What do your kids call their friends parents

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Unless a parent indicates otherwise, we emphasize the use of "Mr. and Mrs. Lastname."

We've found a lot of our younger DD's friends use "Miss First Name or Mr. First Name". Which drives me nuts. We aren't your preschool teachers.

That might be cultural. In the south that is very common.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Amazed at all the people going by Mr. and Mrs.!!! I haven't changed my last name and go by Ms. Maiden Name so that wouldn't work anyway. DH and I go by first names and I encourage DCs to call other parents by their first names too.

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Same here. Ms. first name is fine with me from my first-grader's friends.

[Anonymous]

My children's principal is a friend of my mothers. We are in a private school where parents always address administration by their first names. I just can't do it when I speak with her. She is Mrs. Smith. By now, everyone knows our history and laughs at me when we're in a room with others.

[Anonymous]

Kids are in middle school. We do Ms. Firstname and Mr Firstname


There are a few adults in our lives that are just firstname, but they are not the parent's of their friends.

[Anonymous]

I prefer "Ms Firstname" or "Larla's mom." I wouldn't mind "Ms Lastname" but would find it (charmingly) old-fashioned.

Most of my DC's friends use one of the above. One of my oldest DS' friends comes from a very hippie home and calls me "Firstname." I don't love it but seeing that the friend's parents encourage my DS to call them by their first names only, I leave it alone.

[Anonymous]

We all go by first names only.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Amazed at all the people going by Mr. and Mrs.!!! I haven't changed my last name and go by Ms. Maiden Name so that wouldn't work anyway. DH and I go by first names and I encourage DCs to call other parents by their first names too.

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Same here. Ms. first name is fine with me from my first-grader's friends.

You do know that this will not keep you from being an adult. We all grow up.

I.e., “you don’t have to call me Mrs. Smith, Mrs. Smith is MY mother!” — you are a parent, own it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Amazed at all the people going by Mr. and Mrs.!!! I haven't changed my last name and go by Ms. Maiden Name so that wouldn't work anyway. DH and I go by first names and I encourage DCs to call other parents by their first names too.
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Same here. Ms. first name is fine with me from my first-grader's friends.


You do know that this will not keep you from being an adult. We all grow up.

I.e., “you don’t have to call me Mrs. Smith, Mrs. Smith is MY mother!” — you are a parent, own it.

Very confused by this. I am fully grown up, didn't realize changing my name and becoming a Mrs. was a requirement for that. I just gently say, don't call me Mrs. LastName, just call me FirstName.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Unless a parent indicates otherwise, we emphasize the use of "Mr. and Mrs. Lastname."

We've found a lot of our younger DD's friends use "Miss First Name or Mr. First Name". Which drives me nuts. We aren't your preschool teachers.

Mr/Mrs first name for us. Why are preschool teachers less deserving of respect than you?

[Anonymous]

^^ I thought the preschool comparison was bizarre. I'm glad I'm not the only one .

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We all go by first names only.

Same here. But all grandparents get the Mr/Mrs/Ms, unless otherwise requested.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Kids should ask. I always asked my friends parents what they would like me to call them. Especially when sometimes they prefer Mizz. Dr. or Colonel (Military family) or they have a totally different last name than the kid. Most said their first name was fine. Where I drew the line was calling some one simply Sir or Ma'am. Give me a name because I am not calling you Sir or Ma'am.

Really, you asked them what they would like to be called as a kindergartner? Because that’s what OP is asking.

Default is Mr and Mrs Lastname.

[Anonymous]

All first names, they usually ask and often refer to them as "Sam's mom or dad" but not a single one of their friends parents has asked or required being Mr or Mrs X. You all sound so old fashioned.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My H and I are laid back too and would be ok being called by first name. I just had this exact conversation with a group of friends and my friend's husband wants to be called [prefix] first name...so either Mr First name, Coach first name (he coaches a sport team that many of our boys are on). My other friend wants to be Ms. first name.

When I was growing up, I called my friends' parents Mr/Mrs. Last name and my parents' friends by their first names.

This is how I grew up too. I guess because my parents and their friends were a pretty laid-back group, but there was still a cultural expectation that you'd call most adults Mrs. And Mr. Last name (I'm 40 fwiw). I find myself doing the same with my kids. They call my friends--whom they've known their whole lives-- by their first name, but parents of their friends Mr. And Mrs.

[Anonymous]

She calls them all by first name. I've told her to call them Mrs. Last Name until they say "Oh, call me Larla." They all do that the first time she calls them Mrs. Or she's flat out introduced to them as Larla, Marla's mom.