On a safari, should I try to have a fling with the guide??

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ask him to have a drink with you when he is done with work. And take it from there.

Be prepared that he might not fraternize with the clientele. Maybe his employer prohibits romance with the clients - you may be putting him in an awkward position. Or maybe he's flirting with you to get a bigger tip.

Duh. OP is like the woman who used to frequently post here convinced that her trainer was hot for her. Neither seem to get this is how people get repeat business and referrals.

[Anonymous]

Nope

[Anonymous]

I am also a development worker. I assume you have safeguarding training to consider some of the power dynamics likely at play, even if he isn't a participant.

Hell, I'd say that regardless of the environment.

[Anonymous]

No way.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:On that continent, you would be wise to insist on condoms.

WTF?? As if you can only get STD's in Africa?? I guess every other country is STD free?? That comment was so racist.

[Anonymous]

Having worked in an overseas adventure destination when I was younger, this doesn't happen. He would have had sex with you.

So if OP didn’t want to have sex the guide would have raped her?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:On that continent, you would be wise to insist on condoms.

WTF?? As if you can only get STD's in Africa?? I guess every other country is STD free?? That comment was so racist.

Or maybe we could just edit the original quote to say "Insist on condoms"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Man, I was hoping to read he mounted and road you like a wild boar.

meh, he was a white boarding school, Oxbridge, trust fund finance drop out, and likely even British. lost the wild-boarness hundreds of years ago