Am I being paranoid?

[Anonymous]

Can someone link to OP response in the cheating spouse thread? I did a search and can’t find it.

[Anonymous]

No you're not. You're concerns are reasonable. Ask him about it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No you're not. You're concerns are reasonable. Ask him about it.

Read the thread before responding. She did a follow up on another thread. DH has a baby on the way with Tutor.

[Anonymous]

Can someone link to OP response in the cheating spouse thread? I did a search and can’t find it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op, how is your sex life? Start pleasing him more and you would get an answer if he pushes you away.

That train has left the station.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Probably are being paranoid. You spend too much time on these boards, which are obsessed with cheating.

Um, ya. That’s because it happens a good amount!
If it will happen it will happen with or without your worry or actions

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
My DH loves to learn languages, and in the past six months he has been meeting with a tutor who is a graduate student. I work pretty long hours, including weeks when I have to travel out of town. We have a good relationship overall including our intimate relationship, and we're both about 50 and in good health and fit. One kid, who just went off to college last year (we started early). I've met the tutor, who is in her late 20s and attractive, and she seems very nice and professional and all but lately it has been bothering me that they sometimes meet when I am out of town. Am I being paranoid? I have no evidence that he's ever been unfaithful to me.

Random but us having an 18 year old at age 50 considered “starting early?”