Social resume for sorority rush

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Anonymous wrote:A classic DCUM stew of class resentment and trollery.

Some connected, pretty, rich and very personable girls choose not to have anything to do with it. Maybe no one's jealous, just grossed out.

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Anonymous wrote:I assume the resume includes a picture and that's what really matters.

Right - it's all about looks.

Yes. She’s very pretty. Someone commented that with her “stats” she won’t have a problem.

Which school? I was told the same. They’re were wrong.

Alabama

I was also told the same about my very pretty daughter. They were wrong. Dropped on the last day by the top tier sororities.

A blessing, let's face it.

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Anonymous wrote:A classic DCUM stew of class resentment and trollery.

Greek life is classist, ableist, misogynist and worse. It’s the truth.

The entire college admission process is all of these things. What's your point?

Hello, this thread is about sororities. PP made a point about them. Get it now?

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Anonymous wrote:Rush is a tough process and yet can also be bonding for the girls going through it together. I think it is normal for girls to change their minds throughout the process and a sign of resilience in a way to be able to get excited about the houses that want them, instead of pining for the ones that they got dropped by.

Really sad state of mind---to force yourself to get excited about the houses that want them. How about just making friends like normal people. The social anxiety caused by rush process is astounding. It's not really a normal two way street---it's the sorority members selecting who they like based on 5 mins with a girl, not really a good indicator of what a person is really like, which isn't needed because half the "selection criteria" is superficial (looks, money/background, how you dress, etc).

The houses have information about grades and leadership positions and extracurricular activities for every single potential new member. And it's more like a 3-6 hour interview process.

That's even worse than what PP described.

Sure, the how to move effortless in whatever class that PP was talking about classes will totally be the same at the old line sororities that reject require cross checked references as at the take all comers group houses.

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Anonymous wrote:I find it sort of hilarious that DCUM loves asking about how to dress WASPy and what and what isn't classy, and how to appear upper class, but loses its mind when faced with the prospect of sorority recruitment because it's too white and too elitist. Ya'll better pull the mote out of your own eye.

The same people who like greek life as it is are the ones who want to look ''classy.''

No. People who are in sororities don't need to ask an anonymous message board how to dress, act, network or decorate. Sororities do an excellent job providing this training.

Awesome! More young women should be allowed into sororities, then. We could all use that training.

Every NPC rush in the country guarantees a bid for every young woman who completes recruitment. It may not be a bid to her first choice, but everyone gets a bid. Placement rates at even the most competitive campuses is over 90%. Many of the people who don't get bids drop out early because they don't like the choices they have left. It's not that the sororities cut young women. It's that young women cut sororities because they had their heart set on a "top tier" sorority and didn't get invited back and weren't willing to accept a bid from a "lesser" sorority.

When sororities cut girls, it because they’re looking for a match. When a girl cuts a sorority, it’s because she’s a snob, is that what you’re saying? Because that’s what you’re saying.

Definitely not a two way street. Go through hell and be happy with the result, or you’re an ungrateful whiner. Nice organization you have there.

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Anonymous wrote:I find it sort of hilarious that DCUM loves asking about how to dress WASPy and what and what isn't classy, and how to appear upper class, but loses its mind when faced with the prospect of sorority recruitment because it's too white and too elitist. Ya'll better pull the mote out of your own eye.

The same people who like greek life as it is are the ones who want to look ''classy.''

No. People who are in sororities don't need to ask an anonymous message board how to dress, act, network or decorate. Sororities do an excellent job providing this training.

Awesome! More young women should be allowed into sororities, then. We could all use that training.

Every NPC rush in the country guarantees a bid for every young woman who completes recruitment. It may not be a bid to her first choice, but everyone gets a bid. Placement rates at even the most competitive campuses is over 90%. Many of the people who don't get bids drop out early because they don't like the choices they have left. It's not that the sororities cut young women. It's that young women cut sororities because they had their heart set on a "top tier" sorority and didn't get invited back and weren't willing to accept a bid from a "lesser" sorority.

don't know about NPC but I do know that there are absolutely schools that guarantee a bid if you continue through the rush process and don't suicide bid. As PP noted, the problem is that many girls drop out simply because they got cut by the "popular" houses. Also, once cut, if the girl drops out of rush, she's eligible for COB (continuous open bidding) and even heard of girls getting into houses that dropped them during formal rush. SO the net net, is there is room for everyone who is interested, but the girls have to be just as open minded as you want the houses to be and not have pre-conceived notions about a particular house because it's not "top tier" (which is again meaningless and those are not really the best houses just the most popular)

You keep blaming girls for wanting “top tier” and “popular” houses but if there are 13 houses and a girl gets one bid at the end of the week that’s literally the only one the girl didn’t want, you’re telling her to take it, or she’s an ungrateful snob. You grown women who support this bs are horrendous. Blaming 18 year old girls who want to find a place to belong for not wanting one house as of this is THIER problem. There are 12 houses they would have been happy with. If they don’t end up with three houses to pick from on the last night, that’s on YOU. Organize a more humane rush or quit pretending it has anything to do with “matching”.

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Anonymous wrote:I find it sort of hilarious that DCUM loves asking about how to dress WASPy and what and what isn't classy, and how to appear upper class, but loses its mind when faced with the prospect of sorority recruitment because it's too white and too elitist. Ya'll better pull the mote out of your own eye.

The same people who like greek life as it is are the ones who want to look ''classy.''

No. People who are in sororities don't need to ask an anonymous message board how to dress, act, network or decorate. Sororities do an excellent job providing this training.

Awesome! More young women should be allowed into sororities, then. We could all use that training.

Every NPC rush in the country guarantees a bid for every young woman who completes recruitment. It may not be a bid to her first choice, but everyone gets a bid. Placement rates at even the most competitive campuses is over 90%. Many of the people who don't get bids drop out early because they don't like the choices they have left. It's not that the sororities cut young women. It's that young women cut sororities because they had their heart set on a "top tier" sorority and didn't get invited back and weren't willing to accept a bid from a "lesser" sorority.

When sororities cut girls, it because they’re looking for a match. When a girl cuts a sorority, it’s because she’s a snob, is that what you’re saying? Because that’s what you’re saying.

Definitely not a two way street. Go through hell and be happy with the result, or you’re an ungrateful whiner. Nice organization you have there.

It is absolutely a two way street. The houses rank girls, girls rank houses. Yeah that sounds bad but then the computer matches it all up and if they are not happy with their remaining choices, the girls drop out. Anyone can get into a sorority (at most schools), IF you are open minded about the choices and give the houses that want them a chance. Yes there may be houses that the girls have left that they don't want. No harm no foul, they can drop out and try again during COB or next formal rush.

My DD reluctantly decided to rush this year. She was never a "follower" and was about 50/50 on rushing when she came to college. She and almost all of her hallmates decided to rush this spring just to see how things went. She was cut by all the "top houses" after day one. Understandably she was shocked to her core. It's not easy being judged like that for sure. Lots of tears and time spent with friends in the same situation comforting each other. She decided to keep going through the process. The house she got into she had never heard of prior to rush but in reality, those are "her people" and its clear that everything worked out for the best. Many, many girls dropped out when my DD decided to keep going. That's their choice and they can always try again next year if their heart is set on a certain house. A few of them did COB and got into houses they'd been dropped from just a week earlier. Yes, if she'd gotten cut by this one house, she probably would have dropped out and tried again, because she did not click with the other houses that were left at all, but she went through the entire process and met with these remaining houses several times before deciding that. That is also her choice.

Net net, it's a tough process but it can be worth it. My DD loves her sorority and is looking forward to meeting more sisters (they have about 200 members) and hopefully being in a leadership role at some point.

Interestingly, the hallmates were very close in the fall and now that they rushed and all went different places, it has had a negative affect on the group just because they are all busy with their houses and events. It's too bad, but the silver lining is that she has a whole new group of people to meet and befriend. At the same time, my DD and her best friend go to each others sororities functions all the time even though they are in different houses. It doesn't have to be exclusionary.

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Anonymous wrote:I find it sort of hilarious that DCUM loves asking about how to dress WASPy and what and what isn't classy, and how to appear upper class, but loses its mind when faced with the prospect of sorority recruitment because it's too white and too elitist. Ya'll better pull the mote out of your own eye.

The same people who like greek life as it is are the ones who want to look ''classy.''

No. People who are in sororities don't need to ask an anonymous message board how to dress, act, network or decorate. Sororities do an excellent job providing this training.

Awesome! More young women should be allowed into sororities, then. We could all use that training.

Every NPC rush in the country guarantees a bid for every young woman who completes recruitment. It may not be a bid to her first choice, but everyone gets a bid. Placement rates at even the most competitive campuses is over 90%. Many of the people who don't get bids drop out early because they don't like the choices they have left. It's not that the sororities cut young women. It's that young women cut sororities because they had their heart set on a "top tier" sorority and didn't get invited back and weren't willing to accept a bid from a "lesser" sorority.

don't know about NPC but I do know that there are absolutely schools that guarantee a bid if you continue through the rush process and don't suicide bid. As PP noted, the problem is that many girls drop out simply because they got cut by the "popular" houses. Also, once cut, if the girl drops out of rush, she's eligible for COB (continuous open bidding) and even heard of girls getting into houses that dropped them during formal rush. SO the net net, is there is room for everyone who is interested, but the girls have to be just as open minded as you want the houses to be and not have pre-conceived notions about a particular house because it's not "top tier" (which is again meaningless and those are not really the best houses just the most popular)

You keep blaming girls for wanting “top tier” and “popular” houses but if there are 13 houses and a girl gets one bid at the end of the week that’s literally the only one the girl didn’t want, you’re telling her to take it, or she’s an ungrateful snob. You grown women who support this bs are horrendous. Blaming 18 year old girls who want to find a place to belong for not wanting one house as of this is THIER problem. There are 12 houses they would have been happy with. If they don’t end up with three houses to pick from on the last night, that’s on YOU. Organize a more humane rush or quit pretending it has anything to do with “matching”.

Calm down. NO ONE is telling the girls they are ungrateful snobs but YOU. Just people said that sororities are difficult to get into or exclusionary and that's not 100% true. there ARE houses you can get into. Whether or not the girl wants it, is her choice entirely, but people on this board make it seem that 1000 girls rush and 200 get in. In reality, 1000 may rush, 400 probably drop out and the rest find a home.

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Anonymous wrote:I find it sort of hilarious that DCUM loves asking about how to dress WASPy and what and what isn't classy, and how to appear upper class, but loses its mind when faced with the prospect of sorority recruitment because it's too white and too elitist. Ya'll better pull the mote out of your own eye.

The same people who like greek life as it is are the ones who want to look ''classy.''

No. People who are in sororities don't need to ask an anonymous message board how to dress, act, network or decorate. Sororities do an excellent job providing this training.

Awesome! More young women should be allowed into sororities, then. We could all use that training.

Every NPC rush in the country guarantees a bid for every young woman who completes recruitment. It may not be a bid to her first choice, but everyone gets a bid. Placement rates at even the most competitive campuses is over 90%. Many of the people who don't get bids drop out early because they don't like the choices they have left. It's not that the sororities cut young women. It's that young women cut sororities because they had their heart set on a "top tier" sorority and didn't get invited back and weren't willing to accept a bid from a "lesser" sorority.

don't know about NPC but I do know that there are absolutely schools that guarantee a bid if you continue through the rush process and don't suicide bid. As PP noted, the problem is that many girls drop out simply because they got cut by the "popular" houses. Also, once cut, if the girl drops out of rush, she's eligible for COB (continuous open bidding) and even heard of girls getting into houses that dropped them during formal rush. SO the net net, is there is room for everyone who is interested, but the girls have to be just as open minded as you want the houses to be and not have pre-conceived notions about a particular house because it's not "top tier" (which is again meaningless and those are not really the best houses just the most popular)

You keep blaming girls for wanting “top tier” and “popular” houses but if there are 13 houses and a girl gets one bid at the end of the week that’s literally the only one the girl didn’t want, you’re telling her to take it, or she’s an ungrateful snob. You grown women who support this bs are horrendous. Blaming 18 year old girls who want to find a place to belong for not wanting one house as of this is THIER problem. There are 12 houses they would have been happy with. If they don’t end up with three houses to pick from on the last night, that’s on YOU. Organize a more humane rush or quit pretending it has anything to do with “matching”.

Oh and my DD faced this exact situation. If she didn't get her first choice on pref night, she was perfectly willing to drop out. She did not suicide bid but probably wouldn't have accepted her second choice. Who knows, maybe she would have given it a try, i don't know. You can always drop out before initiation if you don't like the house.

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Anonymous wrote:I find it sort of hilarious that DCUM loves asking about how to dress WASPy and what and what isn't classy, and how to appear upper class, but loses its mind when faced with the prospect of sorority recruitment because it's too white and too elitist. Ya'll better pull the mote out of your own eye.

The same people who like greek life as it is are the ones who want to look ''classy.''

No. People who are in sororities don't need to ask an anonymous message board how to dress, act, network or decorate. Sororities do an excellent job providing this training.

Awesome! More young women should be allowed into sororities, then. We could all use that training.

Every NPC rush in the country guarantees a bid for every young woman who completes recruitment. It may not be a bid to her first choice, but everyone gets a bid. Placement rates at even the most competitive campuses is over 90%. Many of the people who don't get bids drop out early because they don't like the choices they have left. It's not that the sororities cut young women. It's that young women cut sororities because they had their heart set on a "top tier" sorority and didn't get invited back and weren't willing to accept a bid from a "lesser" sorority.

don't know about NPC but I do know that there are absolutely schools that guarantee a bid if you continue through the rush process and don't suicide bid. As PP noted, the problem is that many girls drop out simply because they got cut by the "popular" houses. Also, once cut, if the girl drops out of rush, she's eligible for COB (continuous open bidding) and even heard of girls getting into houses that dropped them during formal rush. SO the net net, is there is room for everyone who is interested, but the girls have to be just as open minded as you want the houses to be and not have pre-conceived notions about a particular house because it's not "top tier" (which is again meaningless and those are not really the best houses just the most popular)

You keep blaming girls for wanting “top tier” and “popular” houses but if there are 13 houses and a girl gets one bid at the end of the week that’s literally the only one the girl didn’t want, you’re telling her to take it, or she’s an ungrateful snob. You grown women who support this bs are horrendous. Blaming 18 year old girls who want to find a place to belong for not wanting one house as of this is THIER problem. There are 12 houses they would have been happy with. If they don’t end up with three houses to pick from on the last night, that’s on YOU. Organize a more humane rush or quit pretending it has anything to do with “matching”.

Calm down. NO ONE is telling the girls they are ungrateful snobs but YOU. Just people said that sororities are difficult to get into or exclusionary and that's not 100% true. there ARE houses you can get into. Whether or not the girl wants it, is her choice entirely, but people on this board make it seem that 1000 girls rush and 200 get in. In reality, 1000 may rush, 400 probably drop out and the rest find a home.

That’s not what’s being said here. You must have joined late. And I will not calm down- you run an abusive program and then blame the girls who are hurting. It’s disgusting.

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Anonymous wrote:I find it sort of hilarious that DCUM loves asking about how to dress WASPy and what and what isn't classy, and how to appear upper class, but loses its mind when faced with the prospect of sorority recruitment because it's too white and too elitist. Ya'll better pull the mote out of your own eye.

The same people who like greek life as it is are the ones who want to look ''classy.''

No. People who are in sororities don't need to ask an anonymous message board how to dress, act, network or decorate. Sororities do an excellent job providing this training.

Awesome! More young women should be allowed into sororities, then. We could all use that training.

Every NPC rush in the country guarantees a bid for every young woman who completes recruitment. It may not be a bid to her first choice, but everyone gets a bid. Placement rates at even the most competitive campuses is over 90%. Many of the people who don't get bids drop out early because they don't like the choices they have left. It's not that the sororities cut young women. It's that young women cut sororities because they had their heart set on a "top tier" sorority and didn't get invited back and weren't willing to accept a bid from a "lesser" sorority.

When sororities cut girls, it because they’re looking for a match. When a girl cuts a sorority, it’s because she’s a snob, is that what you’re saying? Because that’s what you’re saying.

Definitely not a two way street. Go through hell and be happy with the result, or you’re an ungrateful whiner. Nice organization you have there.

It is absolutely a two way street. The houses rank girls, girls rank houses. Yeah that sounds bad but then the computer matches it all up and if they are not happy with their remaining choices, the girls drop out. Anyone can get into a sorority (at most schools), IF you are open minded about the choices and give the houses that want them a chance. Yes there may be houses that the girls have left that they don't want. No harm no foul, they can drop out and try again during COB or next formal rush.

Those houses don't want them, they want any warm body willing to pay does

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Anonymous wrote:I find it sort of hilarious that DCUM loves asking about how to dress WASPy and what and what isn't classy, and how to appear upper class, but loses its mind when faced with the prospect of sorority recruitment because it's too white and too elitist. Ya'll better pull the mote out of your own eye.

The same people who like greek life as it is are the ones who want to look ''classy.''

No. People who are in sororities don't need to ask an anonymous message board how to dress, act, network or decorate. Sororities do an excellent job providing this training.

Awesome! More young women should be allowed into sororities, then. We could all use that training.

Every NPC rush in the country guarantees a bid for every young woman who completes recruitment. It may not be a bid to her first choice, but everyone gets a bid. Placement rates at even the most competitive campuses is over 90%. Many of the people who don't get bids drop out early because they don't like the choices they have left. It's not that the sororities cut young women. It's that young women cut sororities because they had their heart set on a "top tier" sorority and didn't get invited back and weren't willing to accept a bid from a "lesser" sorority.

don't know about NPC but I do know that there are absolutely schools that guarantee a bid if you continue through the rush process and don't suicide bid. As PP noted, the problem is that many girls drop out simply because they got cut by the "popular" houses. Also, once cut, if the girl drops out of rush, she's eligible for COB (continuous open bidding) and even heard of girls getting into houses that dropped them during formal rush. SO the net net, is there is room for everyone who is interested, but the girls have to be just as open minded as you want the houses to be and not have pre-conceived notions about a particular house because it's not "top tier" (which is again meaningless and those are not really the best houses just the most popular)

You keep blaming girls for wanting “top tier” and “popular” houses but if there are 13 houses and a girl gets one bid at the end of the week that’s literally the only one the girl didn’t want, you’re telling her to take it, or she’s an ungrateful snob. You grown women who support this bs are horrendous. Blaming 18 year old girls who want to find a place to belong for not wanting one house as of this is THIER problem. There are 12 houses they would have been happy with. If they don’t end up with three houses to pick from on the last night, that’s on YOU. Organize a more humane rush or quit pretending it has anything to do with “matching”.

Calm down. NO ONE is telling the girls they are ungrateful snobs but YOU. Just people said that sororities are difficult to get into or exclusionary and that's not 100% true. there ARE houses you can get into. Whether or not the girl wants it, is her choice entirely, but people on this board make it seem that 1000 girls rush and 200 get in. In reality, 1000 may rush, 400 probably drop out and the rest find a home.

That's 40% that dropped/didn't get a house they wanted. That's not a few people don't find a house

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Anonymous wrote:I find it sort of hilarious that DCUM loves asking about how to dress WASPy and what and what isn't classy, and how to appear upper class, but loses its mind when faced with the prospect of sorority recruitment because it's too white and too elitist. Ya'll better pull the mote out of your own eye.

The same people who like greek life as it is are the ones who want to look ''classy.''

No. People who are in sororities don't need to ask an anonymous message board how to dress, act, network or decorate. Sororities do an excellent job providing this training.

Awesome! More young women should be allowed into sororities, then. We could all use that training.

Every NPC rush in the country guarantees a bid for every young woman who completes recruitment. It may not be a bid to her first choice, but everyone gets a bid. Placement rates at even the most competitive campuses is over 90%. Many of the people who don't get bids drop out early because they don't like the choices they have left. It's not that the sororities cut young women. It's that young women cut sororities because they had their heart set on a "top tier" sorority and didn't get invited back and weren't willing to accept a bid from a "lesser" sorority.

When sororities cut girls, it because they’re looking for a match. When a girl cuts a sorority, it’s because she’s a snob, is that what you’re saying? Because that’s what you’re saying.

Definitely not a two way street. Go through hell and be happy with the result, or you’re an ungrateful whiner. Nice organization you have there.

It is absolutely a two way street. The houses rank girls, girls rank houses. Yeah that sounds bad but then the computer matches it all up and if they are not happy with their remaining choices, the girls drop out. Anyone can get into a sorority (at most schools), IF you are open minded about the choices and give the houses that want them a chance. Yes there may be houses that the girls have left that they don't want. No harm no foul, they can drop out and try again during COB or next formal rush.

Those houses don't want them, they want any warm body willing to pay does

if you knew anything about the greek system, you'd know that the "lower tier" houses have some of the best sisterhoods. They are just often not as social as the others. All depends on what you want but no they are not looking for a warm body. Those houses will not last long.

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Anonymous wrote:I find it sort of hilarious that DCUM loves asking about how to dress WASPy and what and what isn't classy, and how to appear upper class, but loses its mind when faced with the prospect of sorority recruitment because it's too white and too elitist. Ya'll better pull the mote out of your own eye.

The same people who like greek life as it is are the ones who want to look ''classy.''

No. People who are in sororities don't need to ask an anonymous message board how to dress, act, network or decorate. Sororities do an excellent job providing this training.

Awesome! More young women should be allowed into sororities, then. We could all use that training.

Every NPC rush in the country guarantees a bid for every young woman who completes recruitment. It may not be a bid to her first choice, but everyone gets a bid. Placement rates at even the most competitive campuses is over 90%. Many of the people who don't get bids drop out early because they don't like the choices they have left. It's not that the sororities cut young women. It's that young women cut sororities because they had their heart set on a "top tier" sorority and didn't get invited back and weren't willing to accept a bid from a "lesser" sorority.

don't know about NPC but I do know that there are absolutely schools that guarantee a bid if you continue through the rush process and don't suicide bid. As PP noted, the problem is that many girls drop out simply because they got cut by the "popular" houses. Also, once cut, if the girl drops out of rush, she's eligible for COB (continuous open bidding) and even heard of girls getting into houses that dropped them during formal rush. SO the net net, is there is room for everyone who is interested, but the girls have to be just as open minded as you want the houses to be and not have pre-conceived notions about a particular house because it's not "top tier" (which is again meaningless and those are not really the best houses just the most popular)

You keep blaming girls for wanting “top tier” and “popular” houses but if there are 13 houses and a girl gets one bid at the end of the week that’s literally the only one the girl didn’t want, you’re telling her to take it, or she’s an ungrateful snob. You grown women who support this bs are horrendous. Blaming 18 year old girls who want to find a place to belong for not wanting one house as of this is THIER problem. There are 12 houses they would have been happy with. If they don’t end up with three houses to pick from on the last night, that’s on YOU. Organize a more humane rush or quit pretending it has anything to do with “matching”.

Calm down. NO ONE is telling the girls they are ungrateful snobs but YOU. Just people said that sororities are difficult to get into or exclusionary and that's not 100% true. there ARE houses you can get into. Whether or not the girl wants it, is her choice entirely, but people on this board make it seem that 1000 girls rush and 200 get in. In reality, 1000 may rush, 400 probably drop out and the rest find a home.

That's 40% that dropped/didn't get a house they wanted. That's not a few people don't find a house

But my point is how do they know those houses are the places they should be? They dropped before even getting to know them, which is honestly just like the houses dropping the girls at the first cut. but regardless again, it's a tough process and yeah some people hate it. Some enjoy it. No need to get yourself all in a huff about it. If your DD doesn't want to rush, she shouldn't. If she does, I'm just trying to give the advice to get to know the houses that you have left even if you have a painful cut.

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Anonymous wrote:I find it sort of hilarious that DCUM loves asking about how to dress WASPy and what and what isn't classy, and how to appear upper class, but loses its mind when faced with the prospect of sorority recruitment because it's too white and too elitist. Ya'll better pull the mote out of your own eye.

The same people who like greek life as it is are the ones who want to look ''classy.''

No. People who are in sororities don't need to ask an anonymous message board how to dress, act, network or decorate. Sororities do an excellent job providing this training.

Awesome! More young women should be allowed into sororities, then. We could all use that training.

Every NPC rush in the country guarantees a bid for every young woman who completes recruitment. It may not be a bid to her first choice, but everyone gets a bid. Placement rates at even the most competitive campuses is over 90%. Many of the people who don't get bids drop out early because they don't like the choices they have left. It's not that the sororities cut young women. It's that young women cut sororities because they had their heart set on a "top tier" sorority and didn't get invited back and weren't willing to accept a bid from a "lesser" sorority.

When sororities cut girls, it because they’re looking for a match. When a girl cuts a sorority, it’s because she’s a snob, is that what you’re saying? Because that’s what you’re saying.

Definitely not a two way street. Go through hell and be happy with the result, or you’re an ungrateful whiner. Nice organization you have there.

It is absolutely a two way street. The houses rank girls, girls rank houses. Yeah that sounds bad but then the computer matches it all up and if they are not happy with their remaining choices, the girls drop out. Anyone can get into a sorority (at most schools), IF you are open minded about the choices and give the houses that want them a chance. Yes there may be houses that the girls have left that they don't want. No harm no foul, they can drop out and try again during COB or next formal rush.

Those houses don't want them, they want any warm body willing to pay does

This.

And COB is just a few spots and in just a few houses. It’s also pretty hard to get excited about putting yourself out there again after such a painful week. And very few sophomores rush and there are only a few spots for them. This isn’t half as easy as they want it to sound. But they like it this way. How are they supposed to feel the thrill of the hierarchy if there aren’t heart-broken girls at the end?