How do people secretly communicate with AP?

[Anonymous]

Some people actually communicate via dcum. Not for planning phrposes but basically love notes.

[Anonymous]

Google chat (hangouts), always delete history. Work phone for calls or text messages.

[Anonymous]

Morse code. I like below.

**_* *_ _ * *_ _ _ *** *!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Morse code. I like below.

**_* *_ _ * *_ _ _ *** *!

Dammit, what does that say, AP? I lost my key!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:With today's technology, it's beyond easy to communicate with anyone and not get caught. I'm actually dumbfounded at people in affairs who do get caught. It's like they want to be found out.

sometimes the technology can trip you up - like butt dialing your DW when with AP - oops

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:With today's technology, it's beyond easy to communicate with anyone and not get caught. I'm actually dumbfounded at people in affairs who do get caught. It's like they want to be found out.

sometimes the technology can trip you up - like butt dialing your DW when with AP - oops

I have done this. Hard to explain the steamy conversation

[Anonymous]

I had a burner phone and prepaid with cash. Met AP at a bar and was concerned about getting caught. I did the following:

1) Met her at places that I would never go to in places of town that I never went to.

2) Told her that I hated social media and that I avoided it like the plague. Told her that my only phone was my burner phone.

3) Lied to her about where I worked (I told her that I worked as a consultant at the department of homeland security and that my job was not that exciting but not something that I was allowed to talk about).

4) Did not do any pictures with her

5) Did not talk a whole lot about my life with her.

I made it clear that all I wanted to do was have sex and that was cool for while. After about 6 months she started to really push me on some issues and I broke it off with her. She lost her mind and told me that she was going to call my wife. Too bad she had no idea who I was and no idea how to contact me. All she had was a telephone # which I trashed after a week of hysterical text messages.

If you are planning to have an affair, first don't! The fantasies about great sex was not worth the strain of maybe getting caught. I was smart enough to make it less likely but by no means was it foolproof. After throwing the phone away I went home and for the first time in more than 1/2 a year truly relaxed. Never told wife about the affair and I never will.

Its been a couple of years and I think I'm in the clear but I will never be certain that I might run into her somewhere and the cards could come crashing down. My plan would be to lie and deny but who knows if that would work?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I had a burner phone and prepaid with cash. Met AP at a bar and was concerned about getting caught. I did the following:

1) Met her at places that I would never go to in places of town that I never went to.

2) Told her that I hated social media and that I avoided it like the plague. Told her that my only phone was my burner phone.

3) Lied to her about where I worked (I told her that I worked as a consultant at the department of homeland security and that my job was not that exciting but not something that I was allowed to talk about).

4) Did not do any pictures with her

5) Did not talk a whole lot about my life with her.

I made it clear that all I wanted to do was have sex and that was cool for while. After about 6 months she started to really push me on some issues and I broke it off with her. She lost her mind and told me that she was going to call my wife. Too bad she had no idea who I was and no idea how to contact me. All she had was a telephone # which I trashed after a week of hysterical text messages.

If you are planning to have an affair, first don't! The fantasies about great sex was not worth the strain of maybe getting caught. I was smart enough to make it less likely but by no means was it foolproof. After throwing the phone away I went home and for the first time in more than 1/2 a year truly relaxed. Never told wife about the affair and I never will.

Its been a couple of years and I think I'm in the clear but I will never be certain that I might run into her somewhere and the cards could come crashing down. My plan would be to lie and deny but who knows if that would work?

Most people affair with people they actually know, though. Not with randoms they pick up at a bar. So anonymity wouldn't work in a majority of cases. But, that story is hilarious.

[Anonymous]

^Yup. Affair with somebody we knew. He knows where we live (and vice versa). But I'm NOT a bunny boiler. And he wouldn't come near our house, I'm certain he'd be too scared he'd be caught.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I had a burner phone and prepaid with cash. Met AP at a bar and was concerned about getting caught. I did the following:

1) Met her at places that I would never go to in places of town that I never went to.

2) Told her that I hated social media and that I avoided it like the plague. Told her that my only phone was my burner phone.

3) Lied to her about where I worked (I told her that I worked as a consultant at the department of homeland security and that my job was not that exciting but not something that I was allowed to talk about).

4) Did not do any pictures with her

5) Did not talk a whole lot about my life with her.

I made it clear that all I wanted to do was have sex and that was cool for while. After about 6 months she started to really push me on some issues and I broke it off with her. She lost her mind and told me that she was going to call my wife. Too bad she had no idea who I was and no idea how to contact me. All she had was a telephone # which I trashed after a week of hysterical text messages.

If you are planning to have an affair, first don't! The fantasies about great sex was not worth the strain of maybe getting caught. I was smart enough to make it less likely but by no means was it foolproof. After throwing the phone away I went home and for the first time in more than 1/2 a year truly relaxed. Never told wife about the affair and I never will.

Its been a couple of years and I think I'm in the clear but I will never be certain that I might run into her somewhere and the cards could come crashing down. My plan would be to lie and deny but who knows if that would work?

Most people affair with people they actually know, though. Not with randoms they pick up at a bar. So anonymity wouldn't work in a majority of cases. But, that story is hilarious.

I remember meeting a guy once online who told me his name was (let's say) Bob Smith. We went out for drinks and I caught a glimpse of his ID and his name was different. I assume he was married/didn't want me to be able to track him down.

Did your AP know your real name? Your whole name? The part of town you lived in? Your license plate #?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I had a burner phone and prepaid with cash. Met AP at a bar and was concerned about getting caught. I did the following:

1) Met her at places that I would never go to in places of town that I never went to.

2) Told her that I hated social media and that I avoided it like the plague. Told her that my only phone was my burner phone.

3) Lied to her about where I worked (I told her that I worked as a consultant at the department of homeland security and that my job was not that exciting but not something that I was allowed to talk about).

4) Did not do any pictures with her

5) Did not talk a whole lot about my life with her.

I made it clear that all I wanted to do was have sex and that was cool for while. After about 6 months she started to really push me on some issues and I broke it off with her. She lost her mind and told me that she was going to call my wife. Too bad she had no idea who I was and no idea how to contact me. All she had was a telephone # which I trashed after a week of hysterical text messages.

If you are planning to have an affair, first don't! The fantasies about great sex was not worth the strain of maybe getting caught. I was smart enough to make it less likely but by no means was it foolproof. After throwing the phone away I went home and for the first time in more than 1/2 a year truly relaxed. Never told wife about the affair and I never will.

Its been a couple of years and I think I'm in the clear but I will never be certain that I might run into her somewhere and the cards could come crashing down. My plan would be to lie and deny but who knows if that would work?

Who would want to have sex with you? You sound like a jerk. Did you pay for it?

[Anonymous]

Never ever ever use social media to communicate or meet an AP. Always in person . It's the easiest way to get tripped up. AP has a condo downtown. In days we meet up I leave work early and we spend together.

[Anonymous]

Secret cell phone.

[Anonymous]

Mainly here. Hi hot stuff. You really rev my engine once I hit the sheets.

Weird dreams though. We're in China running through people's houses escaping certain death or we oddly get manicures together or both.

[Anonymous]

By not having one!