decompensating.

What do you charge these days, DCUM shrink?

Good grief. What a mess! Please keep telling on yourself. You think you're talking about "me" (whoever you think I am), but... yeah, no. And the hypocrisy in your post is so obvious. "your responses are disproportionate to the conversation" you say, and then go on to diagnonsense someone you don't even know.

See? It's about YOU.

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No big deal. This is how people talk in my world. We are real people, not p*ssies.

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Anonymous wrote:Get out now. You're not even married, no kids. It will get worse

I was going to say this. You’ve only been dating a year and he’s talking to you like this? Usually people are on on their best behavior at this point. I would very seriously consider breaking up over this, there are clearly people on here who think this is not a big deal, but I’m not one of them and it sounds like OP isn’t either.. Obviously it would be different if you were married and had kids.

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Anonymous wrote:No big deal. This is how people talk in my world. We are real people, not p*ssies.

You, I like

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Anonymous wrote:OP came in hot with the know-it-all posturing, got clapped back, and had to come to DCUM where all the misandrists would join her pile-on instead of helping her correct the core of the problem: her stupid choice to tell her boyfriend what to do about things she doesn't even fully comprehend and wasn't asked to provide advice about.

Just drink your own beer and mind your own business, OP. In short: STFU.

Stay away from women. You aren’t a safe person.

Stay away from people, period. I doubt women are the only people PP bullies. Anyone deemed less than probably hears about it on a regular basis.

Excellent point. This person is an equal opportunity abuser. Men, women, children, animals prob. Terrifying to know they could be our neighbors or coworkers.

This judgmental harpy could be your neighbor.

You don't even know pp by name, but feel comfortable labeling them an abuser? Because... they disagree?

You need to step back and analyze your own nastiness, creepo. Calm your life down, and recognize that people who disagree with you are allowed to exist. Your need to control everyone, label those who disagree, and ostracize anyone who doesn't lockstep with your nonsense makes you the problem.

People who defend abusers are abusers themselves. No need for a name. Stop justifying abuse and people will stop calling you an abuser.

So anyone who has ever sworn once while upset is an abuser, but the namecallers aren't abusers because THEY are justified.

Okay. Sure. That makes perfect sense.

Swearing in general =/= swearing at your partner.
Your failure to grasp basic concepts about decency is concerning.

dropping a "STFU" when drunk and being badgered by someone who has no standing to be involved in the first place isn't the egregious decency violation you're trying to claim, but good luck living your life while this hysterical and overreacting this hard about small things.

And you didn't address the part about how someone who didn't swear at anyone got abused, but that's because it makes sense you can't argue. So you'll go back to insulting people, abuser.

Project much?

Dating someone who gets drunk and cusses you out is not fun. This is one year in and the guy can't handle alcohol (drunk), can't humanely own a dog (untrained, muzzled, restrained), and can't control his behavior (cusses her out for trying to help the dog)...things aren't going well here.

Dating someone who interrupts your night to nag you about your life/your business isn't fun either. Now he's a drunk, a dog abuser, and out of control? because he said stfu, non-aggressively (by OPs own accounting on this thread).

You make drama because you are drama. This isn't that dramatic.

Sounds like they aren’t compatible and they should breakup.

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Anonymous wrote:OP came in hot with the know-it-all posturing, got clapped back, and had to come to DCUM where all the misandrists would join her pile-on instead of helping her correct the core of the problem: her stupid choice to tell her boyfriend what to do about things she doesn't even fully comprehend and wasn't asked to provide advice about.

Just drink your own beer and mind your own business, OP. In short: STFU.

Stay away from women. You aren’t a safe person.

I'm not a safe person to mouth off to if you're not ready to get it right back, you mean.

That's accurate. Don't start none, won't be none.

Disgusting. You sound like a predator. I sincerely hope you don’t have a family, lest they be in danger.

And you sound like the sort of idiot who'd abuse a rando online, but piss yourself if you had to say half that to my face. Do you see that you're the aggressive one in this exchange? Do you know that you're the bully?

Y'all project. Hard. Take it to a damned therapist! FFS...

If OP’s boyfriend is like you, then yes she should absolutely break up with them. Who wants to deal with this?

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Anonymous wrote:OP came in hot with the know-it-all posturing, got clapped back, and had to come to DCUM where all the misandrists would join her pile-on instead of helping her correct the core of the problem: her stupid choice to tell her boyfriend what to do about things she doesn't even fully comprehend and wasn't asked to provide advice about.

Just drink your own beer and mind your own business, OP. In short: STFU.

Stay away from women. You aren’t a safe person.

I'm not a safe person to mouth off to if you're not ready to get it right back, you mean.

That's accurate. Don't start none, won't be none.

Disgusting. You sound like a predator. I sincerely hope you don’t have a family, lest they be in danger.

And you sound like the sort of idiot who'd abuse a rando online, but piss yourself if you had to say half that to my face. Do you see that you're the aggressive one in this exchange? Do you know that you're the bully?

Y'all project. Hard. Take it to a damned therapist! FFS...

If OP’s boyfriend is like you, then yes she should absolutely break up with them. Who wants to deal with this?

You're right. It's so much easier to date a doormat who doesn't push back when you're on some BS.

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Just drink your own beer and mind your own business, OP. In short: STFU.

Stay away from women. You aren’t a safe person.

Stay away from people, period. I doubt women are the only people PP bullies. Anyone deemed less than probably hears about it on a regular basis.

Excellent point. This person is an equal opportunity abuser. Men, women, children, animals prob. Terrifying to know they could be our neighbors or coworkers.

This judgmental harpy could be your neighbor.

You don't even know pp by name, but feel comfortable labeling them an abuser? Because... they disagree?

You need to step back and analyze your own nastiness, creepo. Calm your life down, and recognize that people who disagree with you are allowed to exist. Your need to control everyone, label those who disagree, and ostracize anyone who doesn't lockstep with your nonsense makes you the problem.

People who defend abusers are abusers themselves. No need for a name. Stop justifying abuse and people will stop calling you an abuser.

So anyone who has ever sworn once while upset is an abuser, but the namecallers aren't abusers because THEY are justified.

Okay. Sure. That makes perfect sense.

Swearing in general =/= swearing at your partner.
Your failure to grasp basic concepts about decency is concerning.

dropping a "STFU" when drunk and being badgered by someone who has no standing to be involved in the first place isn't the egregious decency violation you're trying to claim, but good luck living your life while this hysterical and overreacting this hard about small things.

And you didn't address the part about how someone who didn't swear at anyone got abused, but that's because it makes sense you can't argue. So you'll go back to insulting people, abuser.

Project much?

Dating someone who gets drunk and cusses you out is not fun. This is one year in and the guy can't handle alcohol (drunk), can't humanely own a dog (untrained, muzzled, restrained), and can't control his behavior (cusses her out for trying to help the dog)...things aren't going well here.

Dating someone who interrupts your night to nag you about your life/your business isn't fun either. Now he's a drunk, a dog abuser, and out of control? because he said stfu, non-aggressively (by OPs own accounting on this thread).

You make drama because you are drama. This isn't that dramatic.

Sounds like they aren’t compatible and they should breakup.

No lies detected.