Description of Married/Partnered Cheaters without Very Specific Details

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I had an experience with a man who tested my boundaries, and he told me that he had had an affair with a woman who worked with his wife in the same relatively small workplace, where his wife was a senior person. I recall thinking that was passive-aggressive behavior and very irresponsible as it could have adversely affected those two women's careers. He seemed like a nice enough guy, other than the hitting on women while married, but that story in particular bothered me.

Super disrespectful of his wife's career.

[Anonymous]

There are some well known men in DC who have gone through a succession of affair partners while married. Names you might have heard of.

[Anonymous]

Cheating stats say 25-75% of people cheat. So isn't the description pretty much everyone and certainly most men with a sex drive? Not to say I won't be friends with men but I assume they will all sleep with me if I put out the signal

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Cheating stats say 25-75% of people cheat. So isn't the description pretty much everyone and certainly most men with a sex drive? Not to say I won't be friends with men but I assume they will all sleep with me if I put out the signal[[b]/quote]

In many cases a woman is actually groomed or developed slowly. As another poster put it going from "finding a man not at all physically attractive to finding him hard to resist". The men get away with their serial cheating and are never outed because the women feel guilt, shame and stupidity for falling for the slow cultivation and participating in an extramarital affair, and know that they will be judged harshly by society as sluts who (as the previous poster just said above) "put out the signal" even if that is not the case. Some men are very good at slowly grooming women into affairs who would otherwise not have initiated or participated in such. Truth. The men who are best at this game, and I have seen some powerful married men see a number of women on the side over the years in my professional cohort, also have a way of keeping their former partners satisfied long term by adeptly continuing a professional connection that continues to benefit the parties long after the affair is over.

[Anonymous]

In many cases a woman is actually groomed or developed slowly. As another poster put it going from "finding a man not at all physically attractive to finding him hard to resist". The men get away with their serial cheating and are never outed because the women feel guilt, shame and stupidity for falling for the slow cultivation and participating in an extramarital affair, and know that they will be judged harshly by society as sluts who (as the previous poster just said above) "put out the signal" even if that is not the case. Some men are very good at slowly grooming women into affairs who would otherwise not have initiated or participated in such. Truth. The men who are best at this game, and I have seen some powerful married men see a number of women on the side over the years in my professional cohort, also have a way of keeping their former partners satisfied long term by adeptly continuing a professional connection that continues to benefit the parties long after the affair is over.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:In many cases a woman is actually groomed or developed slowly. As another poster put it going from "finding a man not at all physically attractive to finding him hard to resist". The men get away with their serial cheating and are never outed because the women feel guilt, shame and stupidity for falling for the slow cultivation and participating in an extramarital affair, and know that they will be judged harshly by society as sluts who (as the previous poster just said above) "put out the signal" even if that is not the case. Some men are very good at slowly grooming women into affairs who would otherwise not have initiated or participated in such. Truth. The men who are best at this game, and I have seen some powerful married men see a number of women on the side over the years in my professional cohort, also have a way of keeping their former partners satisfied long term by adeptly continuing a professional connection that continues to benefit the parties long after the affair is over.

Oh come on with the married women were groomed and didn’t realize it. In 2021- many if the women are the aggressors. And Ashley Madison is booming with married women stepping out on their husbands looking for Mr Goodd@@ck.

[Anonymous]

Yes, some women no doubt sexually initiate or are equal participants in the affairs inception. But, likewise, some men carefully groom women who otherwise would not have initiated or participated in an affair, into having one.

[Anonymous]

I’m so tempted to out a m*thaf****ker but it is the sabbath.

Check back tomorrow.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m so tempted to out a m*thaf****ker but it is the sabbath.

Check back tomorrow.

And you will be outed right back

Be careful what you start...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:In many cases a woman is actually groomed or developed slowly. As another poster put it going from "finding a man not at all physically attractive to finding him hard to resist". The men get away with their serial cheating and are never outed because the women feel guilt, shame and stupidity for falling for the slow cultivation and participating in an extramarital affair, and know that they will be judged harshly by society as sluts who (as the previous poster just said above) "put out the signal" even if that is not the case. Some men are very good at slowly grooming women into affairs who would otherwise not have initiated or participated in such. Truth. The men who are best at this game, and I have seen some powerful married men see a number of women on the side over the years in my professional cohort, also have a way of keeping their former partners satisfied long term by adeptly continuing a professional connection that continues to benefit the parties long after the affair is over.

Oh come on with the married women were groomed and didn’t realize it. In 2021- many if the women are the aggressors. And Ashley Madison is booming with married women stepping out on their husbands looking for Mr Goodd@@ck.

Yep. In the 25-40 age group married women cheat more than men. In the older age groups they are approaching equal numbers.

Sure women invited men into their home to f@@ck them were “unsuspecting” Maybe they can get their husbands to buy that schtick...or he drove them to it cr@p.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m so tempted to out a m*thaf****ker but it is the sabbath.

Check back tomorrow.

So your AP dumped you.

[Anonymous]

Or alternatively, begin to heal yourself with the truth. There is no reason to protect men who cheat on their wives, groom affair partners, use and discard them. Disrespectful treatment of women does not merit kindness or sympathy.

[Anonymous]

Do emotional affairs count?

[Anonymous]

Is this a thread for all of the scorned APs who didn’t get the happy ending and got dumped? Now they want to out their ex-AP?

Or for APs hoping the wife recognizes a description and it causes his marriage to blow up do she can act innocent and welcome him with open arms?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Cheating stats say 25-75% of people cheat. So isn't the description pretty much everyone and certainly most men with a sex drive? Not to say I won't be friends with men but I assume they will all sleep with me if I put out the signal

That's a huge range. What are the actual cheating stats, I wonder? A legitimate source?