Found out wife was having an affair
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Anonymous
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Are you in MD? The law states that if a child is brought into the marriage it is your financial responsibility even if it is not yours. So if you are not separated by the time the baby is born and it is NOT yours she can sue YOU for child support.
Kick her out of the house immediately and file for separation. You might reconcile but you need to protect your interests. |
Anonymous
More than that to do what? File for divorce? Uh, anyone can file for divorce for whatever reason. |
Anonymous
| She left evidence on a tablet. |
Anonymous
Not in MD. |
Anonymous
That's so messed up. |
Anonymous
| do you know the other guy? |
Anonymous
to prove she is having an affair. |
Anonymous
| Just texts? |
Anonymous
| Met him once or twice. |
Anonymous
Yeah, but to what end? |
Anonymous
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This is why people on Maury would jump up and down when the test told them they weren't the father. It must be so freeing to narrowly avoid a lifelong attachment to someone despicable.
Hugs, OP. This really really sucks. |
Anonymous
| Ya know the sad thing? I always thought I had a good marriage. I always thought these stories happen, but it would never happen to me. Oh how wrong I was. |
Anonymous
| get out before the kid is born in case it is not yours. You do not want to be stuck paying child support for someon else child. What if its the AP and she marries him and you are paying child support for their child! |
Anonymous
| The baby makes this very tricky. Assuming you are/were excited about the baby, I'm so sorry OP. You need to tell her that you know about the affair and ask her to leave. Insist that a paternity test be conducted in utero and tell her that until you know that the baby is yours you don't want to speak with her. |
Anonymous
| Yeah tell me about it. The question is do I even confront her, or just go to a lawyer and get papers written up, and serve them to her. |