Unpopular truth: If you don't maintain your value, your successful DH will move on

[Anonymous]

It's a truth universally acknowledged that a fool in possession of money thinks his sh*t doesn't stink.

[Anonymous]

This is such BS. My husband is all of those things as well and he picked me up on the very worst day of my life and metaphorically carried me on his back for months after I went through an extremely traumatic event. He did literally everything with the kids, house, money, etc. He never blamed me or guilted me though another person might have. All I had to do was work on healing.

I can only assume he did this because he truly loves me. He’s always said he does obviously but this situation really forced him to put his money where his mouth is and he did. N spades. And I am also an aging SAHM in her forties and he has a prestigious, demanding career.

Your friend’s husband is trash. She’s better off without him.

[Anonymous]

This worries me a lot. DH will be up for flag officer soon, and I am a liability as far as a the perfect wife is concerned. I'm sure he'll leave me for someone who can properly stand by his side instead of being a raging mess.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, thank you for being a realist. When you bring home millions, you do not have time or mental bandwidth or desire to be an emotional support for someone. This is just a reality that your friend should have known/learned by being married to a person like this. Rich men think only about themselves with a very few exceptions

Most women would consider a Rich man who even average looking a high value man...In the real world a high value man or woman has many options. Take car of your high value man or mate poaching will take place...just Darwinism.

This is third world culture thinking and maybe just in areas with oligarchs or gang mentality, where living in itself is a struggle and people get rich in immoral ways and have that lifestyle accepted by their peers involved in the same dealings.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, thank you for being a realist. When you bring home millions, you do not have time or mental bandwidth or desire to be an emotional support for someone. This is just a reality that your friend should have known/learned by being married to a person like this. Rich men think only about themselves with a very few exceptions

Most women would consider a Rich man who even average looking a high value man...In the real world a high value man or woman has many options. Take car of your high value man or mate poaching will take place...just Darwinism.

This is third world culture thinking and maybe just in areas with oligarchs or gang mentality, where living in itself is a struggle and people get rich in immoral ways and have that lifestyle accepted by their peers involved in the same dealings.

I was just thinking that, especially if you are female in a misogynistic society where women struggle to be considered equals.

[Anonymous]

Are you actually the friend? I highly doubt it.

The husband is a complete ass and he cheated on his wife during her grieving the loss of a parent.

[Anonymous]

Hey cheating husband masquerading as friend. You deserved to be pilloried and your money will not shield you from the whispers of your well heeled acquaintances that will correctly deem you a jerk. Public opinion will be on the side of your ex wife no matter how you try to spin it. She’s better off without you and your low value self.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This worries me a lot. DH will be up for flag officer soon, and I am a liability as far as a the perfect wife is concerned. I'm sure he'll leave me for someone who can properly stand by his side instead of being a raging mess.

Sounds like something for the two of you to talk about.

[Anonymous]

I don’t care as I have more money than him!🤑