How do I go back to his place and watch a movie without having sex? Is that possible?

[Anonymous]

When you're at his place he is definitely going to try to have sex with you, so don't even go there until you're ready to get it on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Just don't go to his place if you're not interested in getting intimate. Pretty simple.

Yupperdo.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:When you're at his place he is definitely going to try to have sex with you, so don't even go there until you're ready to get it on.

Yep

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'm a pretty open person and would say upfront "I know what Netflix and chill really means, but I really like you and don't want to mess it up by moving too fast." If he's cool and likes you too, he'll get it.

Also, wear something super annoying to unfasten/get off so there's time to stop yourself have fun!

I agree with this except the "stop yourself" part. If you want to have sex, then go ahead and have sex.

This.
- married for 19 years, after having sex on the second date

Agree (also had sex with my DH on our second date)

OP is not asking if it's okay to have sex on the second date so calm down.

Op has stated she doesn't want to have sex and is looking or tips.

[Anonymous]

I just wouldn't go to his place. Maybe I'm way off but I feel like if I go to a date's place for part of the date, he'll be expecting sex. I'd rather avoid the awkwardness of turning him down, if I'm not into it yet.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm a pretty open person and would say upfront "I know what Netflix and chill really means, but I really like you and don't want to mess it up by moving too fast." If he's cool and likes you too, he'll get it.

Also, wear something super annoying to unfasten/get off so there's time to stop yourself have fun!

I agree with this except the "stop yourself" part. If you want to have sex, then go ahead and have sex.

This.
- married for 19 years, after having sex on the second date

Agree (also had sex with my DH on our second date)

OP is not asking if it's okay to have sex on the second date so calm down.

Op has stated she doesn't want to have sex and is looking or tips.

I am perfectly calm. Just wanted to indicate that if she doesn't because she thinks if they do that he will think she's easy and not want to continue the relationship, that that's not always the case.

[Anonymous]

I'd just be up front about it op.

"Hey I'm really into you but I'm not quite ready to take it to the next step. Mostly BECAUSE of how much I like you. I wouldn't normally lay this all out there but I know what coming over for a movie might imply! Can we just cuddle/make out tonight?"

Any decent guy will be fine with it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'd just be up front about it op.

"Hey I'm really into you but I'm not quite ready to take it to the next step. Mostly BECAUSE of how much I like you. I wouldn't normally lay this all out there but I know what coming over for a movie might imply! Can we just cuddle/make out tonight?"

Any decent guy will be fine with it.

Why does she need to sound apologetic for not being ready to have sex? Why does she need to makeup for it by offering cuddling and making out?

Not being ready is complete on it's own.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'd just be up front about it op.

"Hey I'm really into you but I'm not quite ready to take it to the next step. Mostly BECAUSE of how much I like you. I wouldn't normally lay this all out there but I know what coming over for a movie might imply! Can we just cuddle/make out tonight?"

Any decent guy will be fine with it.

This makes it sound like she jumps on guys she doesn't even like. Not very flattering impression.

[Anonymous]

Don't shave your legs.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't go to a guy's place on the second date. He would obviously try to have sex. I would suggest something else.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Don't shave your legs.

Yep. And wear ugly grandma underwear.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Don't shave your legs.

Yep. And wear ugly grandma underwear.

And don't wash your vajayjay for 3 days prior. To be sure that will be a deterrent to one or both of you.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Don't shave your legs.

Yep. And wear ugly grandma underwear.

And don't wash your vajayjay for 3 days prior. To be sure that will be a deterrent to one or both of you.

No, that's just a deterrent against cunnilingus. Maybe.

[Anonymous]

Don't be a tease, and don't lead him on.