I am married to a passive, un-masculine man

[Anonymous]

What makes you think this is a troll? I had a girl dump me for taking two showers a day. She said that wasn’t manly

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What makes you think this is a troll? I had a girl dump me for taking two showers a day. She said that wasn’t manly

Well, to be fair, that was the reason she told you.

[Anonymous]

I don’t think him running his business from home is the actual issue, I think OP wants a gym bro, and if he were one, I’m sure she wouldn’t complain about him cooking her dinner every night.

OP, you are toxic and can’t appreciate a good thing. You want a stud so that you could be proud of him parade him around, and perhaps be a little jealous sometimes.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Asia is already ahead of the West. Women these days in Asia complain VERY often about 'herbivore men'.

Well, that's what you get when you attack every aspect of masculinity as being toxic, brainwash kids starting in primary schools to confuse them about their sexuality and that cis gendered straight male as being the worst, and that being a manly man is toxic.

Have fun with your soy latte drinking, herbivore men ladies.

Help me out? What's wrong with soy lattes? Is heart health feminine? Just such weird cultural proxies for masculinity.

It’s more than just a proxy:

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/21353476/

[Anonymous]

Little boys don’t need help being little boys. Mischief comes naturally. Most of them need help taming their wilder instincts and behaving civilly. Your husband sounds like as fine a role model as any

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Little boys don’t need help being little boys. Mischief comes naturally. Most of them need help taming their wilder instincts and behaving civilly. Your husband sounds like as fine a role model as any

Her husband sounds lovely and much better than these toxic-masculinity men, don’t you agree?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don’t think him running his business from home is the actual issue, I think OP wants a gym bro, and if he were one, I’m sure she wouldn’t complain about him cooking her dinner every night.

OP, you are toxic and can’t appreciate a good thing. You want a stud so that you could be proud of him parade him around, and perhaps be a little jealous sometimes.

Reading the post her concern is for their son.
He doesn’t seem to be teaching or parenting or imparting any wisdom or teachings to him.

What does he do or look FW to doing with his son. Only have 18-3 years left at home. Write down some goals! And then some steps to achieving them! Then do them.

[Anonymous]

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Then fools like you do their bidding. Name call.

Fools like me name call, do we? Interesting. Glad to see you rising above that sort of thing.

Lol
There you go again. Just can’t stop arguing and deflecting. Glad you’re not married.

oh and by the way, the one person you think you're talking to is at least 3 people.
We just all think you are absolutely batsh*t and hilarious for conflating church with 'being a real man'.

And again!

I know it's making you happy to think that we are all one person, but I am here to tell you that factually we are not. You can not believe me, but it will remain true.

#obsessed

What on earth is the point of going to church if you are an internet troll? Not only is it not contributing to your being a ‘real man’, it’s also not remotely helping you be a good person. Better to spend that same time every week sleeping or earning more money if you’re going to do the exact opposite of what church is for

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What makes you think this is a troll? I had a girl dump me for taking two showers a day. She said that wasn’t manly

If taking two showers a days isn’t manly then I’m Richard Simmons

[Anonymous]

So you are saying you never want your son to learn to cook or be present for his family?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Asia is already ahead of the West. Women these days in Asia complain VERY often about 'herbivore men'.

Well, that's what you get when you attack every aspect of masculinity as being toxic, brainwash kids starting in primary schools to confuse them about their sexuality and that cis gendered straight male as being the worst, and that being a manly man is toxic.

Have fun with your soy latte drinking, herbivore men ladies.

Help me out? What's wrong with soy lattes? Is heart health feminine? Just such weird cultural proxies for masculinity.

It’s more than just a proxy:

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/21353476/

In your mind, what - if anything- do you think this 12 year old case report about a particular nineteen year old establishes with respect to humans in general?

[Anonymous]

I wonder if he has low self esteem after hearing, “[I]not have male friends and [my wife thinks I am] a recluse. “

Do you channel this, suggest this, or do you directly say these ideas out loud to your spouse?