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Coach Johns DID purchase CLC. There were legal documents and reviews by all parties. There was a national search conducted and interviews conducted. So, the club was not 'handed' to her and most definitely not 'in violation of the bylaws'. I know because I was there as a parent board member - and there were only a handful of us. So, please do not spread lies as that is 100% what those are. To your issue on recruiting, in fairness, '22 for all the clubs was hard for all of lacrosse. We had a once in a 100-years event like the pandemic. So, judging any club on one recruiting cycle is ridiculous. Most clubs - boys or girls - do not have a dedicated recruiting staff, as they simply rely on a reactive model with the parents carrying the bulk of the load. This is a very big deal. Is Capital perfect? No. But, for our metro area, they are without question the best available option to help your DD get to the collegiate level if that's truly in the cards whether you're talking CLC Blue or CLC Orange. The proof is in its commits or just pulling up the rosters of the top teams in our area or even nationally. Scores of Capital alums. It really is that simple. Does everyone land a home at the D1 home of their dreams? No, but Capital has a strong program, and their girls get committed. Signed, former Capital parent and former Capital board member |
The only year Pride field a true high school A team was the 2023 class. They consistently played in the top tournament brackets and top 5 schedules per USCL. I believe 3 or 4 players on that went in on to earn Player of the Year awards. They had the talent, but Pride completely dropped the ball on recruiting. Some players did commit to good D1 programs, but that was through their efforts not Pride. Pride’s poor handling of that talented class sealed their fate as a respectable high school program. |
Again, why you don't judge a club by an individual year. Best to look at a three year band - your DD/DS, and then the years in front and behind. You can gauge real fast who is getting the love, where they are strong recruiting and then how are they investing in training and the tournaments you'll likely be invited to as a club. Do the due diligence not just where your DD/DS's friends play. Also, be honest with yourself if not your kid, do you have a shot at making the starting roster. If you don't - whether its a clubs A or B team - how can you possibly expect to make a college roster. Its harsh but better the hard talk now versus tears and lost dollars later. |
| You should worry less about the sssas girls being mean and more about KJ herself being mean. |
| Keep hearing this. How exactly is KJ so mean? |
She’s been coaching for 30+ years. She’s not any meaner than any other coach dealing with teams of horomonal teens and their parents who think everyone deserves starting time. |
What is worse? Having a coach give you personal feedback - good or bad, or having a coach just ignore you and let you drift along and think you're the next Charlotte North or Izzy Scane? |
Parents saying she’s mean are the ones who can’t handle their kids getting less than perfect feedback for their daughters playing skills |
This. She is tough, not mean. No one would be saying these things if the coach was a man. |
Not speaking specifically about Gussie, but man or woman I’d say the same thing regardless. So, what are you saying? |
I believe this was in reference to KJ. She prepares her girls for the next step. The head coaches at all the strong programs are similarly 'crazy' - look at Stone Ridge, St Paul's and McDonogh. Because you could easily argue coaches 'fail' their players when they don't prepare them for this next step. |
| She only cares about the very top few players. |
Name a top coach who doesn't focus on the top players...... |
That’s just not true. Kathy has strong relationships with many girls who aren’t top players. Kathy cares about character, attitude, toughness and work ethic just as much as top talent. Just because you and/or your daughter don’t like her doesn’t make her mean or a bad person. |
| There’s nothing more fruitless than trying to establish if someone like a coacj is mean on an anonymous message board. That is a subjective interpretation. If someone says she is mean, then they are quickly attacked by someone saying your daughter sucks and you just can’t deal with the truth you loser. I guess that cuts both ways and the enablers and deniers can’t deal with the fact that their idol or meal ticket is a narcissistic hyper competitive person who cares about others only when It suits her own interests. Which one is right? Neither. Both. Humans are complex and relationships tricky. Perspective and context matter. if you want to know what’s what much better to talk directly with current and past players / parents AND the coach in a non public forum in order to make your own informed decision. |