How do people secretly communicate with AP?

[Anonymous]

I travel for work and I have a few APs in various cities. None here where I live.

I have a business trip next month, so I'm flying out an AP to the same city. My meetings are a few days, but the AP will be there just for 24 hours. It will be a whirlwind trip of exploring a new city for both of us, having great conversation, wine, food, and lots of sex too of course. Then I'll drop AP at the airport and continue with my business trip.

We're both looking forward to it. It's the anticipation and the excitement of a frenzied short trip that's not about drudgery but just about fun. We don't text often otherwise -- just a happy new years, see you soon kind of stuff.

You are a narcissistic, selfish POS. Just leave your spouse and give her and your kids a chance to have a partner/parent who cares about them and not just himself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

I travel for work and I have a few APs in various cities. None here where I live.

I have a business trip next month, so I'm flying out an AP to the same city. My meetings are a few days, but the AP will be there just for 24 hours. It will be a whirlwind trip of exploring a new city for both of us, having great conversation, wine, food, and lots of sex too of course. Then I'll drop AP at the airport and continue with my business trip.

We're both looking forward to it. It's the anticipation and the excitement of a frenzied short trip that's not about drudgery but just about fun. We don't text often otherwise -- just a happy new years, see you soon kind of stuff.

You are a narcissistic, selfish POS. Just leave your spouse and give her and your kids a chance to have a partner/parent who cares about them and not just himself.

Aw come on this post isn’t for real. It’s reminiscent of penthouse forum from back in the early 80s. A girl in every port and all that. And good luck PP flying your AP to the “exciting new city” with all the Covid shut downs. You’ll be lucky if y’all get to meet at a Gordon Biersch at the airport.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Questions for the APs that communicate via erasing message app, Words with Friends, burner phone and the like. Why do you live your life this way? Why not have a normal life with normal communication with normal people? Is it that you’re just so into this person that you’ll do whatever nonsensical thing it takes so that you can be with them? Judging by how little the guys seem to think of their APs, the answer apparently would be No. Then why do this? If this is in fact a form of slumming, then what exactly do you get out of the slumming? To me it seems like a shameful addiction. Am I missing something?

Yes, you are missing something. They don't want a normal life. They do it because it's exciting and a dopamine rush and thrilling. The part of about guys thinking so little of their APs is just what a lot of betrayed women would like to believe about APs. Yes, some are just one-night stands and flings, but it's not impossible for a married man to develop feelings outside of his marriage. It happens more often than you think. My ex-H had a affair and he loved her. A lot of these men do.

I’m sorry that happened to you PP. But go back even in this thread and see how the males talk about their female APs and the desire for a low word:sex ratio. These guys hide their APs because they do not care one bit about them and would be embarrassed to be caught with them. Hence the term “dirty little secret.”

You hide an AP because, it's an AP. I'd be proud to be seen with my last AP who was way out of my league but you don't run around in public with an AP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:^^Seems more like it’s from people who want to make other people feel bad about their situations, when they are actually feeling fine.

Yep, a bunch of sexless, bitter, scared housewives will never make me feel bad about the great sex I enjoy with my friends on the side.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Questions for the APs that communicate via erasing message app, Words with Friends, burner phone and the like. Why do you live your life this way? Why not have a normal life with normal communication with normal people? Is it that you’re just so into this person that you’ll do whatever nonsensical thing it takes so that you can be with them? Judging by how little the guys seem to think of their APs, the answer apparently would be No. Then why do this? If this is in fact a form of slumming, then what exactly do you get out of the slumming? To me it seems like a shameful addiction. Am I missing something?

Yes, you are missing something. They don't want a normal life. They do it because it's exciting and a dopamine rush and thrilling. The part of about guys thinking so little of their APs is just what a lot of betrayed women would like to believe about APs. Yes, some are just one-night stands and flings, but it's not impossible for a married man to develop feelings outside of his marriage. It happens more often than you think. My ex-H had a affair and he loved her. A lot of these men do.

I’m sorry that happened to you PP. But go back even in this thread and see how the males talk about their female APs and the desire for a low word:sex ratio. These guys hide their APs because they do not care one bit about them and would be embarrassed to be caught with them. Hence the term “dirty little secret.”

You hide an AP because, it's an AP. I'd be proud to be seen with my last AP who was way out of my league but you don't run around in public with an AP.

You're nothing but a troll with a vivid imagination....lol fyi A woman willing to be a W/AP whatever label isn't a prize. It's called scraping the bottom, but seriously I hope you get solutions to your real issues soon.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:^^Seems more like it’s from people who want to make other people feel bad about their situations, when they are actually feeling fine.

Yep, a bunch of sexless, bitter, scared housewives will never make me feel bad about the great sex I enjoy with my friends on the side.

Sure troll. Be honest you only cheat on your left hand with your right!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:^^Seems more like it’s from people who want to make other people feel bad about their situations, when they are actually feeling fine.

Yep, a bunch of sexless, bitter, scared housewives will never make me feel bad about the great sex I enjoy with my friends on the side.

Sure troll. Be honest you only cheat on your left hand with your right!

Right, PP troll’s post makes him sound like a petulant child shouting at mommy “You can’t make me feel bad!” Ironically, this is foremost a Moms board. If PP troll really has such an exciting life, he wouldn’t be here trolling around and posting with all the bitter sexless housewives/mommy figures lol. This is the last place he’d be if he actually had fabulous exciting women to court, an international man of mystery jet set job, and of course, the savvy to keep up appearances as a great family man to everyone but his own wife.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:^^Seems more like it’s from people who want to make other people feel bad about their situations, when they are actually feeling fine.

Yep, a bunch of sexless, bitter, scared housewives will never make me feel bad about the great sex I enjoy with my friends on the side.

Sure troll. Be honest you only cheat on your left hand with your right!

Right, PP troll’s post makes him sound like a petulant child shouting at mommy “You can’t make me feel bad!” Ironically, this is foremost a Moms board. If PP troll really has such an exciting life, he wouldn’t be here trolling around and posting with all the bitter sexless housewives/mommy figures lol. This is the last place he’d be if he actually had fabulous exciting women to court, an international man of mystery jet set job, and of course, the savvy to keep up appearances as a great family man to everyone but his own wife.

Yep or it's a woman troll. A lot of bored people on here.

[Anonymous]

Yep, a bunch of sexless, bitter, scared housewives will never make me feel bad about the great sex I enjoy with my friends on the side.

What's important is that it still matters to you to remain married to the above