That is all well and good. We have a mixed family with a half Asian child also at a WASP school; I applaud your decision to attend a SLAC as they are looked down upon as not prestigious by many in the Asian and South Asian communities I have lived in and among the Asian community for 30 years now and you cannot say that the community really understands holistic admissions (or really cares too). They are relentlessly focused on academics at the expense of everything else. Even if they take the time to actually understand what holistic admissions look like they overly focus on academics thinking that 'peak' academics will overcome any weaknesses. They then are surprised because peak academics aren't valued as they believe (outside of truly peak like a USAMO medal). Insufficient attention is paid to the other factors involved in holistic admissions and even when undertaken they tend to be narrowly focused on an academic area so they end up having less impact than presumed. I expect that your third generation kid will do well as most groups culturally assimilate within a couple of generations. |
lol Knowing that their kids attend a college without a stand-alone engineering school, many Asian parents couldn’t sleep tight at night. |
NP. Could the difference be between matched QuestBridge students and students who went through the Questbridge application process, did not get matched, but still ended up going to Swarthmore? In the link, Questbridge says that 24% of Swarthmore's Class of 2028 are "affiliated" with Questbridge. If Questbridge surveys all its applicants, it might be possible that they know the colleges that its applicants ultimately attend, even if not matched through the program. |
It’s really a shame because kids who come from environments where SLAC’s are ignored in favor of T-50 universities are shutting off a whole range of potential options that could be good fits for what they want to do. And SLAC’s are great for some kids who are undecided about their major/general area of study. |
Np here. I liked your earlier post about what merit is not. But most of the stuff here can be faked. Kids lie as do some teachers. Without verification, liars are admitted on these criteria. It’s just a lottery! We should stop obsessing about who deserves to get in. |
Most SLACs are PWI. We are Asian. We were worried about the demographics. |
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Again with the sweeping generalizations. My 100% Asian family members, like any number of others in our community, not only understand holistic admissions but appreciate them. Furthermore, it didn’t take multiple generations - even my first gen parents never overly focused on academics. Frankly, they were too busy working to tiger parent us. There was no photocopying of next year’s curriculum or enrolling us in outside enrichment classes. I don’t doubt that some Asian families do, just as I’m sure some Caucasian and other families do; I’m just asking you to please stop with the blanket stereotypes. |
It does work that way. If you apply through QB, do not match in NCM and apply RD — if you get into and attend a QB school, you are a QB scholar. qB also has a summer program — I forget the name. CPS maybe? Not all apply through QB but would be affiliated with it. |
Actually if a kid focuses narrowly on an academic area that they are genuinely interested in, they can develop a true spike which makes them very attractive. My Asian kid is at H ( admitted to couple of HYPSM) and had this kind of spike. It was kid’s true passion and done independently or either help of teachers. |
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No, because I live in them and they are all too true. I wish that they weren't given that we are a mixed family and live in a very Asian community in the Bay area. You are mixing posters together but I am in a world where there are schools that are 90+% Asian engineering families and the lack of knowledge is stunning. The obsession with the Ivy's is stunning. The questioning how the Asian Vals parent could let her fo to Williams is stunning. It is all beyond ridiculous. Someone earlier commented about an Asian parent not being able to sleep if there isn't an engineering option...that crap is true. One of my D's friends was pressured hard not to attend Babson but is she changed her mind on business there was no engineering to swithch too. Not every Asian family is that way but far too many are and I am sorry if that hits home a bit too hard for you. |
That is true, but true spikes of all kinds are rare. |
Not a secret. It’s widespread in Asian community. If you go to Cupertino CA, there is one entire road that’s occupied by test prep, AP tutoring, math competition training, art EC, music EC tutoring businesses. |
It doesn’t hit home at all, much less hard. Your experience in a mixed family in the Bay Area has been different than my mine in a 100% Asian family in SoCal, I guess. |