Too difficult to compare. Some clubs are easy at some schools and hard at others. Sports vs. non-sports time commitment is very difficult to assess. I've learned from this site that sometimes sports teams now have multiple captains and the time investment varies a ton. At my high school you had to be elected to be on student council. At my kid's school, any handraiser is eligible. That kind of thing. |
don't shoot the messenger. I am just taking the logic colleges use for high school courses and applying it to ECs It just shows how messed up this holistic system is |
I'll answer!!!! My kid tracked for 2 years ahead. Took Alg 2 in 9th and Precalc in 10th. Then onto AP Calc AB in 11 and Calc BC in 12 because that's how our schools do it. My kid went to 1 grade ahead in 1st grade. Why? Because that was just how good they were with math and math concepts. No tutoring/Kumon/pressure from us. In fact, in ES when they used to do the "timed math facts" tests, my kid was "so far behind" because they could do it all, just not super fast. They literally never missed a question---they came home in 2nd grade excited they had finally Passed a Timed math test---and I wondered how since they had just taken it. Then I went back and looked and relized they had a 100% accuracy on what they had completed, so by their logic, if they had answered enough questions, they were all correct and they finally would "pass" (Hint they were correct). My kid understood math concepts above all but 1-2 kids even in their "advanced math" in ES. I watched it happen when helping in class and the teachers told me about it. They also told me when it came time to "advance to GT and be 2 grades ahead in 4th grade" that if my kid didn't make the cut due to a timed test, they want to advocate for them to be 2 grades ahead. (my kid made the cut). The first time my kid had to study for Math (and didn't have a 98/99% without studying) was 12th grade Calc BC. My kid got the concepts and loved doing higher thinking math problems, but they would have been massively bored if kept on grade level or even 1 grade level ahead. What it has allowed is my kid skipped the first year of calculus at college and now has room for 2 more advanced electives in their engineering major because of that. Same holds true for their year of chemistry credit . |
And for both of my kids, outside of Marching band and concert band, 95% of their ECs were outside school, no association with the school. One kid, their EC definately helped with admissions and merit---being a true black belt and all that goes along with it impressive people. The other, their EC was 20+ hours weekly and just their life and all their friends and they couldn't imagine HS without that. |
Nope--we want our kids at the level they need to be challenged and learn. When your 3 yo is "helping with" their older siblings 1st grade math and knows 75% of the answers and loves the word problems, do you tell them "nope, that's above you, go back to counting" or do you encourage them to learn more math and problem solve? |
Only dishonest or ignorant people say that standardized tests only measures the ability to take standardized tests Standardized tests are the best measure we have of cognitive ability. It predicts pretty much everything you would want to predict. |
Where does this fallacy come from that rich kids are low stats? My kid goes to a private school filled with very rich kids. The are overwhelmingly high IQ, voracious readers, well traveled, have crazy smart parents, etc. Get out of your bubble, grinders. |
This shows that anyone can do math, even kids who are naturally slow/have poor processing speed. |
Yes but you have to start early |
Umm...no you are not. You are trying to twist information. Every single kid has the opportunity to take any of the courses a school offers. So AO look at the rigor offered at the HS and then at what the kid takes. And the AO can tell who has money and just done ECs because parents have money versus a poor/LMC/MC kid who has to work PT and help actually pay the bills for the family, and who has to come home after school to help with siblings or grandparents/etc. We get it---you want colleges to only look at GPA and SAT scores. Well that ship has sailed. They know that is only one indicator of what they are looking for. And yes, if your school offers 20 AP courses, you should be taking more than 1 or 2 if you want to be considered "highest rigor". You are arguing about all of this for literally only the T25-30 schools (maybe T40 if you include SLAC). Outside of that, it is not "difficult" to gain admissions to national Universities ranked 30+ If you are at/above the 75% you will get into most, as long as you are an "interesting person who does more than just academics". And most Highly qualified kids are at/above 75% at most schools 30+ |
To get into top schools, you have to do more than what your school has on site. You have to go beyond. And excel at it. |
Already done upthread. Anway, Swathmore is not in the Ivy League. |
did you read the posts of people here whose kids do sailing, Equestrian, etc? Which category do you put them in? |
Most AO would rather see smart kids, who rather than spending $$$$$$ and 50+ hours prepping to take the SAT/ACT multiple times, have something they are passionate about and focus their efforts on, something that enriches their lives beyond just "studying for the test". My own kid raised their score from 1320 to 1520 with 4 hours of individualized test prep (going over a baseline test). Easy to do in a short time period, especially if you can afford the tutor. If not, it might take you 20 hours to do that individually. So yes, my kid is privileged to not need to spend much time getting to their optimum score (and yes, had they spent another 10 hours focused on Verbal they could have gotten even higher) So nope, SAT is not a predator of cognitive ability. IQ tests are but not SAT/ACT |
and that means the school just pays lip service to trying to recruit poor kids. What ECs can you do and excel at without money? |