Is it rude of me to ask a bridesmaid to step down? Here is why..

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:isn't it already weird that fiance has less attendants than you? I would just add 2 to his side to even things up.

Fewer

Davos in the house.

[Anonymous]

If you want to ask her, ask her! You are way overthinking this. No one will notice or care if your sides are uneven. Have 2 bridesmaids walk down alone first, and then the next 5 paired up. Not worth thinking about this one more second.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Have her stand with the grooms side - wear a dress that matches the suits, and then the lines won't be offset.

This!

And by "her" it is the niece of course. Not the high school friend you want to diss. But really, I would add the niece and not drop the friend!!! So rude to retract. Impossibly rude.

[Anonymous]

Don't do it. So rude. totally unacceptable. Find another solution.

[Anonymous]

I can't believe this is a real question. It's beyond rude.

Have the niece stand with the groomsmen.

[Anonymous]

Horrifically rude. Don't do it.

[Anonymous]

It's hard to take you seriously about anything she. You first said you wanted 8 bridesmaids. WOW.

Don't be a d*ck. Let the niece give a reading or something.

[Anonymous]

Unbelievably rude to want to drop your friend for such a dumb reason. Not because of adding the niece but because of "uneven numbers". WTF.

The fact that you have to even ask this question tells me all I need to know.

[Anonymous]

You are mature enough to get married. Just ask your fiancé's niece to be a bridesmaid. It doesn't matter if the sides are uneven. No one cares but you.

[Anonymous]

The number of bridesmaids is unimportant. Unimportant for it to match the number of groomsmen - or for any reason. There is NO possible reason.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You are mature enough to get married. Just ask your fiancé's niece to be a bridesmaid. It doesn't matter if the sides are uneven. No one cares but you.

*NOT mature enough

[Anonymous]

Let me get this straight. You want to drop a bridesmaid because of uneven numbers. But, but, but. Then you want to add a bridesmaid because you like this niece. I don't understand this logic.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:isn't it already weird that fiance has less attendants than you? I would just add 2 to his side to even things up.

Fewer

Davos in the house.

WTF is a Davos? City in Switzerland? Weirdo.

Yeah OP, rude. You sound high maintenance.

[Anonymous]

Have the niece wear a black dress if she looks good in black and stand with the groom.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:isn't it already weird that fiance has less attendants than you? I would just add 2 to his side to even things up.

Fewer

Davos in the house.

WTF is a Davos? City in Switzerland? Weirdo.

Yeah OP, rude. You sound high maintenance.

NP. You must be one of the 6 people who doesn't watch GoT. That's Game of Thrones in case you're unaware. Davos is a character who learned to read as an adult, and recently corrected someone who said less instead of fewer. It was funny, not weird.