On a safari, should I try to have a fling with the guide??

Ask him to have a drink with you when he is done with work. And take it from there.

Be prepared that he might not fraternize with the clientele. Maybe his employer prohibits romance with the clients - you may be putting him in an awkward position. Or maybe he's flirting with you to get a bigger tip.

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04/21/2021 13:33

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Anonymous wrote:OP here - late 20s - typo ok my first post. Yes, safe sex of course.

But how do I make this happen? I feel like all my game has evaporated this past pandemic year

Obviously you ask him to take you to where the tourists don't go - off the beaten track, etc. Or possibly a walk along a river to see a hippopotamus. The animals are out at twilight, then linger ... all the while asking him all sorts of questions so he can feel like you are really interested. Then when you are standing (or sitting) close to him, lean a bit closer ... possibly it is chillier than you would have thought, should have brought a sweater ... etc etc etc

- Former development worker

Great tips. I respect your game.

- OP

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04/21/2021 13:35

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In your type of work I'm sure you know the AIDS statistics in sub-Saharan Africa. In his work there is someone like you 2x/month and other local ladies in between. Proceed according to this background.

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04/21/2021 13:38

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Anonymous wrote:You’re not his type.

Killjoy. Of course you are. He's what? South African? From Namibia? Just be aware that some of them are really fundamentalist Christian.

Offspring of the Happy Valley set. So old money and hedonistic.

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04/21/2021 13:38

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Anonymous wrote:You’re not his type.

Jealous hater alert!!! Of course, go for it. He's into you.

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04/21/2021 13:39

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If it’s a deserted small lodge he’s probably pretty lonely. How many hot young single women does he get as guests? I’d guess most of them are more like the typical DCUM reader...more money than looks (including myself in that category).

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04/21/2021 13:39

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Go for it. Watch Holiday in the Wild on Netflix for inspiration. Rob Lowe and Kristin Davis can show you how it’s done.

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04/21/2021 13:40

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PS you also are required to write this up as a hallmark movie. Or if you’re really talented, could be a Netflix rom com.