Husbands: do you secretly compare your wife to other wives?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Notice differences? Sure. Compare? No.

I also NEVER fantasize about another women while we are being intimate even if there are others present.

There are "others present" while you are being intimate with your wife?

[Anonymous]

I see other wives being loving and affectionate to their husbands in public and yeah, my wife suffers in comparison because she's not even loving and affectionate to me in private let alone in public.

This is among the reasons she is STBXW.

[Anonymous]

My husband tells me all the time how proud he is of me relative to other wives especially when I score big professional wins.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My husband tells me all the time how proud he is of me relative to other wives especially when I score big professional wins.

If you were fat or denying him sex he wouldn't give a damn about your "professional wins".

[Anonymous]

I praise her all the time. I also purposely sometimes mention women I work with, how much I like talking to them, how other guys make comments about how good they look, etc.

This balance lets her know who much I am attracted to her but also keeps her on her toes knowing that I find other women attractive too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I praise her all the time. I also purposely sometimes mention women I work with, how much I like talking to them, how other guys make comments about how good they look, etc.

This balance lets her know who much I am attracted to her but also keeps her on her toes knowing that I find other women attractive too.

"Keeps her on her toes"?

Why play those games. No thanks.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I see other wives being loving and affectionate to their husbands in public and yeah, my wife suffers in comparison because she's not even loving and affectionate to me in private let alone in public.

This is among the reasons she is STBXW.

My husband found this thread! Just pull the trigger already...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My husband tells me all the time how proud he is of me relative to other wives especially when I score big professional wins.

If you were fat or denying him sex he wouldn't give a damn about your "professional wins".

I’m not fat or thin but we have a happy sex life, healthy bank account, healthy children, beautiful home with affordable mortgage. All is well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My husband tells me all the time how proud he is of me relative to other wives especially when I score big professional wins.

If you were fat or denying him sex he wouldn't give a damn about your "professional wins".

I call BS. No matter how in shape I get or how much we have sex, my DH constantly complains I’m not as professionally advanced as him. No sh*t I’m not, he’s almost 10 years older than me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My husband tells me all the time how proud he is of me relative to other wives especially when I score big professional wins.

If you were fat or denying him sex he wouldn't give a damn about your "professional wins".

I call BS. No matter how in shape I get or how much we have sex, my DH constantly complains I’m not as professionally advanced as him. No sh*t I’m not, he’s almost 10 years older than me.

Not BS. If you were fat or denying him sex, I guarantee you he'd care about that much, much more than your "professional advancement". But he wouldn't stop constantly complaining, it would just be about the lack of sex instead.

To be honest, I have never met a man who says anything about his wife's "professional advancement".

[Anonymous]

No, but I do compare her to herself. She’s gained a bunch of weight and it really turns me off

[Anonymous]

I'm divorced now but I did. I noticed that my friend's wives worked hard, and never put their husbands down, especially in front of other people.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I praise her all the time. I also purposely sometimes mention women I work with, how much I like talking to them, how other guys make comments about how good they look, etc.

This balance lets her know who much I am attracted to her but also keeps her on her toes knowing that I find other women attractive too.

Playing those bullshit games with me would simply earn you a spot in the guest bedroom and an untouched weiner. Grow up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I praise her all the time. I also purposely sometimes mention women I work with, how much I like talking to them, how other guys make comments about how good they look, etc.

This balance lets her know who much I am attracted to her but also keeps her on her toes knowing that I find other women attractive too.

Playing those bullshit games with me would simply earn you a spot in the guest bedroom and an untouched weiner. Grow up.

+1. I had a bf who tried that on me. I told him to see if those women would be interested, because I certainly wasn’t.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My husband tells me all the time how proud he is of me relative to other wives especially when I score big professional wins.

If you were fat or denying him sex he wouldn't give a damn about your "professional wins".

I call BS. No matter how in shape I get or how much we have sex, my DH constantly complains I’m not as professionally advanced as him. No sh*t I’m not, he’s almost 10 years older than me.

Not BS. If you were fat or denying him sex, I guarantee you he'd care about that much, much more than your "professional advancement". But he wouldn't stop constantly complaining, it would just be about the lack of sex instead.

To be honest, I have never met a man who says anything about his wife's "professional advancement".

Totally agree. I don’t know any happily married men I work with talking about professional attainment of their wives. I call troll doing some reverse psychology.