Yeah, we mad too. We did not know mommy could have call in a favor. |
You can’t make an omelet without breaking a few eggs. |
Perfect response. This thread is the whiniest active conversation on the board and that's saying something. |
| If your DD didn’t make it, be grateful that you now get to save 100’s of dollars for a mediocre experience and don’t have to hang out at that awful turf field that reaches 1000 degrees in the summer with absolutely no shade. Most of those VA-DC teams won’t make it out of their bracket anyway. |
I’m just grateful the convalescing superstars get to go. Hopefully they can put up a little tent above their hospital beds to keep them comfortable. |
Enjoy sitting on the couch at your house that weekend posting on DC Urban Mom about how the DC-VA team would have beaten BC and Northwestern if they just had my kid on the team. |
Man you must be fun at parties…. |
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I love how much you all take this so seriously, both sides. Everyone is holier than thou and it’s too easy to know if your kid made it or didn’t.
I am enjoying this so much. Just think, you probably all know each other and would never say it to each other’s face. Awesome! |
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I know kids that are great players who missed out this year or last and I know the kids and families who made it this year or last.
At no point should GROWN A$$ ADULTS be taking shots at kids who made the team or not. The whole those kids get special treatment is ridiculous they earned their opportunity and if American Select didn’t work out go and try to earn their opportunity somewhere else. I know I’ll be cheering for these kids at American Select, NB, Apex 60 or whatever they do. |
Great post! Lots of keyboard warriors on this forum and would never think twice about approaching someone and say what they post on here. Lots of cowards hiding. Be happy for the kids that made the team. |
Just say who the parents are and I’d be happy to let them know how I feel. Until then, this anonymous forum is the best I can do, fellow anonymous forum poster. |
| I have a slightly different gripe about this situation than some others. I was one of the people who initially defended American Select, thinking they would never select a player without a tryout. I feel silly now, and apologize those who initially made the truthful claim. I still don’t quite understand why American Select would risk damaging their reputation in this case. American Select was already sort of teetering in the area with All-America gaining traction, including with top MD players, and at the very least this is not going to do anything to help them going forward. |
This is not “special treatment.” Elite athletes train very hard and get injured more frequently. If a region wants to field the best team, it is absolutely appropriate (and fair) to allow injured athletes to submit film for evaluation purposes. That is meritocracy - not just which kids happened to be in town & available to tryout on a given Sunday. Relax. |
I'm not sure how much they care. Whether they're fielding the best team, or just a team of 23 or 24 girls, they're still hitting their quota. And there will always be 23 or 24 girls willing to pay and play. In some regions they have 4 teams per age group, clearly everyone knows this is just about them making money, and yet people still pay to be on the 4th team. People can say all they want it's about the experience or the exposure, but in the end most girls playing in this region don't need either. It's about getting to say you made it and seeing your name on a roster. The even itself is meh. |
Sick. I feel bad for your DD, as you are 100% the kind of parent who gets their kid crossed off recruiting lists. Well done. |